What Would Love Do? Jonathon Aslay
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The focus of one of America's Leading Mid-Life Dating Coaches has expanded into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE.
After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay’s grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he became aware of an often-overlooked dimension of the dating conversation.
He realized that the process of dating reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love.
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Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully
Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully
We’re diving deep into what intimacy means and why it’s the cause of so many breakups. Normally we think of physical intimacy as being sex and a non-existent sex life can certainly cause a break up. But there are different levels of intimacy that we’re discussing today.
Being the provider – as so many men were taught in their youth – is not as important in the midlife years. Most single midlife women have their own careers and have their own financial plans in order. So, men need to do more than provide a paycheck to show their partner that they are committed to their future.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why most relationships end and how to create more intimacy in your relationship (and I don’t just mean sex).
Let’s talk about… Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends -
How A Man's Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share
How A Man’s Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share
This episode is from my appearance on Eric Coplen’s The Music of Life channel and I wanted to share it because it’s important to remember that men can also be deeply affected by life events and failed relationships.
I get vulnerable and honest here, discussing the aftermath of my divorce, getting laid off from my corporate job, and the market crash of 2008. All of these things happened in a short period of time and it really put me in a tailspin.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about men’s reactions to traumatic events and why women are willing to nurture men even when their lives seem to be falling apart.
Let’s talk about… How A Man’s Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends -
High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney
High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney
Your past does not determine your future.
You’ve probably heard that before and you might even think, “Oh, that’s easy for him to say,” but my friend and guest, Patty Tierney, is proof positive that you CAN change those lessons learned in childhood.
Patty shares about how she became a people-pleaser as a child and then transformed into a truth goddess as an adult. Of course, this type of transformation does not happen overnight; it’s a daily practice but well worth the effort and commitment if you want the change badly enough.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about staying true to yourself and how the path to healing is not a straight line.
Let’s talk about…High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends -
7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce
7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce
Going through a divorce is traumatic. Even if you have the most amicable divorce, there’s still a level of trauma that upends your life and plants the seeds of how you’ll go forward emotionally.
Like it or not, a divorce changes your view on relationships and messes with your emotions. If you’ve never done any personal development, now is the perfect time to start. At the very least, show yourself some self-love and commit to yourself that you will strive for what YOU want the rest of your life to look like.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how divorce changes our feelings and thoughts and how to love ourselves going back into the dating world.
Let’s talk about… 7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends -
Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used
Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used
Words are powerful. Whether someone is praising you for a job well done or cursing you out in a fit of road rage, you know exactly what’s happening in each situation.
But words can also be deeply nuanced, in the case of claiming to love someone. Do they love you like they want to spend the rest of their life with you? Or do they love you in the moment until someone else more spectacular comes along?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about being honest with our feelings and learning how to express those feelings with your partner.
Let’s talk about… Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends -
3 Ways A Man Knows You're The One and He'll Commit For Good
3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good
When we have busy lives, we tend to take the good things for granted. But when you take someone for granted, you run the risk of them getting bored or feeling unappreciated. Ultimately you run the risk of them leaving.
This is where committed conversations are so valuable. Instead of sticking to the surface details of “how was your day,” get vulnerable and TELL your guy why you appreciate him. This type of communication is SO much more than simply saying, “Thanks for making dinner.” And if your guy is willing to get deeper, that’s a really good sign to keep having these conversations.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to have deep, committed conversations so no one feels unappreciated or disrespected.
Let’s talk about… 3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends