156 episodes

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

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    • 4.6 • 7 Ratings

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

    Advice from a Dating Coach (w/ Damona Hoffman)

    Advice from a Dating Coach (w/ Damona Hoffman)

    Dating coach Damona Hoffman (A&E Network's #BlackLove, A Question of Love) is here to dish some professional advice. She shares tips for video-dating, setting up your dating app profile, how to stay sane with your partner in lockdown, and so much more! Plus, a conversation on racial bias in dating, navigating interracial relationships, and the struggle of in-person communication.

    Check out Damona's dating podcast: Dates & Mates

    Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

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    • 1 hr 7 min
    We're Thirsty (w/ Nichole Perkins)

    We're Thirsty (w/ Nichole Perkins)

    Writer and podcaster Nichole Perkins (Thirst Aid Kit) joins Nicole to discuss setting boundaries in your casual relationships, dealing with thirsty groupies, and, can you get COVID from your pussy? Plus Nicole writes a letter to her dream man, and is shopping for a $600 sex machine.

    Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via Gumball.fm

    • 51 min
    Rock Bottom (w/ Sydnee Washington)

    Rock Bottom (w/ Sydnee Washington)

    Comedian and actress Sydnee Washington (Broad City, Gayme Show) joins Nicole to discuss feel-good foods to eat when you're sad, their lowest points in life, finding love on Instagram, and setting boundaries with toxic family members.

    Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via Gumball.fm

    • 1 hr 4 min
    Signs He's Into You (w/ Yassir Lester)

    Signs He's Into You (w/ Yassir Lester)

    It's our longest episode ever! Comedian Yassir Lester (Black Monday, Duncanville) joins Nicole to discuss sex protocol for a COVID era, reconnecting with old flings, body modifications, Yassir's Jersey Mike's tweet, and a list of signs that a man is into you.

    Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via Gumball.fm

    • 1 hr 40 min
    Joking Around (w/ Yamaneika Saunders)

    Joking Around (w/ Yamaneika Saunders)

    The incredibly funny Yamaneika Saunders (Broad City, Inside Amy Schumer) joins Nicole to discuss comedy, following her mom's love for stand-up, her defense for humor about people with disabilities, and the depths of racism in our society. After the break, Yamaneika discusses breaking up in the pandemic, and her plan to freeze her eggs.

    Trigger Warning: My guest misgenders a person in a retelling of a story and I didn't correct them and I’m sorry to those who listened and were offended.

    Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via Gumball.fm

    • 1 hr 8 min
    From Race Chaser to Husband (w/ Latrice Royale)

    From Race Chaser to Husband (w/ Latrice Royale)

    Drag queen Latrice Royale (RuPaul's Drag Race, RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars) joins Nicole for a good teeheehee. She discusses getting into drag on a dare, writing on AJ and the Queen, meeting their husband Chris at a meet & greet, and the story behind their Chicago pride festival proposal.

    Check out Latrice's podcast: The Chop.

    Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via Gumball.fm

    • 59 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
7 Ratings

7 Ratings

SwatsTalwar ,

WHAT a Star!

I discovered you Nicole, when I was wolfing down Jameela’s iWeigh podcasts and the first thing I did post the episode was subscribe to your podcast. First off your voice modulation, the way you talk about things - race and your feelings towards fried chicken by bringing a certain levity in both situations is AMA-zing.
Secondly, it’s refreshing to have someone NOT be politically correct “people are stupid” and call it as they see it and as their brain processes.
I’m from India, been working since over 13 years in the content corporate space, a dance teacher, and now a business owner and your podcasts are my FAV part of an otherwise full day.
You are a dose of that laugh which continues in the head long after the joke is over.
BIG HUGGG
It would be SO fun to date you ❤️❤️

Biebieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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