59 min
097. Marriage As A Team Vs. Competing, Superiority Complex, Do You And Your Spouse Value The Same Things? New Dad City
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- Educazione dei figli
In this episode of our podcast, Eric starts off with a candid discussion about his experience with his "back-talking" son and the strategies he used to address his mouthy behavior.
The conversation takes a deeper turn as I open up about a recent argument my wife and I had over finances. I admit to treating her more like a child than a partner, allocating her an "allowance" rather than sharing our income as truly ours. This approach highlighted my reluctance to fully merge our financial lives, a stance that, upon reflection, revealed a superiority complex on my part.
I share the moment of vulnerability when I decided to hand over the responsibility of family budgeting and finances to my wife. Her reaction was unexpected yet enlightening; she accepted without fuss, expressing her long-held desire to be more involved in our relationship. Her admission of feeling sidelined and my realization of my belittling attitude opened up a new chapter for us, one where mutual respect and shared responsibilities are foundational.
Furthermore, we explore the importance of couples discussing their values, both before and after marriage. This episode is a journey through the complexities of family dynamics, the pitfalls of competing instead of working as a team in marriage, and the transformative power of open communication and shared values. Join us as we navigate the challenges of parenting mouthy kids, redefining marriage as a true partnership, and overcoming personal flaws to foster a stronger, more equitable relationship.
Track: "Tough Guy", Smooth Beats
Music provided by https://Slip.stream
Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/TA620l
Listen on Spotify: https://go-stream.link/sp-smooth-beats
In this episode of our podcast, Eric starts off with a candid discussion about his experience with his "back-talking" son and the strategies he used to address his mouthy behavior.
The conversation takes a deeper turn as I open up about a recent argument my wife and I had over finances. I admit to treating her more like a child than a partner, allocating her an "allowance" rather than sharing our income as truly ours. This approach highlighted my reluctance to fully merge our financial lives, a stance that, upon reflection, revealed a superiority complex on my part.
I share the moment of vulnerability when I decided to hand over the responsibility of family budgeting and finances to my wife. Her reaction was unexpected yet enlightening; she accepted without fuss, expressing her long-held desire to be more involved in our relationship. Her admission of feeling sidelined and my realization of my belittling attitude opened up a new chapter for us, one where mutual respect and shared responsibilities are foundational.
Furthermore, we explore the importance of couples discussing their values, both before and after marriage. This episode is a journey through the complexities of family dynamics, the pitfalls of competing instead of working as a team in marriage, and the transformative power of open communication and shared values. Join us as we navigate the challenges of parenting mouthy kids, redefining marriage as a true partnership, and overcoming personal flaws to foster a stronger, more equitable relationship.
Track: "Tough Guy", Smooth Beats
Music provided by https://Slip.stream
Free Download/Stream: https://get.slip.stream/TA620l
Listen on Spotify: https://go-stream.link/sp-smooth-beats
59 min