76 episodes
Sane Split AJ Jakubowska - Family Law Lawyer, Family Mediator & Parenting Coordinator
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- Society & Culture
I am AJ Jakubowska - Family Law Lawyer, Family Mediator & Parenting Coordinator. I have worked in this field for over 28 years. Just like you, I am also human. I understand what can happen when relationships end. Lots of uncertainty, many different emotions coming in waves, questions swirling like confetti. Anger, disappointment, mistrust. Sometimes it may feel like it’s virtually impossible to stay sane. This podcast features my comments on various topics related to separation, and my interviews with other humans who help when relationships end – people who look after legal issues, who mediate, who look after hearts and minds, and the pocketbook too. What you will hear is not legal advice. These are dialogues primarily about the human aspect of separation. We try to stay away from legal lingo. It’s humans talking to humans. I hope that something you hear will help you navigate your way to a sane split. New episodes every two weeks.
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"How soon after the separation can I date?"
There is no rule that says you can’t date soon after the separation but have you considered both the pros and the cons, of dating AND of going public with it? Interested in some pointers? - LISTEN
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Preparing for a family law Conference
If you are part of a family court case in Ontario, sooner or later you will participate in a Conference. They are a key tool in the system of Case Management. Are you about to attend one, and interested in learning more? - LISTEN.
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"I am fighting for my kids!"
When separation happens, many parents think of their kids first, and how they will be affected. Some commence an epic fight without truly understanding why, and what they hope to accomplish. Some are misguided in doing so - not understanding what will actually make a difference before the court, for example. Interested in hearing some tips about addressing parenting issues the right way? - LISTEN.
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How to help someone who is separated?
It’s human to want to support someone who is hurting - including in the context of a separation. Interested in some tips on helping but not causing harm? - LISTEN.
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How do Family Mediators bill?
Not all Family Mediators bill for their services the same way. You have many options when it comes to the choice of a mediator, and you can also find a billling arrangement for those services that suits you and your budget. Interested in learning more? - LISTEN.
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How do Family Law lawyers bill?
Not all lawyers bill for their services the same way. Your financial relationship with your lawyer is important - you should ask as many questions about it as possible, before you hire someone. You are making a financial committment - hiring a member of your team - it’s important that you understand how that person will bill for their services, and how you will pay them - LISTEN.