Outgrow The Grind Stacy Kellogg

Today’s episode features Kellita Maloof, a trauma-informed, award-winning Performing and Teaching Artist and Conscious Burlesque Mentor, lovingly known as the Showgirl Shaman. Join us on this journey of joy, embodiment, creative expression and community!
🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn:
Kellita’s perspective on “the grind” and its systemic nature.
How the grind had its grips on her even as a little kid with a worry list.
How change requires feeling, which requires more time and space.
How our feelings are our most current data and information in our lives.
What sensations Kellita notices in her body when she’s excited about something.
The offering Kellita allowed herself to change her mind about.
Kellita’s journey towards dance and her shift in focus from her weaknesses to her joy.
How joy and pleasure is a practice and can be easier to practice when in community with others.
Kellita’s “gateway drug” that led her to a career in creative and healing arts.
Why Kellita believes in prioritizing relationality over instrumentality like production and output leads to a more fulfilling and sustainable creative practice.
Stacy shares her experience of dancing in San Francisco’s Carnaval parade last year and how the joy and connection far outweighed her initial fears and doubts.
What orchids and highly sensitive people have in common.
Your reflection questions: 1) Where do you notice feeling joyful? 2) What does it feel like in your body? 3) How can you infuse more of that into your life?
🌱 Seeds planted in this episode:
Visit Kellita’s website here.
Learn more about dancing in this year's San Francisco Carnaval Parade with Kellita and the Hot Pink Feathers dance troupe. Find out what your Showgirl Archetype is by taking this quiz.
Join Kellita’s watch party intro events on Thursday, March 21st: register for her “From the Inside Out” documentary watch party or her TEDx watch party (or both!)
Connect with Kellita on Instagram here (@kellitatheshowgirlshaman).
Watch Kellita’s TEDx or her short documentary.
Read my blog about getting ready to dance with Kellita in the San Francisco Carnaval parade last year!
Read my blog about how dancing in the parade honored my value of delight.
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Are you a high-achieving people-pleaser who wants to weed out the energy-draining bullshit and cultivate your courage?
Book a complimentary, no-strings-attached chemistry session with me here.
Visit my website: https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/
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In today’s episode, you’ll meet Amber Dugger, the Founder of Profit for Keeps. Amber helps entrepreneurs outgrow the grind of financial confusion, disempowerment, and isolation and grow towards more clarity, empowerment and community. If you’re an entrepreneur who’s been longing for a more simple, creative, and joyful approach to cash flow, then this episode is for you.
🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn:
How a cold piece of pizza at Amber’s cubicle desk was a moment of clarity.
About how a  life-altering bike accident completely shifted Amber’s perspective on gratitude.
What twists and turns Amber’s career took before she started leading the Profit for Joy movement.
How Amber went from floundering after leaving her corporate finance job to being part of a community of entrepreneurs in Bali.
Amber’s unique approach to money that doesn’t ignore our behaviors or emotions [that we all wish would’ve been taught in school!]
The inspirational phrase that was written on a card Amber carried with her everywhere the first five years of her business.
What I learned from Amber’s Profit for Keeps approach and how it’s positively impacted both my life and business.
Amber’s approach to giving and service that also includes you as the owner of the business, not just your clients and the causes you care about.
How to create financial goals that incorporate you, your business, and your big dreams.
How profit for joy is about fulfilling our own desires AND putting money in the places where we want to see impact.
How becoming more empowered around your finances can be creative and joyful!
How being a 7th generation New Mexican influences which trees and flowers Amber most loves.
Your reflection question: What would be possible if you proceeded as if success was inevitable? 
🌱 Seeds planted in this episode:
Join Amber’s upcoming live [and free!] Masterclass “5 Key Strategies to Permanent Profitability” here on September 12th, 14th or 16th. In this masterclass, you’ll lay the roadmap to a profitable and sustainable business while uncovering how to start healing your relationship with money.
Connect with Amber on Facebook. 🫘🌱🌿🌷
Are you a high-achieving people-pleaser who wants to weed out the energy-draining bullshit and cultivate your courage?
Book a complimentary, no-strings-attached chemistry session with me here.
Visit my website: https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/
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I'm so excited to introduce you to Seema Sodha, Canadian Indian leadership and executive coach, heart centered facilitator, women's circle holder, and writer. In this conversation, Seema shares about how easily creative endeavors can turn into the grind, especially when we’re looking for answers outside of ourselves.
🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn:
The story of how I first met Seema and what an honor and delight it is to co-create with her.
What household object the texture of “the grind” reminds Seema of.
How Seema’s rigid writing regimen got her more words on the page but missed the heart and soul. 
The messages we receive about productivity and action that can get especially loud when we create something new.
How Seema shifted her approach to bring more of herself and her unique taste into her writing.
The beautiful way Seema engages her senses and self-trust when she writes.
How trusting ourselves is an important part of taking our power back, and how it’s a nonlinear process.
What external forces make it easy for us to hand our power over to someone else and not trust ourselves.
How Seema sees the moments we realize we’re in the grind as an invitation.
How sharing your truth and connecting with others is an antidote to the sneakiness of the grind that wears us down.
About our upcoming women’s circle where we’ll help you explore and befriend your inner good girl / people pleaser.
The two herbs from Seema’s garden that transform her week.
Reflection question: Bring to your heart or mind the thing that you're creating right now. How can you bring more of you [and your own unique flavor] into it?
🌱 Seeds planted in this episode:
Reach out to Seema here. You can also find her on Instagram, Substack, or LinkedIn.
Learn about and join our women’s circle (co-led by Seema and me!) on September 10th: Befriend You Inner Girl.
Learn more about our Justice Equity Diversity and Inclusion (JEDI) Leadership programs at The Roundtable Institute. Does your company need this too? Email me.
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Are you a high-achieving people-pleaser who wants to weed out the energy-draining bullshit and cultivate your courage?
Book a complimentary, no-strings-attached chemistry session with me here.
Visit my website: https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/
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Does what you're hearing on Outgrow the Grind resonate with you? I’d love it if you’d share the podcast! And, if you’re feeling extra generous, leave us a five-star review wherever you listen to your podcasts. Let’s grow!
 

