The Flourishing Introvert Talks Joanna Rawbone
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Even though around half of any population identify as introverts, this is one aspect of diversity and inclusion that is often overlooked.
Every Thursday join flourishing introvert and TEDx speaker Joanna Rawbone MSc, as she explores the costly challenges that introverts face on a regular basis. With her typically pragmatic approach, Joanna’s show includes a mix of 10-minute topics, interviews with inspirational introverts and episodes on how to get the best from introverts.
If you are an introvert who is ready to begin or continue flourishing, a manager looking to access the potential of the introverts in your team or the loved one of an introvert wanting to understand how to improve your relationship, this is the podcast you’ve been waiting for.
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Ep 223 Where’s Your Changing Mat
Summary
In this episode, I delve into the metaphorical significance that a personal changing mat might play in lives of we introverts.
Just as babies are laid with care upon a changing mat to be freshened up, we introverts would also benefit from having cleansing moments to be ready for our next adventure. It is about taking note of when it's time to pause so we reflect on the direction in which we're headed versus where we truly want to be going.
Change is necessary for growth and a 'changing mat' moment can signify readiness for transformation. For we introverts, our self-reflection on our metaphorical changing mat gives us an opportunity to wipe-away what no longer serves us and accept positive change aligned with our core values and aspirations.
It does require being vulnerable but there is a promise of a more empowered us by actively choosing who we want to become rather than remaining stuck in who we have been.
Key Points:
- Changing mat - A symbol of new beginnings.
- Conduct a 'life audit' for self-awareness
- Use introspection to initiate change
PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:
What Type of Introvert are you? Find out by taking the quiz here. Want to watch our Video LIVE Show? Tune-in here. Take advantage of the free Clarity call here. It's time to explore your development needs to unlock your potential. Visit Joanna’s website right here. Join the Flourishing Introverts Facebook Community of like-minded Introverts here. -
Ep 222 How to Bite Back
Summary
This is the episode I needed several times in my life but it didn't exist back then. In "How to Bite Back," I examine the common misconception that kindness is weakness.
We introverts so often feel the pressure to people-please at the expense of our own well-being. In this episode I aim to empower listeners who identify as people-pleasers to hold boundaries both for self-care and to maintain healthy relationships. Being assertive is standing up for your rights and needs, whilst respecting the rights and needs of others.
I share my ABC framework—Assertiveness, Bravery, Confidence - for we introverts to stand up for ourselves with poise and dignity, to bite back with kindness and transparency.
Key Points
Kindness isn't weakness; set boundaries. Assertiveness respects self and others. Communication involves listening and understanding. PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:
What Type of Introvert are you? Find out by taking the quiz here. Want to watch our Video LIVE Show? Tune-in here. Take advantage of the free Clarity call here. It's time to explore your development needs to unlock your potential. Visit Joanna’s website right here. Join the Flourishing Introverts Facebook Community of like-minded Introverts here. -
Ep 221 The Gift of Showing Kindness to Others
Summary
In this episode of The Flourishing Introvert Talks, I reach into the profound impact that kindness has on our lives and those around us. As an introvert myself, I understand how misconceptions can paint a skewed picture of who we are.
This episode is about championing kindness over meanness, because it's not only beneficial to others but also enriches our own lives.
In my view, kindness acts like a pebble thrown into water, creating ripples that extend far beyond the initial splash. The Batari’s Box model shows us how our behaviour influences others and vice versa—choosing kindness can change the course of interactions for the better.
Remember, responding with compassion isn't a weakness; it's a powerful choice backed by social psychology principles such as reciprocity and cooperation. By embracing kindness, we contribute to better world while nurturing our emotional intelligence.
Key Points
Kindness creates positive ripple effects Kindness is not the weak option Responding with compassion is empowering for both parties PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:
What Type of Introvert are you? Find out by taking the quiz here. Want to watch our Video LIVE Show? Tune-in here. Take advantage of the free Clarity call here. It's time to explore your development needs to unlock your potential. Visit Joanna’s website right here. Join the Flourishing Introverts Facebook Community of like-minded Introverts here. -
Ep 220 Is It Time To Be Kinder To Yourself
Summary
Now, this one is a topic close to my heart: self-kindness.
This episode is me allowing myself to share my personal reflection on the power of adopting intentional practice of self-compassion to lead a more fulfilling existence.
I have committed to not judge myself if today's best is not as good as yesterday's best. As an (open) introvert myself, I understand the challenges we introverts face in honouring our own needs and boundaries. Hence being kinder to ourselves is very important for us.
By challenging limiting beliefs and affirming our worth through positive self-talk and actions aligned with our goals, we as introverts can thrive in serenity and confidence.
Key Points
Self-Kindness is the foundation of all kindness Being kind to self is key to healthy and fulfilled life Doing your best is variable and that’s okay PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:
What Type of Introvert are you? Find out by taking the quiz here. Email your suggested topics here. Take advantage of the free Clarity call here. It's time to explore your development needs to unlock your potential. Visit Joanna’s website right here. Join the Flourishing Introverts Facebook Community of like-minded Introverts here. -
Ep 219 So You’re An Introvert – Now What
Summary
Being an Open Introvert myself and not discovering that until my 30s, in this episode I venture into a topic that hits close to home for we introverts - discovering your introversion later in life.
I discuss how this realisation can be pivotal in enabling us to understand our introversion better and use the natural strengths it holds for us.
The primary goal from this episode is simple - for we introverts to recognise and celebrate our introversion so we can build our careers and lives our life authentically. By acknowledging our introversion we introverts can begin to make choices that honour our needs and respects our boundaries.
Key Points:
Let not the late discovery of introversion be our weakness, but our strength. Introversion is not a flaw but a distinct temperament. Live and create your authentic career and life, empowered by your introversion. PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:
What Type of Introvert are you? Find out by taking the quiz here. Email your suggested topics here. Take advantage of the free Clarity call here. It's time to explore your development needs to unlock your potential. Visit Joanna’s website right here. Join the Flourishing Introverts Facebook Community of like-minded Introverts here. -
Ep 218 The Majesty of Quiet Presence
Summary
In this episode, I explore the nuanced world where introversion meets presence.
We often misconstrue presence as an attribute reserved for the extraverts and gregarious, but that's a myth I am eager to debunk. With Caroline McHugh's concept of 'interiority' guiding us, I talk about what it means for introverts to cultivate a genuine sense of self in both personal and professional realms.
True presence isn't about volume; it’s about value.
We introverts have unique strengths such as deep thoughtfulness, empathy, and a reflective approach to leadership that can be equally commanding. By focusing on confidence building rooted in self-awareness, honing communication skills tailored to our listening abilities, maintaining composure under pressure, and preparing meticulously for engagements where we need to shine—we too can command respect effectively.
Key Points:
Presence transcends loud charisma Confidence built on self-awareness Authenticity empowers introverted leaders
PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:
Email your suggested topics here. Take advantage of the free Clarity call here. It's time to explore your development needs to unlock your potential. What Type of Introvert are you? Find out by taking the quiz here. Visit Joanna’s website right here. Join the Flourishing Introverts Facebook Community of like-minded Introverts here.