Are You the Raccoon or the Architect‪?‬ The Intentional Advantage

Think equal division of chores guarantees happiness in marriage? Think again. The truth is: it’s not the fighting about chores that’s the problem - it’s the lack of communication. In today’s episode we uncover the myth of 50-50 and explore the real ingredients to a successful marriage. John and I are pulling back the curtain on our own 25+ year relationship as we share our own strategies, including understanding each other's priorities and embracing diverse work styles leading to deeper, more meaningful connections. I’ll also share our five-step approach to divide and conquer household responsibilities, making sure everyone plays to their strengths.
 
In this episode you’ll learn:
How can I improve communication in my marriage?
What are simple ways to divide household chores with your spouse?
What is the best way to delegate household tasks in a marriage?
How can I communicate better with my family?
 
Topics Covered:
- Division of household labor
- Communication in marriage
- Gender roles and chores
- Effective delegation in relationships
- Keys for stronger marriage
- Family Meetings
- Intentional Relationship Building

Key Moments in the Show:
[02:13] Appreciating the Differences in Your Marriage
[08:37] Turning Frustration into Appreciation
[14:10] Dividing Up Chores and Tasks with Your Spouse
[19:23] Deciding Which Tasks Are Important
[21:41] Who's in Charge?
[25:17] How To Make Sure Tasks Get Done Right
[33:32] How to Build a Strong Supportive Family
 
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