The First Two Years The Ken

Networking can make you feel dirty. It can feel unnatural, forced, and almost cringe to reach out to people for networking.
You know it’s important. You value what a good professional network can do to one's career. Eighty-five percent of jobs are still secured through networking, according to a 2022 LinkedIn survey. Even LinkedIn is built on the premise that professional networks can make you successful. But even the time you got past the initial awkwardness and reached out, it did not fetch you any response.
Then, are there any ways to do it in an authentic way? What kind of people should you attract to your network? On today’s show, host Akshaya Chandrasekaran invades a startup mixer to find out if people actually mix in these mixers.
Santhosh Babu, celebrated executive coach, shares a unique and important framework for creating a healthy network of people who can sail you through. Samyak Daga, Vice-President of The Carlyle Group, shares what kind of requests he approves and which ones he denies help to. Towards the end, we also touch upon less-awkward, and effective networking strategies that actually work.
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This episode was written, hosted, and produced by Akshaya Chandrasekaran with inputs from Snigdha Sharma. The audio engineering is by Rajiv CN. The survey is designed by Anushka Mukherjee. Podcasting is truly an ensemble act. A whole bunch of us had to come together to make this episode happen. By virtue or working together so much, we found a camaraderie. But there is also a friendly rivalry that sets us apart in unique ways. 
A work life without friends is lonely and scary. In fact, the top reason behind job satisfaction is having a work best friend. You stay at the company for longer than you normally would if you have a work friend. You go the extra mile at work if it’s your friend is headlining the project. You are less likely to call in sick at work if you have a work bestie. It’s almost like a best friend at work is a gift that keeps on giving.
Still, one of the most common pieces of career advice we have all received is never to turn your colleagues into friends. Keep it polite. Keep it impersonal. And definitely keep them at a distance. In fact, many employers actively disincentivize forming close work friendships. When do you collaborate? When do you compete? How do you set boundaries between professional and personal?
On today's episode of The First Two Years, I take you into the messiness of work friendships and why so many of us endeavor to make one despite all the complications that come with it.
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What’s the best way to ask for help? Many common, intuitive thinking around asking for help are often huge misconceptions and quite unproductive. Host Akshaya Chandrasekaran digs into the science of why so many of us are willing to offer help but reluctant to ask for it, learns what makes some people better at it than others, and busts lasting myths around what prevents us from unlocking the true benefits of asking for help. This episode features author and professor Wayne Baker, and co-founder and CEO of Home Lane, Srikanth Iyer.
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If you have a career question you want us to cover? Tell us. You can email her at akshaya@the-ken.com. 

This episode was written, hosted, and produced by Akshaya Chandrasekaran with audio engineering by Rajiv CN. 

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Steven Rogelberg, organizational psychologist at UNC Charlotte, has some of the best advice when it comes to making meetings productive at work, especially 1:1 meetings. These are some of my favourite excerpts from Rogelberg's book Glad We Met: The Art and Science of 1:1 Meetings. 

If you have a career question you want us to cover? Tell us. This episode was written and hosted by Akshaya Chandrasekaran, and produced by Anushka Mukherjee, with audio engineering by Rajiv CN. 

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“I don’t add any real value to the team” 

“I don’t know how good any of my ideas are” 

“I am not good enough” 

Imposter syndrome. You’ve probably heard about it. You’re probably experiencing it right now. And you’re not alone. Two weeks back, we at The Ken put out a survey on imposter syndrome. Since then we have received over 115 responses from young professionals in the 18-25 age group. The survey was titled “Are you good enough at your job?”

You probably took the survey. I read and reviewed each and every response and called up over 30 people from the survey who consented to have a follow-up conversation with me. There was only one thing on my mind: why do so many of them in the first two years deal with imposter syndrome? 

Before the survey, we looked at imposter syndrome as something you get over as it hinders progress. But after the survey, it’s clear that small doses of workplace imposter thoughts can fuel your growth and help you get ahead, too. 

Host Akshaya Chandrasekaran will take you inside the minds of fascinating people, highly ambitious and top performers – who all consider themselves imposters at work.

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This episode was written and hosted by Akshaya Chandrasekaran, and produced by Anushka Mukherjee, with audio engineering by Rajiv CN. 

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Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang wants to completely do away with 1:1 meetings. “They (1:1s) are really not necessary. If there is a strategic direction, why do you tell one person? You tell everybody,” he said. 
Most 1:1s meetings are ineffective, inconsistent, and often futile. In companies that mandate it, it is simply a check in the box. Employees use it to lobby for promotion, crib about annoying co-workers, or overshare personal details. So, managers hijack these meetings and turn them into monologues. 
But 1:1 can be a gamechanger, if used well. It makes the workplace more democratic, especially if the organization is hierarchical, and gives employees a dedicated space to express themselves fully and make themselves heard. Research suggests that employees who do 1:1s well, and regularly, are more engaged at work and productive.
Host Akshaya Chandrasekaran talks to the world’s leading expert on meetings, Steven Rogelberg, and Kamal Karanth, the founder of specialist staffing firm Xpheno to find out ways to make it work and get what you want in these 1:1 meetings. 
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Have you ever felt like an imposter at work? Undeserving of the opportunities you get? And overall feeling not good enough? Then, you can take the survey and let us know: Are you good enough at your job?
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This episode was written and hosted by Akshaya Chandrasekaran, and produced by Anushka Mukherjee, with audio engineering by Rajiv CN. 
The First Two Years is produced from the newsroom of The Ken, India’s first subscriber-only business news platform. 
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