Financially Ever After Widowhood Stacy Francis

What does the word widow mean to you? This is a question today’s guest thinks we should all be asking because it could use a new definition. In this Financially Ever After Widowhood episode, Stacy Francis speaks with Eloise Bune D’Agostino, the founder of DayNew, a company and community to support people through life-changing events. They discuss the challenges and transformations of life after losing a spouse and how Eloise turned her grief into a powerful support network for others.
Key Takeaways:

The word widow has very dark and heavy connotations, but it should also represent strength, resilience and independence.

Eloise shares the story of how, after unexpectedly losing her husband, she connected with another new widow and created a tech company to help others navigate similar situations.

Support systems play a huge role in navigating grief. Grief groups can make a profound difference for people.

Losing a spouse means a lot of practical changes need to be made, even though taking action cab be incredibly difficult. Organizational aids can make it a little more manageable.

Explore how to keep the memory of loved ones alive through personal and family rituals and storytelling.

Everyone has their own grief journey, and there is no one single way to navigate it.

Get insights into creating a supportive community and accessing professional financial advice.

Resources
Eloise Bune | LinkedIn | Facebook | Instagram
Email: eloise@daynew.com
DayNew 

Stacy Francis | LinkedIn | X(Twitter)
Email: stacy@francisfinancial.com

What if you could uncover free money that is rightfully yours? In this episode of Financially Ever After, host Stacy Francis unveils the hidden world of unclaimed funds with guest David Silversmith, a CPA and certified financial planner. They discuss the staggering amount of unclaimed funds available, how they can accumulate from various sources like uncashed checks and dividends, and the importance of checking for unclaimed funds regularly. David sheds light on how to claim your rightful funds and avoid falling into common traps.


There are over $18 billion dollars in unclaimed funds. Discover how to locate yours and those left behind by deceased loved ones.

Learn the importance of tax planning and estate management, especially for widows and widowers, from a certified financial planner and CPA.

Find out how to easily access unclaimed funds in states like New York and the potential challenges in states like New Jersey.

Learn how to file claims for deceased loved ones, including the required documentation, such as death certificates and letters of testamentary.

Avoid common pitfalls when claiming unclaimed funds, such as paying unnecessary fees for services that can be accessed for free.

Explore the range of financial advisory services offered by experts like David Silversmith, including tax planning, audits, and estate management.


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David Silversmith | LinkedIn

Stacy Francis | LinkedIn | X(Twitter)
Email: stacy@francisfinancial.com

What are the key considerations when navigating the complex world of Medicare and health insurance as you approach age 65? In this episode, Riitta Schoenfeld, a Medicare expert, delves into the intricacies of Medicare, discussing eligibility, different plan options, penalties, and the importance of understanding your healthcare coverage. Join us as we unravel the maze of Medicare and empower you to make informed decisions for your financial and health security in your golden years.


Understanding the difference between Medicare and Medicaid is crucial for eligibility and coverage.

Riitta’s journey from volunteering to becoming a Medicare expert highlights the importance of helping others navigate healthcare options.

Medicare eligibility is based on age, disability, or specific medical conditions, such as end-stage renal disease or Lou Gehrig's disease.

The importance of signing up for Medicare at the right time to avoid penalties and ensure proper coverage.

The distinction between Medicare Advantage plans and Medigap insurance supplements in terms of coverage and benefits.

Long-term care, including custodial care, is not covered by Medicare, emphasizing the need for additional planning and insurance options.


Resources

Riitta Schoenfeld | LinkedIn
Email: RSchoenfeld@srhafetz.com
Telephone: 516-331-4833

Stacy Francis | LinkedIn | X(Twitter)
Email: stacy@francisfinancial.com

Do you know what steps to take and how to keep yourself secure in the face of a devastating medical diagnosis? In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, host Stacy Francis talks to Candace Dellacona, a family lawyer who helps older adults plan for their future. They discuss how to prepare for long-term care and protect your assets, such as ensuring you have a healthcare proxy and power of attorney and considering long-term care insurance. They also dive into why you should have a team of experts, including a geriatric care manager, who can help you find the best care options for your situation.


Planning for the future with a terminal illness diagnosis involves crisis planning to protect assets and ensure proper care for the sick spouse.

