Sex Chat for Christian Wives Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor

Earlier on in our podcast, we had an episode in which we gave advice to our newlywed selves. Today we want to revisit that topic a bit, but rather than talking to ourselves, we want to share the wisdom we've gained with young wives.
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Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian marital aid and sex toy store, for sponsoring this episode.
From the Bible
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7
Resources
Episode 32: Advice for Our Newlywed Selves Episode 43: Dealing with Sexual Baggage The Bad Plan of Bartering for Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Embrace a Sexual Growth Mindset - Hot, Holy & Humorous What I Wish I'd Known Before the Wedding Night - Hot, Holy & Humorous A Letter to My Newlywed Self: Age 25 - Hot, Holy & Humorous Faithful Counseling (online therapy with a fellow believer through Better Help) Episode 153: Practical Tips for Reaching Orgasm Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns Orgasm Webinar - ONLY $10! Donate to the ministry HERE.
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Chris gives you four tips on dealing with a gag reflex during oral sex.

When we talk about romantic attraction, we think of personal charm, visual appeal, and that spark of chemistry when a certain person is near. But for today's episode, consider this scientific one from Merriam-Webster, defining attraction as "a force acting mutually between particles of matter, tending to draw them together, and resisting their separation."

We're not just particles, but we want to be drawn toward our husband and to resist separation from him (and vice versa). But attraction doesn't stay the same over the whole of our marriage. Today, we talk about how we can keep attraction going or revive it if it's been lost.
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From the Bible
My beloved is radiant and ruddy,
    distinguished among ten thousand.
Song of Songs 5:10
But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.
2 Peter 3:18
Resources

What If You Don't Find Your Husband Attractive - Hot, Holy & Humorous How to Boost Romantic Chemistry in Your Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why Being a Good Father Turns Your Wife On - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 70: Pursuing & Wooing Your Wife, with Kevin A. Thompson - Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com) I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either - Kevin A. Thompson (kevinathompson.com) Donate to the Ministry HERE.
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie sex tip encourages you to learn about your husband's body.

You've probably heard that sex is good for your husband or good for your marriage, but what about you? We share our thoughts on what's so great about sex for WIVES. Listen in!
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Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian sex toy store, for sponsoring this episode.
From the Bible

So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him under the sun. Ecclesiastes 8:15 (NKJV)

So God created mankind in his own image,
    in the image of God he created them;
    male and female he created them.
God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day.
Genesis 1:27, 31

“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32

Resources

Dear Wife, You Deserve a Great Sex Life | Calm.Healthy.Sexy. Sex Is for You Too Episode 132: The Orgasm Iceberg Controversial Ideas: Does Semen Act As an Antidepressant to the Recipient? (popsci.com) The Health Benefits of Sex (healthline.com) The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment by Clifford & Joyce Penner Episode 101: Enjoying Sex, with Joyce Penner Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Dr. Juli Slattery Episode 147: God, Sex, and Your Marriage, with Dr. Juli Slattery Donate to Our Ministry
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

In this week's sex tip, Chris talks about undressing for your husband as a sort of foreplay that helps both of you.