What if feeling like a “failure” is just a natural part of growth? 
It’s been more than six months since the last episode of Outgrow the Grind! In this courageous and honest episode, I share with you where I’ve been, what I’ve learned, and where I’m going.
🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn:
The three things I’ve learned about growth in the last six months: 1) You can’t rush growth; 2) Growth is both seen and unseen; and 3) Everything that grows has different growing conditions and a different pace of growth
What I was making “lack of growth” in 2022 mean for me personally and professionally
Why I took a 6+ month long “holiday break” from this podcast
How creativity calls forward our courage and invites us to break some rules
The impact that unshaming has had on me + my life  + my work
About my co-creative collaboration with Seema Sodha and what we’re planting and tending to that we’ll share with you!
My realization about how much I love and missed in person connection
How I went for exactly what I wanted to celebrate my 40th birthday
An update about my current Outgrow the Grind Women’s Circle
What I’ve been dreaming of offering you is finally going to happen this Fall! And spoiler alert, it’s in person!!
🌱 Seeds planted in this episode:
Kris Zarnoch is my amazing podcast producer, editor and creative director
Join my mailing list
Galway Kinnell’s poem, Saint Francis and the Sow
More about UnShaming with David Bedrick
Meet Seema Sodha, Priestess, Writer, Heart Centered and Inclusive Leadership Coach and JEDI Facilitator
Learn more about our Justice Equity Diversity and Inclusion Leadership programs at The Roundtable Institute
Danielle LaPorte’s Heart Centered Leadership Program
Join my Ease + Enchantment Retreat interest list
Are you feeling more burned out than lit up? Join my “Venture into Your Values” workshop on Sunday, June 11th and it’s $37. You’ll get 20% off if you bring a friend with the discount code BRINGABUDDY.
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Are you a high-achieving people-pleaser who wants to weed out the energy-draining bullshit and cultivate your courage?
Book a complimentary, no-strings-attached chemistry session with me here.
Visit my website: https://www.stacyrayekellogg.com/
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outgrowthegrind/
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Does what you're hearing on Outgrow the Grind resonate with you? I’d love it if you’d share the podcast! And, if you’re feeling extra generous, leave us a five-star review wherever you listen to your podcasts. Let’s grow!
 

This time of year can sometimes feel heavy and exhausting. In this episode, I share some ideas about what may help you reconnect with your wellness and your wisdom.
🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn:
What inanimate object I felt “jealous” of because of its carefree lightness What’s recently contributed to this feeling of heaviness for me   What Amelia and Emily Nagoski call ‘The Human Giver Syndrome’ in their book Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle How the holidays can add extra pressure on top of what we’re feeling What can help us take better care of ourselves during the winter holiday season. The seven different types of rest from Dr. Saundra Dalton Smith’s Ted Talk (The real reason why we are tired and what to do about it). All about Lighten to Liberate, our upcoming women’s circles, where we’ll talk about how to shift from exhausted to energized by practicing the art of self-compassion A beautiful poem by Mary Oliver called The Journey 🌱 Seeds planted in this episode:
Join the waitlist for the upcoming Lighten to Liberate women’s circles I’m co-facilitating with Leadership Coach and Heart Centered Facilitator Seema Sodha on November 27 and December 1, 2022. 🫘🌱🌿🌷
Are you resonating with what you're hearing on Outgrow the Grind? I’d love it if you’d share the podcast! And, if you’re feeling extra generous, leave us a five-star review wherever you listen to your podcasts. Let’s grow together!

We’re joined by my previous client (and longtime hometown friend!) Chelsea Krueger in this episode. Chelsea shares her journey of outgrowing the grind in her relationship with her body.
🌱 In this episode, you’ll learn:
About the pressure Chelsea felt around what she ate and how she exercised when she was in the grind. How looking to external sources for “the rules” created more stress and burnout. What the grind felt like. A reminder that outgrowing the grind is a journey and not a destination. How Chelsea is outgrowing the Body and Wellness grind by tuning in and trusting herself more.  How permission won’t come from someone else (as much as we wish it would!) Chelsea’s many sources of support along the journey - and what her trainer, dance class, and coaching with me has helped her realize. The role that compassion plays in giving ourselves permission. A serendipitous story about a tropical photoshoot and Chelsea’s decision to choose permission over pressure in a way that honors her body exactly as it is. Chelsea’s advice for women in the Body and Wellness grind. Your reflection question: how can you honor your body right now, exactly as it is?  🌱 Seeds planted in this episode:
Curious about how coaching can support you and your growth? Book a complimentary, no-strings-attached chemistry session with me here. Are you craving more permission than pressure in your holiday season this year? DM me on Instagram. 🫘🌱🌿🌷
Are you resonating with what you're hearing on Outgrow the Grind? I’d love it if you’d share the podcast! And, if you’re feeling extra generous, leave us a five-star review wherever you listen to your podcasts. Let’s grow together!