Medicaid and Medicare are essential programs to understand when planning for long-term care, with Medicaid serving as a payer of last resort for costs not covered by Medicare.

Long-term care insurance can provide options and financial relief for individuals facing the need for extended care, offering flexibility in choosing care providers and settings.

Advanced directives, including a health care proxy and power of attorney for finances, are crucial documents to have in place after receiving a serious medical diagnosis to ensure proper decision-making and care.

Building a team of professionals, including financial advisors, elder law attorneys, and geriatric care managers, is essential for navigating the complexities of long-term care planning and advocacy.

Support groups can be valuable resources for information and recommendations on care providers, legal assistance, and financial planning strategies for individuals facing medical crises and long-term care needs.


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Candace Dellacona on the Web | LinkedIn | Facebook
Email: Candace.Dellacona@offitkurman.com
Phone: 212-545-1656

Stacy Francis | LinkedIn | X(Twitter)
Email: stacy@francisfinancial.com

When you suffer a loss, should you move forward or move on? Nikki Sewell, a therapist with a personal experience of profound loss, offers a unique perspective on navigating grief and moving forward after the death of both her husband and father by the age of 30. With over 17 years of experience in grief counseling, Nikki emphasizes the importance of not just moving on but moving forward in the tapestry of life. Join Stacy Francis on this episode of Financially Ever After as Nikki shares her insights on setting healthy boundaries, practicing self-compassion, and the complexities of re-partnering after loss.


Moving forward, not moving on, is a more empowering approach to dealing with grief and loss, recognizing that past experiences are woven into the tapestry of our lives.

Setting healthy boundaries is crucial in the grieving process, especially for women who may struggle with people-pleasing tendencies and societal expectations.

Self-compassion plays a vital role in navigating grief and trauma, allowing individuals to acknowledge their emotions and prioritize self-care.

The decision to re-partner after losing a spouse is a personal choice, and individuals should focus on their own growth and happiness rather than societal pressures.

Recognizing that grief can manifest in different ways for different people, it's essential to be understanding and supportive of individuals experiencing loss.

Seeking professional therapy and support can help individuals navigate the emotional and financial challenges that come with the loss of a spouse.


Resources

Nikki Sewell | Website | Weekly Blog
Email: nikki@nikkisewell.com
Phone: 203-590-9642

Stacy Francis | LinkedIn | X(Twitter)
Email: stacy@francisfinancial.com

Have you considered the true cost of healthcare for women, especially in the face of widowhood? Forbes reports that women pay nearly $15 billion more than men in health costs. In this episode of Financially Ever After, host Stacy Francis is joined by Beth Battaglino, the CEO of Healthy Women, and Deb Gordon, the co-founder of Umbra Health Advocacy. Together, they discuss the significant challenges widows face in healthcare, including hidden and unexpected expenses that can cause severe financial strain. Financial education and proactivity is crucial, along with support from caring experts and advocates, so that you can empower yourself with physical and financial health. 


The widowhood effect highlights the increased risk of mortality and prolonged illnesses that women face after losing a spouse, emphasizing the importance of healthcare and preventative care.

Women pay much more for healthcare than men, with women paying more out of pocket due to differences in utilization patterns and services needed.

It is crucial to seek help and ask for assistance in navigating healthcare costs and bills, and take full advantage of the resources available to help reduce financial burdens and provide support.

You can make informed decisions about your healthcare and ensure you are adequately covered if you understand health insurance coverage and benefits. There are numerous experts and advocates who will stand by your side.

Utilizing healthcare flex spending accounts and health savings accounts can help women save money on healthcare expenses and plan for future medical needs.

Hiring patient advocates or utilizing the services of organizations like the Alliance of Professional Health Advocates can provide expert assistance in managing medical bills and navigating the healthcare system.


Resources

Deb Gordon | Umbra Health Advocacy | X(Twitter) | LinkedIn | Alliance of Professional Health Advocates
deb@umbrahealthadvocacy.com

Beth Battaglino | Healthy Women | X(Twitter) | LinkedIn

Stacy Francis | LinkedIn | X(Twitter)
Email: stacy@francisfinancial.com

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Forbes: Women Pay $15 Billion More Than Men for Medical Costs