Unleash The Man Within Sathiya Sam

Join us for our another live-coaching episode! We're excited to bring two courageous men on the show who we'll coach LIVE here to help them get to the root of their issues and find freedom.

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Before we get into the live coaching, Sathiya and Shawn discuss the importance of claiming your true identity and figuring out your ACTUAL motivation for recovery, so that you're not just constantly "managing" your addiction, but truly finding healing and growth.

We brought on two amazing listeners who asked questions, and we did our best to give them some live coaching during the episode. Questions include how to handle everything suddenly becoming a trigger after 6 months of being free from porn, and how to stop codependent patterns around caring more about what your wife thinks about your recovery than your own actual recovery.

In this episode, we discuss:

1:14 Persevering with a vision, even through hardship

3:29 What are the elements of a healthy, solid identity?

7:27 When your idea of identity betrays a false underlying belief

10:00 The power (necessity?) of having local accountability and real relationships

12:01 The challenges of isolation, especially spiritually

15:24 Is your secret life exhausting you?

17:19 Finding your ACTUAL motivation for recovery and handling higher temptation environments

21:55 Question 1: Free from porn for 6 months, but now everything is a trigger...how do I overcome this?

32:54 Question 2: How do I stop my codependent habits and correctly order my relationship with God and my wife?

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The Last Relapse (Free Book)

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Everybody gets triggered. If you didn't, you'd never slip, make bad decisions, and watch porn/relapse.

I'm going to be diving into a short masterclass on triggers today, to help you understand what they are, why they matter, and how to actually manage them effectively so you take back control of your life.

In this episode, we discuss:

2:04 My recent experience with Mind Pump

4:30 Triggers are individual

6:14 Internal vs external triggers

8:00 3 tools to manage triggers effectively

✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.

Resources Mentioned:

Mind Pump

The Last Relapse (Free Book!)

Sal Di Stefano Episode

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Today Sathiya sits down with Pastor Mike Novotny to discuss his work bringing light to taboo subjects, including pornography addiction, and how Mike was freed from his own addiction.

It seems like so many Christians have a hard time talking about subjects that are uncomfortable or make us squirm a little, and sadly that's actually one of the reasons why believers still struggle with things like porn addiction...because we don't confess to one another (regularly!).

This is a convicting and very practical episode...make sure to pick up Pastor Mike's newest book Taboo (link below)!

Pastor Mike Novotny has served God’s people in full-time ministry since 2007 in Madison and, most recently, at The CORE in Appleton, Wisconsin. He also serves as the lead speaker for Time of Grace, where he shares the good news about Jesus through television, print, and online platforms.

In this episode, we discuss:

0:00 Introducing Mike Novotny

2:00 Why start talking specifically about taboo subjects?

4:18 Why is porn addiction so prevalent among Christians, even those who regularly go to church?

5:12 How to resist ever-present temptation

8:35 Should we revolt against the word "purity"?

12:27 When God heals you of porn addiction

17:40 Confession for quitting porn

22:32 Why talk about suicide

29:33 How to think about technology and social media

37:42 Tools to combat the enemy

40:44 How to get deeper into the Word of God

44:00 Scriptures to help you defeat sexual sin

✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.

Resources Mentioned:

Taboo by Mike Novotny

Mike Novotny on Time of Grace

Mike Novotny on Instagram

Time of Grace Youtube Channel

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Want to learn how to actually build confidence? Do you want to learn the 3 things that confident people do to build and maintain their confidence?

If so, hit play and listen to this episode.

Sathiya breaks down his own personal experience, findings after surveying and interviewing his staff and clients, and other proven tactics in order to give you a working definition of confidence (to give you something to aim at), plus some simple solutions for increasing your confidence starting today.

In this episode, we discuss:

1:17 My story from confident to shaken, to building back confidence

3:00 What is confidence?

6:37 The thing that actually builds confidence

8:05 The 3 things confident people do

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Join us for our second live-coaching episode! We're excited to bring two courageous men on the show who we'll coach LIVE here to help them get to the root of their issues and find freedom.

Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.

Before we get into the live coaching, Sathiya and Shawn discuss singleness and whether the church is doing a good enough job encouraging and talking about singleness, or if marriage has become a bit of an idol. This is a great conversation for all of our single listeners who are wondering how to navigate that while still struggling with addiction to pornography...we got you!

We brought on two amazing listeners who asked questions, and we did our best to give them some live coaching during the episode. Questions include fertility and the consequences of porn use, as well as how to navigate constant and overwhelming urges (even if you don't give into them).

In this episode, we discuss:

1:49 Is there an anti-singleness bias in the church?

5:32 Focusing on your growth

12:35 The one way we've seen lists work when preparing to find a partner

16:53 Marriage is really special to the heart of God

18:55 Make sure you're putting in the work while you've got time for it!

23:43 Question 1: Can eliminating sexual misbehaviour aid in efforts to get pregnant?

35:37 Question 2: No matter what I do, I constantly have urges, and it's causing me to think about relapsing all the time...what do I do?

✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.

Resources Mentioned:

The Last Relapse (Free Book)

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It's not always easy to talk about money, but guys, we know vulnerability, transparency, and honesty are KEY factors in recovery, so we'll be talking about it more on this podcast, starting with today's episode on: what to do if you don't think you can afford a program or coach to help you recover?

My response might surprise you here, but I urge you to listen to the whole episode, because the bottom line here is not whether you can afford to invest in your recovery...it's whether you can afford NOT to invest in it.

In this episode, we discuss:

1:07 Get a free copy of my book

2:17 What to do if recovery isn't affordable

5:02 You can't afford NOT to recover

7:28 How to decide where to invest and steward wiselyl

8:55 Why it's good thing if it costs a decent amount of money

✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.

Resources Mentioned:

The Last Relapse (Free Book!)

Get Your Question Answered:

❓ Submit Your Question Here

LET'S CONNECT

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Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!