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This week we have a special guest, Lamont White, the founder of A Better Way to Meet, an Atlanta-based matchmaking company for gay men. Lamont shares his journey from being a therapist to becoming a matchmaker and dating coach, emphasizing the unique challenges and dynamics within the gay dating scene.


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Dating coaching and matchmaking for gay men, as discussed in the podcast episode, focuses on several key factors to ensure successful matches. These factors include attractiveness, independence, masculinity, and sexual compatibility.
Attractiveness plays a significant role in the matchmaking process. While attractiveness can vary from person to person, it is essential to consider physical appearance as a factor in potential matches. This includes factors like body type, height, and overall physical appeal.
Independence is another crucial aspect considered in matchmaking for gay men. The ability to be self-sufficient and not rely on a partner for financial or emotional support is valued. Independence shows maturity and a sense of self-reliance, which can contribute to a healthy and balanced relationship.

Masculinity is also a key factor in matchmaking for gay men. While masculinity can be expressed in various ways, having a level of masculinity that aligns with the individual's preferences is important. Some individuals may prefer partners who exhibit more traditional masculine traits, while others may be open to a range of expressions of masculinity.
Sexual compatibility is a fundamental aspect of matchmaking for gay men. Understanding each individual's preferences, roles (top, bottom, versatile), and boundaries in the bedroom is crucial for creating successful and fulfilling relationships. Open communication about sexual preferences and desires is essential for ensuring compatibility in this area.

Overall, dating coaching and matchmaking for gay men aim to create matches based on a combination of these factors to foster healthy, fulfilling, and long-lasting relationships. By considering attractiveness, independence, masculinity, and sexual compatibility, matchmaking...

**TRIGGER WARNING: We want to let you know that today's episode addresses the topic of domestic violence, which may be distressing or triggering for some listeners. If you or someone you know needs support, please reach out to trusted friends, family, or professional organizations. If you're in immediate danger, call emergency services.

This week we are joined by Ariel B., host of "This Too Shall Pass" podcast, who bravely shared her personal journey of surviving an abusive relationship, and finding herself after so many major life changing experiences. She sheds light on the importance of understanding family dynamics and relationships, particularly when warning signs are present, and how that directly impacted her life.

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Here are key takeaways from the episode that emphasize the significance of delving deeper into family dynamics:

Recognizing Warning Signs: Ariel candidly discussed how she overlooked crucial red flags in her relationship with her ex-husband, such as his anger issues and concerning behavior when under the influence. These warning signs were apparent early on but were not addressed or questioned at the time.
Family Background: Ariel stressed the importance of comprehending a partner's family background. She revealed that her ex-husband came from a family with a history of abuse and dysfunctional dynamics, potentially influencing his behavior. This underscores the need to investigate and understand a partner's family history to identify potential issues or patterns.
Impact on Children: Ariel's experience highlighted how family dynamics and relationships can impact children. Her son exhibited fear and discomfort around her ex-husband's behavior, illustrating the influence of family dynamics on children's emotional well-being.
Seeking Support: Ariel's friend played a pivotal role in supporting her by consistently checking in and encouraging open communication. This underscores the importance of having a supportive...

In this episode, we kicked things off with a delicious cocktail recipe, the Tease Me Mojito, perfect for those who love a tropical twist on their drinks.

We then dived into some juicy discussions about our recent travels and experiences. Kiki shares all about her fantastic trip to Turks and Caicos where she celebrated a friend's birthday. It was an amazing getaway with beautiful beaches, fun nights, and great company. We even played some intriguing games like I'm Curious to Know, which you can find at imcurioustoknow.com.

We also touched on the topic of popular travel destinations and how some people view them as less desirable once they become mainstream.  Listen for our take. 

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Welcome back to another episode of Cocktales Dirty Discussions! This week, we had the pleasure of chatting with Mehgan James, a reality TV star, producer, and fellow podcaster known for her appearances on shows like Bad Girls Club and Basketball Wives. We sipped on her new "Bad Stuff Tequila" while Mehgan shared some juicy details over about her experiences on reality TV, her personal life, and her views on relationships and dating plus a little tea on those infamous Diddy Parties.

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Key Highlights:
Cocktail of the Day: We introduced "The Baddie," a delicious cocktail made with tequila, triple sec, cranberry juice, lime juice, and simple syrup, sponsored by Mehgan's friend's brand, Bad Stuff Tequila.Reality TV Insights: Mehgan opened up about her time on reality TV, particularly on Bad Girls Club and Basketball Wives. She discussed the challenges and the dynamics behind the scenes, emphasizing how these experiences shaped her public persona.Personal Life and Relationships: Mehgan talked candidly about her current relationship, mentioning how participating in reality shows like Basketball Wives helped her boyfriend understand her career better. She also touched on her past dating experiences, including her preference for younger men as she got older.Dating for Love vs. Money: Mehgan gave her take on dating for love versus dating for financial stability. She...

Welcome back to another episode of our podcast, where we dive deep into the intriguing world of astrology, mediumship, and the power of intuition. Today, we're thrilled to have a very special guest, Tamara, (IG @Loveandfaerymagic ) also known as the Faery Godmuva, who brings her unique blend of psychic medium abilities, therapy, and intuitive astrology to the table. ***More episode details below!

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Welcome back to another episode of our podcast, where we dive deep into the intriguing world of astrology, mediumship, and the power of intuition. Today, we're thrilled to have a very special guest, Tamara, also known as the Faery Godmuva, who brings her unique blend of psychic medium abilities, therapy, and intuitive astrology to the table.

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This week we're playing a little scenario game where we answer what we would do in different situations.


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