Message to Our Kids Benjamin Norman

Today Benjamin shares a heartfelt recounting of his personal journey through a difficult time which caused significant emotional strain. Faced with pressures in relationships, business failures, and deep-seated childhood trauma, he faces it all with genuine honesty and emotion. He emphasizes the constant struggle to save others when he himself was feeling helpless. The speaker's wife, an energy healer, helps him to confront his inner struggles, which uncovers a childhood pattern of repressed anger and feelings of self-loathing. The speaker also highlights his realization of the destructive pattern of trying to save others due to his own feelings of brokenness. By accepting his feelings and experiences, he notes the power of absolute acceptance and self-belief, and the importance of shared journeys in overcoming inner demons. He concludes by reiterating his mission to help others, not by saving them, but by walking side-by-side with them, providing unconditional love and acceptance.
00:06 Introduction
00:06 The Struggles of a Day
00:33 The Calling and the Pressure
01:58 The Impact on Personal Relationships
02:33 The Power of Faith and Hope
03:17 The Turning Point
05:41 The Realization and Uncovering of Darkness
06:39 The Childhood Memories and Emotional Struggles
10:33 The Impact of Emotions on Relationships
11:24 The Revelation and Acceptance
13:31 The Power of Connection and Support
18:16 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
 
"Don't Fight the Darkness Alone. Fight Together." 

Thanks for your patience—life's been a whirlwind.
 
Let me dive into a recent personal journey: completing my third Spartan Ultra at Killington Mountain.
 
It's been a wild ride, filled with challenges and lessons.
 
Three years ago, my coach asked what fitness challenge inspired me, and I chose the Spartan Ultra.
 
Little did I know, it would lead to a deep bond with my friend Franco, as we both supported our wives through breast cancer.
 
This year's race was intense—cramps, early knee pain, and a fellow racer not playing by the rules.
 
His behavior triggered me, but I realized it was a mirror reflecting areas where I lacked honor in my own life.
 
A powerful lesson in self-awareness.
 
The race continued with strategy changes, a unique downhill running technique, and finally catching up to Franco to finish together.
 
It marked the end of my obstacle course racing journey.
 
I'm retiring to focus on spiritual mountains and guiding others through challenges.
 
The takeaway? Every trigger is an opportunity for self-discovery.
 
Look within and ask, "What is this person showing me about myself?"
 
"It is a sin to judge anyone by his post" - Saint Augustine
 
 
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After some time away, we're back with exciting updates. Amid shifts in our Scendancy journey, we've witnessed incredible client transformations. Our approach to sharing our message has evolved, as discussed in this podcast.
 
A decade ago, Spartan races ignited my warrior spirit. They mirrored my personal growth journey, replacing quitting with resilience.
 
Overcoming obstacles fueled my confidence, leading to personal development. Fitness became my anchor, battling demons like alcoholism, and reshaping my mindset.
 
Then the Realization hit: I'm solely responsible for my life.
 
Blame vanished, empowering me to shape reality.
 
Takeaway: Embrace your inner warrior, shape your destiny, and expect revelations on your growth journey.
 
Ever felt stuck despite efforts?
Anger won't break the cycle.
Rise above negativity, choose action over blame.
Free will is power; blaming robs it. 
 
Embrace yourself, move forward, and change your relationship with life.
 
In relationships, I've seen cycles of struggle. Blaming hampers change. We control our lives more than we think.
Shifted my coaching approach to impactful workshops, offering rapid transformation. Also supporting cancer-fighting couples with free seminars.
 
Take charge of your life. No retreat. No surrender. This is your Spartan law.
 
“God bestows more consideration on the purity of the intention with which our actions are performed than on the actions themselves.” - Saint Augustine
 
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Join me on this insightful episode of  "Message to My Kids the Podcast". In this special interview, I sit down with the remarkable couple, Steve and Kelly Leitch , who have navigated the complexities of blending families, maintaining strong connections, and nurturing their faith.
 
Steve and Kelly, married for nine years, share their unique journey of bringing together a blended family with six children.
 
Through the highs and challenges, they've cultivated a powerful connection that revolves around open conversations, understanding each other's love languages, and embracing their imperfections.
 
Discover the heartwarming traditions that Steve and Kelly have incorporated into their family life, from regular family meals to engaging in meaningful activities that foster deep connections. They delve into their strategies for addressing conflicts, stepping out of comfort zones, and embracing vulnerability in order to strengthen their relationship.
 
In this episode, you'll also hear about Steve's personal journey in endurance swimming and how it mirrors his approach to life and relationships. Kelly shares her perspective on their life together and how they support each other's growth.
 
Tune in to gain valuable insights into building lasting connections, facing challenges with faith, and prioritizing growth in your relationships. Whether you're part of a blended family or simply seeking inspiration for your own journey, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom and experiences to apply to your own life.
 
Stay connected, embrace imperfections, and remember that life's journey is a path of awakening.
 
“There is no love without hope, no hope without love, and neither love nor hope without faith.”
— Saint Augustine
 
 
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Embarking on this podcast episode feels like a heart-to-heart conversation, where I hope my words resonate with you on a personal level.
 
From the surprising vantage point of Sin City, I'm your Reverend pondering the deeper meaning of this vibrant desert oasis. It's as if every dazzling light and meticulously crafted attraction holds a secret message for us.
 
Beneath the surface allure of wealth, intimacy, and excitement, there lies a common yearning – a search for fulfillment and purpose. Many of us feel trapped in the darkness, concealing our struggles behind masks of having it all together. But here's the revelation: that darkness isn't our core. There's a light within us, a spark that craves something more meaningful.
 
This journey to embrace our true selves demands courage. It's about silencing the noise, tuning into the whispers of our inner voice, and taking that bold leap of faith.
 
Nature holds the key – go, sit, listen.
 
I'm no preacher; I'm a fellow traveler sharing insights from the heart.
 
Embrace that first step, and you're on your way to discovering the life you dream of, the connection you crave, and the fulfillment you deserve.
 
“He who has God has everything; he who has everything but God has nothing.”
— Saint Augustine
 
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I've been going through a rough patch lately, feeling under the weather and all. But enough about that – today, let's talk about something we've all faced: the feeling of not being good enough.
 
 
I've been there – the moments when doubt creeps in and we compare ourselves to others. Sometimes we put on a confident facade, hiding our insecurities. Other times, we let those insecurities keep us isolated, shying away from connections.
 
 
But here's the real deal: we don't have to stay in this cycle. I've been through it, and I've discovered that tapping into faith, spirituality, or a deeper purpose can transform everything. It's about shedding the masks, embracing authenticity, and finding confidence from within.
 
 
Sure, it's not an instant fix, and it takes stepping out of your comfort zones. But the journey is worth it. 
 
Whether you decide to reach out or not, remember you're not alone in this struggle. 
 
You have the power to change the narrative and live authentically. Stay connected, and let's journey together.
 
"Desire only God, and your heart will be satisfied." - Saint Augustine
 
 
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