Stay Uncomfortable Oscar Rodriguez & Yohan Santana

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Today the boys start out with the legendary 'Wellness Check'. Oscar starts out the weekly rating (1:34) and a quick sidenote on his upcoming graduation as well as a short exhortation to anyone seeking more education and blue collar workers. Yohan gives us his rating (3:35) and share a hilarious story about Manny - our podcast editor and good friend, and how he was robbed at work while on the phone with Yohan. Yohan this week serves the question of the day (5:30) "What is a common lie most men believe?" and we have Oscars answer 6:10 & Yohan's answer at (13:25). After a quick break down, we get to the heart of the matter for today's episode and the 4 topics the guys touch on.

(22:56) 1. Strong men are comfortable expressing difficult emotions like grief and Sadness.
(32:23) 2. Strong men do not seek to control others.
(44:30) 3. Strong men do not seek the spotlight.
(1:03:44) 4. Strong men are empathetic.

Supporting Scripture - Matthew 26:38-39, John 6:66-67, John 7:1-9, Acts 12:20-24

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In today's episode, the boys kick off with a brief recall to Guitar Hero (1:05) and some of the influences of video game soundtracks / in-game music and how that shaped our musical taste. ‘Wellness Check' - starts with Yohan (3:20) and for Oscar (7:15). The conversation transitions into men and their behavior when having too much time on their hands (8:00) and this leads into a great transition for the first questions of the day (13:48) and tying this conversation into the main topic of the day; How men can develop better habits to prepare for life & relationships (22:54) and a lengthy discussion about financial literacy and how insightful this can be if a young man prepares his affairs early on in his life. Lastly, we review the second question of the day (1:02:07) and the boys wrap the episode with this final question.

Question 1: "What did money look like to you between the ages of 17 & 21?"

Question 2: "Hey guys my boyfriend suggested that we start an OnlyFans. He approached me saying since we are having a bit of a financial issue at the moment, we can definitely make money off of OnlyFans. He said it would be me and him, but mostly me. He would manage it and I would participate in it. I don't know how I feel about this; I'm not mad at him, but I'm not sure it's the right thing to do. Any advise?"

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In today's episode, the boys kick off with the coined ‘Wellness Check' - starting with Oscar (2:43) and Yohan (6:16) to which he takes a moment to get vulnerable about a conversation he had with his wife and his recent state of mind as it pertains to life and how men seldom share their true feelings and are overwhelmed by the constant give and no return of the daily routine (15:00). From there the boys proceed to get into the Q&A section of the pod.

Question 1 (22:58): "Hey fellas, I overheard by wife telling her friends that she is not that attracted to me. She even admitted that her ex looks better. She doesn't know I heard and now I don't know what to do. "

Question 2 (41:50): "Hello from California. Huge problem - My husband has recently been taking points and VTO (Voluntary Time Off) at work, to come home early to do nothing but game. He has been neglecting us financially and now we're severely struggling. I have a job, but I feel alone; Please help!"

Question 3 (55:30): Hey guys! My husband and I got into a huge fight because he found out I have a work husband. It's nothing romantic or inappropriate; Just two friends that get along very well. My man says he feels disrespected and even feels cheated on. He told me that as long as I work in that office he would not feel comfortable. I feel he's exaggerating and I don't want to quit. Any advice?"

Question 4 (1:09:00): Hey guys I need some advise. My boyfriend isn't emotionally verbal at all, beside I love you. I tell him why I love him and how proud of him I am and how much I appreciate him, but he is not the same. We've had conversations about this and he says he'll do better, but nothing changes. I feel frustrated and I feel I hold all the emotional parts of our relationship."

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In today's episode, the boys kick off with their usual ‘Wellness Check' for Yohan (2:17) and Oscar (5:17). Oscar then introduces the question of the day, "What is the worst assumption someone has made about you?" (6:30). This leads the guy to discuss their experience with others, specifically getting vulnerable about this subject as it relates to the church (11:23). Yohan and Oscar then proceed to deep dive into the topic of the day (16:23)- How social has changed the dynamics of relationships across the board and how it's been more harmful than good and some funny stories in between

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In today's episode, the boys kick off with their usual ‘Wellness Check' for Oscar (1:05) and Yohan (8:23). Between checks, Yohan poses an introspective question about self-assessment before God in terms of performance and perception (8:23). Oscar then introduces the question of the day, "What would your younger self not believe about your life today?" (12:44). This prompts a deep dive into how young boys and men begin to contemplate their futures and dreams from as early as middle school (15:00). Yohan shares his thoughts on the topic at (21:30 & 24:30), leading into a spirited critique of the school system and the quality of meals provided to students (30:15). The conversation wraps up with the ‘Topic Of the Day'—Favorite TV Dads (31:08), sparking a nostalgic and engaging discussion.
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On this episode of Stay Uncomfortable we have a interesting and controversial Q and A. We discuss checking phones, and we get a pissed off listener. Follow and Subscribe. ⬇️
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