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Body Grooming... Welcome to Season 2 Episode 8, the final episode of the season!

Let's be real about body hair, right? Humans are animals, animals have hair.  It's natural and healthy. But our bodies are also like material that can be molded, meaning we can totally change HOW our hair looks. Considering that grooming can often be accompanied by pain - why do we do this?? For some folks it is about perceptions of what beauty is. For some it is about perceptions about hygiene.  For some it could be a combination, or a perception about what is "cool" or "socially acceptable" regardless of their personal feelings. 

Mojo, Pixie and Cherry are back to create safe space to chat about all things body hair related. We get candid about why we feel the need to do or not do certain types of grooming: waxing, threading, shaving, trimming. We get into all the happy hairy crevices too: eyebrows, upper lips, beards, underarms, genitals, arms, legs, you name it! So fun to reminisce about how us humans get started on this journey of grooming, and what drives our likes and dislikes, and how that interplays with other humans who have opinions one way or the other. 

Question: What's the part of body you don't understand why people groom?



About Unbuttoned India: Three young Indians meet weekly to talk about sex, sexuality and intimacy in urban India. Hosted by Cherry, Mojo and Pixie, Unbuttoned India provides a healthy and safe platform to share their stories, find pleasure in their discoveries and of course unpack the many questions they too have around these topics.

Do you have a personal story to share?  Email us your comments and ideas at unbuttonedindia@gmail.com or follow their social media handles, - Twitter: @UnbuttonedIndia  - Instagram: @unbuttonedindia

Do You Have A Type?... Welcome to Season 2 Episode 7!

We've all been this person, right? Picture the scene. You are out with friends where someone will point to a stranger and say, "whoa, that person's hot!" Or good looking. Or sexy. Or cute. Or well-groomed. Or muscular. Or voluptuous.... At that point, another friend might go, "Nope, that's not doing anything for me."  We've been there. These experiences start to come together and we realise, oh wait, I have a type!  In this episode, the Unbuttoned India trio dive right in to this question of what type of factors make humans attractive to us!

Join us to hear about our many different "needs". ;-) There are specific physical features that we discuss that may surprise you.  There are behavioural needs that are sometimes just as or more important in getting us to say AWWWWYEAH. We explore the idea of preference, and wonder about prejudice, and things in between. 

Question: Do you have any "type" that you are simply not attracted to? Why do you think that is?



About Unbuttoned India: Three young Indians meet weekly to talk about sex, sexuality and intimacy in urban India. Hosted by Cherry, Mojo and Pixie, Unbuttoned India provides a healthy and safe platform to share their stories, find pleasure in their discoveries and of course unpack the many questions they too have around these topics.

Do you have a personal story to share?  Email us your comments and ideas at unbuttonedindia@gmail.com or follow their social media handles, - Twitter: @UnbuttonedIndia  - Instagram: @unbuttonedindia

Exploring My Sexuality... Welcome to Season 2 Episode 6!

When did you know you were sexually attracted to a human? Perhaps a particular set of humans? Some realise they are attracted to the opposite sex, some to the same sex, some to all, and some to none at all! The Unbuttoned India trio of Mojo, Pixie and Cherry revisit their oldest memories and ongoing experiences to piece together a story of how each became aware of their sexuality. We make pit stops at all-girls convent schools, love letters, best friend crushes, 90s indian movies, porn tales....and other anecdotes that made us laugh and sigh. 

Swapping tales helps remind us that every single human goes through a similar journey of doubt, exploration and exhilaration! Join us in a quest to question the origins of romantic fantasies and deeply ingrained social conditioning about what is "normal." 

This episode's Did-You-Know section gets into some of the terms and descriptive labels used in the episode, with quick introductions by Cherry on Asexuality, Pixie on Bisexuality and Mojo on Pansexuality. 

Idea: Sex is not just about reproduction and procreation. Humans engage in sex for pleasure full stop! Go ahead and look up "all animals that have sex for pleasure" - prepare to be pleasantly surprised. 



About Unbuttoned India: Three friends meet weekly to talk about sex, sexuality and intimacy in urban India. Hosted by Cherry, Mojo and Pixie, Unbuttoned India provides a healthy and safe platform to share their stories, find pleasure in their discoveries and of course unpack the many questions they too have around these topics.

