19 min

Driven By Shoulds & Expectations And Two Options To Rid Yourself Of These Energy Vampires What Drives You with Kevin Miller

    • Self-Improvement

In this short episode I want to uncover the insidious role of expectations and shoulds that often make up much of our personal and cultural drive. And, it shouldn’t. Whatever you are driving after that is fueled by a should will bear bad fruit. One of three things will happen. One, you’ll achieve the objective, but with bitterness and exhaustion. Call it collateral damage. This is what leads to burnout. Two, you’ll achieve the objective but find no fulfillment and you’ll just wonder what’s next. Or three, you won’t ever achieve the objective because your heart is not really in it, and you’ll feel guilt and frustration because you know you’re capable. But right now, even as I say this, you’re likely to feel trapped, as you have built your life now, around a lot of should’s and expectations. I understand. I’ve done it too. There are two options to rid yourself of these energy vampires. That’s the show.

Got a comment or question about an episode? Want to ask a question about your drive? Email me. I don’t want to just talk to you here, I want to talk with you. kmiller@kevinmiller.co.

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In this short episode I want to uncover the insidious role of expectations and shoulds that often make up much of our personal and cultural drive. And, it shouldn’t. Whatever you are driving after that is fueled by a should will bear bad fruit. One of three things will happen. One, you’ll achieve the objective, but with bitterness and exhaustion. Call it collateral damage. This is what leads to burnout. Two, you’ll achieve the objective but find no fulfillment and you’ll just wonder what’s next. Or three, you won’t ever achieve the objective because your heart is not really in it, and you’ll feel guilt and frustration because you know you’re capable. But right now, even as I say this, you’re likely to feel trapped, as you have built your life now, around a lot of should’s and expectations. I understand. I’ve done it too. There are two options to rid yourself of these energy vampires. That’s the show.

Got a comment or question about an episode? Want to ask a question about your drive? Email me. I don’t want to just talk to you here, I want to talk with you. kmiller@kevinmiller.co.

Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code KEVIN and depending on the model receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off!

Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/kevin

Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial.

Available Nationally, look for a bottle of Heaven Hill Bottled-in-Bond at your local store. Find out more at heavenhilldistillery.com/hh-bottled-in-bond.php

Go to https://prolonlife.com/kevin and get TEN PERCENT off Prolon Life’s 5-day nutrition program

For comprehensive financial news and analysis, visit YahooFinance.com

Sign up for AromaTru's Insider Club and today you'll receive a FREE Waterless Oil Diffuser and a FREE lemon eucalyptus oil - that's over $200 in savings. Head to aromatruorganics.com/kevin to take advantage of this exclusive offer. 

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