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I am Jai The Gentleman and this Dear Black Gay Men Podcast.


It's a short, bullshit-free step out of our comfort zone to talk about all the emotional ups-and-downs along the journey to happiness. Hopefully, this is our weekly reminder of how dope it is to be Black gay men who love Black gay men. 

Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Jai The Gentleman

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I am Jai The Gentleman and this Dear Black Gay Men Podcast.


It's a short, bullshit-free step out of our comfort zone to talk about all the emotional ups-and-downs along the journey to happiness. Hopefully, this is our weekly reminder of how dope it is to be Black gay men who love Black gay men. 

    Dating Pool Has P*ss In it

    Dating Pool Has P*ss In it

    Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen


    This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:


    Why the dating pool is trash and what exactly you can do about it.


    Conversation with Dwayne: https://youtube.com/live/hR-O0g_1nyc?feature=share


    Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman


    Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop


    Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df


    Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

    • 10 min
    I'm a Horrible Hook-up

    I'm a Horrible Hook-up

    Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen


    This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:


    How I stood a guy up twice and why we don't put enough effort into finding value in dating.


    Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman


    Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop


    Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df


    Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

    • 11 min
    I've low key had it with "low key"

    I've low key had it with "low key"

    Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen


    This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:


    What does it mean to be "low key" and why the gworls secretly hate being bottoms.


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    Strong Bottoms: https://youtube.com/live/1N1izj92yC4?feature=share


    Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman


    Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop


    Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df


    Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

    • 11 min
    What music do you play on a hook-up?

    What music do you play on a hook-up?

    When's the last time you listened to the music they were playing during an entanglement? It's trying to tell you something.






    Merch: dearblackgaymen.shop


    YouTube: youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen


    Support: patreon.com/dearblackgaymen

    • 10 min
    Why wait for s*x?

    Why wait for s*x?

    Question for the comments: do you wait to have sex or let it happen whenever the vibe is right


    Screenshot this episode. Tag @DearBlackGayMen in your story.


    Watch on YT: https://youtu.be/tXwT3Am06DM






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    • 11 min
    Do bottoms need to be more submissive?

    Do bottoms need to be more submissive?

    Question for the comments: how do you define "submissive"?


    DBGM Live in Atlanta: https://posh.vip/e/dgbm-live-podcast-atl


    Shop DBGM Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop


    Connect with Jai The Gentleman: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman

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