Do you have a personal story to share?  Email us your comments and ideas at unbuttonedindia@gmail.com or follow their social media handles, - Twitter: @UnbuttonedIndia  - Instagram: @unbuttonedindia

Body Image... Welcome to Season 2 Episode 5!

This week Pixie, Mojo and Cherry pay a visit to our physical bodies.  We talk about experiences in our childhood and current life that have (literally and figuratively) shaped our bodies. Who and what has had a say in how we perceive ourselves? What shifts and transformations have we undergone over time?

Hitch a ride with us as we visit classic body image hot-spots like store changing rooms, weddings, schools, gyms, movies....our own internal minds. We arrive at Memory Lane that is lined with anecdotes about complexion, skin, body shape, body size, smells, and in sharing openly we find understanding in each other about the under confidence, the anger, the shame, the reflections and the liberation. 

In Did-You-Know, tune in for some very interesting surveys about male body image and cosmetic surgery. We also tell you about the fabulously body-positive podcast called Fat.So? Go check them out!

Idea: Have you tried daily affirmations? Where you look in the mirror and say out loud "I love you. I love all of you. Yes, YOU!"



About Unbuttoned India: Three friends meet weekly to talk about sex, sexuality and intimacy in urban India. Hosted by Cherry, Mojo and Pixie, Unbuttoned India provides a healthy and safe platform to share their stories, find pleasure in their discoveries and of course unpack the many questions they too have around these topics.

Do you have a personal story to share?  Email us your comments and ideas at unbuttonedindia@gmail.com or follow their social media handles, - Twitter: @UnbuttonedIndia  - Instagram: @unbuttonedindia

Oh For Orgasm... Welcome to Season 2 Episode 4!

This week we get each other off. And by that we mean, you know, off on orgasm stories!

Pixie, Mojo and Cherry traverse the contours of the body and mind to understand each other's oh-yeahhhh and oh-mehhh moments when it comes to sexual excitation and that Big O. What does it take for us to reach an orgasm? Some like it hot, we hear.  Some like it textured with gentle ribbing. Stop - wait a minute (here's my cup, put some liquor in it) .....what IS an orgasm? We unpack the basics for ourselves so that we may ponder the tales of multiple orgasms, faking orgasms, the nature of ejaculation in men and woman, and saying COME ON to "cumming together". 

We all have moments of moaning outwardly or inwardly when we orgasm. We all have moments of mourning outwardly or inwardly when they fail to come. Tune in to hear us say O My!  After all, we are in this together. #thatswhathesaid 

Question: Have you ever "cum together" with someone? Or come close? :-P



About Unbuttoned India: Three friends meet weekly to talk about sex, sexuality and intimacy in urban India. Hosted by Cherry, Mojo and Pixie, Unbuttoned India provides a healthy and safe platform to share their stories, find pleasure in their discoveries and of course unpack the many questions they too have around these topics.

Do you have a personal story to share?  Email us your comments and ideas at unbuttonedindia@gmail.com or follow their social media handles, - Twitter: @UnbuttonedIndia  - Instagram: @unbuttonedindia

Sexual Mishaps and When Things Go Uh Oh... Welcome to Season 2 Episode 3!

Sometimes things just don't go that smoothly, do they? This week Mojo, Pixie and Cherry have a rollicking time frolicking through tales of woes, foes and stubbed toes - figuratively; it was a stubbed head in this case, ouch! *Inserts laughter track*

Pixie wants you to know that time waits for no man - or woman. Mojo has logistical conundrums and even provides solutions in the Did You Know segment! Cherry has a tryst with a hot-air-balloon of a human and encounters a range of badness, from breath to technique. Uff da!

Join us as we swing wildly between chuckling and cringing. It's a ride and a half ;-)

Question: What is the nuttiest/boobiest thing you've encountered in the heat of the moment? 

 

About Unbuttoned India: Three friends meet weekly to talk about sex, sexuality and intimacy in urban India. Hosted by Cherry, Mojo and Pixie, Unbuttoned India provides a healthy and safe platform to share their stories, find pleasure in their discoveries and of course unpack the many questions they too have around these topics.

Do you have a personal story to share?  Email us your comments and ideas at unbuttonedindia@gmail.com or follow their social media handles, - Twitter: @UnbuttonedIndia  - Instagram: @unbuttonedindia