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Enneagram 9s are known as the peacemakers - their top priority is maintaining peace within themselves and in their world. While they typically avoid conflict at all costs, that does not mean they don't have opinions and feelings! My friends Nicole and Sarah both join me for this really fun episode where we dive into what it looks like to be a 9 - the challenges of sometimes being pushed around, the advantages of being able to value many different points of view, and how these characteristics shape who they are in relationships. Definitely give this one a listen!

Enneagram 8s: the dominant, self-reliant challengers of the enneagram. They know what they want, who they are, and like to have control over their own destinies. However, they do struggle with fear of being taken advantage of, or being controlled, by others. While this type may be known as more aggressive, they have such a genuine desire to fight for the things and people they believe in - and that is so beautiful. My good friend Trish joins me to talk all about what it's like being a dynamic, passionate type 8 and how it impacts her relationships - you will love this one!

Enneagram 7s: the fun-loving, upbeat enthusiasts. They are known as the life of the party or the ones who maintain positivity at all times, but beneath the surface there is so much more. While it's so true that 7s desire to feel joy and have fun, they also work hard to avoid feelings of pain. They are versatile, independent deep thinkers. Learn all about what it's like inside the busy mind of a 7 from my super fun friends Kearsten and Rae! I promise you'll love them as much as I do!

Enneagram sixes are known as the security-oriented type - thinking through worst case scenarios and preparing for them in order to protect themselves. However, 6s are much more than the anxious stereotype they have been given - they are loyal, highly relational, and even tend to be rebellious. This episode is pretty special because both Heather and I are 6's, so we interview each other! We talk all about what it's like inside the perpetually threat-forecasting brain of a 6 and how our personality type affects our relationships. This one is fun - give it a listen!

Enneagram 5s are known as the deeply cerebral, investigative type. They desire to understand the world in detail and to be a knowledgable resource for both themselves and the people they love. My friend Katie Polley sits down with me and describes what it's like being a 5 - what's important to her, how she makes decisions, and how she navigates relationships. If you're seeking to understand the brain of a 5, or if you're a 5 and want to feel understood - give this one a listen!

Enneagram 4s are often thought of as the emotional, artistic, black sheep of the enneagram. While they have a strong desire to feel significant and to know their truest selves, they are so much more than their emotional stereotypes. My friend Abbey Ratcliff shares what it's like inside the head of a 4 - the how she views relationships, how her 4-ness has impacted her career as an artist, and so much more. If you're like me and have been wanting to uncover the mystery that is the type 4, you know and love a 4, or if you're a 4 desiring to grow in relationships - definitely check this one out!