Get Naked with Dr. Kate Dr. Kate Balestrieri

We're exploring all avenues of empowerment this week, from female friendship to being a "Free Agent", bonobos vs. chimps, and even exploring age hypogamy relationships.

Wednesday Martin, Ph.D. joins Dr. Kate on this week's episode of Get Naked to talk about:

• Recent studies on female friendship and the crucial role it plays in women's lives
• The benefits of decentering men
• Bonobos, chimps, and the key differences of their social structures (including what we can learn from bonobos)
• Why younger men reported wanting to be with older women
• The concept of new masculinities

And truly SO much more!

By the end of this episode, you may be asking yourself, "How can I live more like a bonobo?"

Wednesday Martin, Ph.D. has been a writer and social researcher in New York City (and now Los Angeles) for over two decades. Her writing explores gender, parenting and motherhood, popular culture, and female sexuality.

Her memoir, Primates of Park Avenue, is a hilarious, touching, and insightful look into the exotic world of Manhattan motherhood. Her book Stepmonster, a finalist for the prestigious Books for a Better Life Award, is widely considered the “go-to” source for stepmothers, adult stepchildren, therapists and others who seek a uniquely candid, interdisciplinary, cross-cultural and comprehensive look at the topic.

You can check out more of Wednesday's work by visiting her website here.
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If you've been on TikTok or Twitter, chances are you've come across Girthmasterr, the Australian adult content creator who has made quite a splash with his – well – generous anatomy.

This week on Get Naked, Girthmasterr joins Dr. Kate in the studio to open up about his experience entering the adult content industry and his sudden rise to fame.

Together, they discuss:

• The double standard of s-x work between men and women
• The behind-the-scenes of creating adult content scenes
• STI health & s-x work
• Parasocial relationships & p0rn exposure

and much, much more.

Girthmasterr is an award winning adult actor and content creator that has collaborated with some of the biggest names in the p0rn industry. He has appeared in Rolling Stone, Daily Beast, Slate, and The Cut, as well as many more publications and is one of the top creators on OnlyFans.

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This week on Get Naked, Dr. Kate sits down with Modern Intimacy's Digital Media Coordinator Claudia Vera to answer your pressing questions about sexuality and relationships!

Together, they three listener questions:

• Why is it that I can't get aroused unless someone is watching?
• My partner has a fantasy about having a threesome with me... is he not sexually satisfied with me? Will he still desire me?
• Why do we (in the beginning of a relationship) feel the need/desire for sex, but then after awhile it goes away?

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As technology has advanced, so has the ability to harness images without consent – this is where deep fakes and AI generated images enter the picture.
 
On this week's episode of Get Naked, Dr. John Delatorre joins Dr. Kate to break down WHY image-based sexual violence is so damaging, how it appears in our culture today, and the small but meaningful ways we, as individuals, can intervene.
 
Together, they unpack:
 
• The implications of distinguishing the real from the fake via AI image
• What may compel someone to engage in creating deep fakes • The dehumanization of celebrity as an object for consumption
• The Taylor Swift AI lawsuit and controversy that followed
• The role of fear and anger in deep fake perpetrators
 
and so much more! 
 
John Delatorre, Psy.D. is a licensed psychologist in Texas, Arizona and New York State. He provides therapy and assessment for a variety of concerns, including providing interventions to the severely mentally ill, individuals with significant trauma histories, and crisis interventions/de-escalation.

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In your day to day life, how often do you do something for yourself? Do you incorporate pleasure into your routine, or do you find yourself yearning for some moments of intention?

On this week's episode of Get Naked, Bedside host Tatiana Fogt returns to the podcast to talk about how a person can build a sustainable (and accessible) pleasure practice into their daily lives.

Together with Dr. Kate, the two explore:

• Identifying the significance between rest and pleasure
• How to escape from constantly being in a "doing" mindset
• Exploring what brings you joy by tapping into childhood
• The myth of needing to "earn" pleasure

and so much more!

Tatiana is the brilliant creator and host behind Bedside, a charting podcast series unpacking the intricacies of modern love, dating, relationships, and all things sex. By chatting with sexperts, therapists, innovators, thought leaders & more, she's on a mission to make sexual wellness more accessible and approachable

Be sure to join the waitlist to grab a copy of Tatiana's latest journal here.
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What is an incel? What leads a person to become an incel? And what does it mean to be black-pilled and red-pilled?

On this week's episode of Get Naked with Dr. Kate, Dr. Kate is joined by Brendan Kwiatkowski, an educator, researcher, and speaker specializing in the social-emotional development and well-being of boys and men. The two dive into an illuminating conversation that aims to better understand the root reasons that men become drawn to inceldom, including the roles that entitlement and shame play.

Together, Brendan and Dr. Kate work to unpack:

• What traits embody precarious masculinity
• Why a person may find themselves identifying with incel culture
• Why men in particular are targeted by / attracted to the incel community
• The difference between red and black pilled ideologies

and so much more!

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