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April 18



Sometimes, you feel it; sometimes, you don’t. That wonderful spirit moves through you, and you know in some strange way that everything will be okay. What a wonderful feeling that is! Then, without warning, it’s gone. You almost feel emptied of life, and it can be scary. Some of us seek other substances to fill that void, or we try to cover the fear and relapse. Riding out these ups and downs is a part of the process. The more you do it, the easier it gets. With each new experience, you discover that you can do it more and more, and you can more readily acknowledge that the feeling is fleeting. This takes practice and experience. Sometimes you just need to sit still until the ride comes to a complete stop. No matter how you feel, remember! You’re never alone. You will always have Sober Pod. That’s a lie! It may get deleted if we can’t pay the bills.

Reflections

No matter what happens today, you can go through it. If another human has done it, you can too.

Daily Challenge

What can you do to enliven your day today? What can you do to feel alive? (Legally, of course.).




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April 17



Recovery is not all about concepts, ideas, or wordy books (or fucking podcasts). Most of it is about simple, actionable moments; just like being a good person is not about your intent to be a good person. Instead, you must do good things to be a good person. That is the same idea about recovery. It takes effort. What does that mean? Going to meetings, doing inventories, making amends, and helping others do the same. It doesn’t mean that we don’t fall short - we definitely do - but it means that we try. We make an attempt. Not a half-hearted attempt, either. We can’t do half the work and expect the full results. You will need to sacrifice some things to get the desired results.

Reflections

Are you doing your best? Are you doing things half-assed?

Daily Challenge

If you are in a recovery group, dust off those books, start again at page one, or get back to where you left off.




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The conversation explores the theme of powerlessness and power in recovery. The hosts reflect on their past drinking behaviors and the lack of choice they had while actively drinking. They also discuss the gradual progression of alcoholism and the realization that their drinking was not normal. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing the power of choice in recovery and the potential for personal growth and transformation. In this conversation, Carl and Chelsea discuss the concept of powerlessness in recovery and the importance of accessing personal power. They explore the idea that powerlessness does not mean being completely powerless, but rather recognizing the power to choose and make decisions. They emphasize the empowerment that comes from sobriety and the ability to make positive choices in life. They also discuss the importance of having a higher power and accessing power through fellowship and support from others. The conversation concludes with a reminder to stay active and sober.



In active addiction, individuals often lack the awareness that they do not have a choice in their actions and behaviors.
Recovery brings the realization that one has the power of choice and the ability to make rational decisions.
Recognizing the power of choice in recovery allows for personal growth and transformation.
It is important to challenge the defeatist mindset of powerlessness and embrace the power one has in recovery. Powerlessness in recovery does not mean being completely powerless, but rather recognizing the power to choose and make decisions.
Sobriety empowers individuals to make positive choices and pursue their goals.
Having a higher power can provide access to inner strength and resources.
Fellowship and support from others in recovery can be a source of empowerment and encouragement.
It is important to stay active and engaged in recovery to continue accessing personal power.


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Summary

• "It's not what happens to us; it's how we respond to it that matters."



In this episode, Carl and Chelsea discuss the concept of living life on life's terms and the struggles that come with it. They talk about how our desires can be overinflated and cause us trouble when we don't get our way. They emphasize the importance of coming to terms with what we can and cannot control in our lives. Chelsea shares her personal mantra that reminds her of her own strength and resilience. They encourage listeners to create their own mantras and to embrace the challenges and uncertainties of life.



In this conversation, Carl and Chelsea discuss the concept of living life on life's terms in recovery. They talk about the importance of accepting reality and not getting caught up in expectations or personalizing events. They share personal experiences of dealing with challenges and how they have learned to respond in a more productive way. They also discuss the idea of overinflated desires and how they can cause trouble in recovery. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the importance of utilizing tools and support in recovery to navigate life's ups and downs.



• Living life on life's terms means accepting the ups and downs, twists and turns of life and coming to terms with what we can and cannot control.

• Our desires can be overinflated and cause us trouble when we don't get our way.

• Creating a personal mantra can help boost self-confidence and remind us of our own strength and resilience.

• It's important to reflect on our thoughts and desires and evaluate what we truly have control over in our lives.

• Embracing the challenges and uncertainties of life can lead to personal growth and a greater sense of peace. Living life on life's terms is a key concept in recovery

• Accepting reality and not personalizing events is crucial

• Overinflated desires can cause trouble in recovery

Utilizing tools and support is important in navigating challenges


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Summary

In this episode, Carl and Paul discuss Paul's book, 'Hide and Seek: A Dad's Journey from Soulless Addiction to Soul Custody.' Paul shares his personal journey of recovery and the struggle to gain custody of his daughter. They explore the themes of self-centeredness, rebuilding relationships, and society's perception of dads. Paul emphasizes the importance of being an active and present father, and how recovery has transformed his family dynamics. In this part of the conversation, Paul Summers Jr. and Carl D discuss the impact of recovery on their lives and relationships. They explore the importance of equality and sensitivity, as well as the challenges of navigating financial insecurities and maintaining authenticity in recovery memoirs. They also discuss the value of sharing personal stories and the impact of false narratives in the recovery community. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the significance of Easter and the importance of embracing boldness, audacity, and daring in recovery. In this conversation, Paul Summers Jr. and Carl D discuss overcoming fear, handling confrontation, being bold and audacious, and finding balance in recovery. They explore the fear of being bad and walking on eggshells, the importance of active listening, and the journey of self-discovery. They also touch on overcoming ego and narcissism, embracing imperfection and diversity, and the power of vulnerability. The conversation concludes with words of encouragement for newcomers, emphasizing that it is never too late to start the journey of recovery.


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Summary
In this conversation, Carl and Chelsea discuss the concept of identity and the fear of change in recovery. They explore the idea of holding onto old identities and personas, and the need to let go of them in order to grow and change. They also reflect on the question of who they are now and how their identities have evolved in sobriety. In this conversation, Chelsea and Carl discuss the fear of losing friends and identity when getting sober. They explore the process of starting over and discovering one's true self. They also delve into the importance of feedback and how it can help us see ourselves more clearly. The conversation highlights the delusion of self-perception and the role of sobriety in enabling a clearer perception. They discuss the concept of changing identity and stepping into recovery, as well as the idea of a life waiting on the other side of addiction. The conversation concludes with a discussion on trusting in a higher power, letting go of control, and the importance of doing the right thing.



Takeaways


Identifying with old identities can hinder personal growth and change in recovery.
The fear of change is common, but it is important to recognize that staying the same can be more painful than embracing change.
Who we are is not defined by titles or roles, but by our characteristics and values.
Letting go of old identities and embracing change can lead to personal growth and a more authentic life. Getting sober can lead to a fear of losing friends and identity, but it is worth it for personal happiness and growth.
Sobriety allows for a clearer perception of oneself and the world, free from the delusions of alcoholism.
Feedback from others can help us see ourselves more clearly and challenge our self-perceptions.
Trusting in a higher power and letting go of control can lead to a more fulfilling and purposeful life in recovery.

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