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What is the most common question an online sex educator finds in her DMs? Danielle Bezalel, aka DB, is an executive producer and creator of Sex Ed with DB. She has a Master of Public Health with a focus on sexuality and reproductive health. In this conversation, she talks to Bryde and Jeremie about public health and its role with sex education, highlighting the need for age-appropriate and medically accurate sex education that covers topics such as boundaries, consent, puberty, menstruation, STIs, and contraception, and statistics relating to abstinence only sex ed.
DB breaks down the benefits of masturbation, including effects on stress levels, mood, and confidence, and details on her own masturbation science project and the findings. Jeremie offers a brief history lesson on the Magic Wand. Other topics of conversation include the challenges of being a sexual health influencer on social media plus a workshop to help folks who are establishing their sex health brands online. DB also addresses questions about talking to children about masturbation and the most common questions she receives as a sexual health educator.
Keywords: sex education, public health, abstinence-only, comprehensive, age-appropriate, medically accurate, boundaries, consent, puberty, menstruation, STIs, contraception, pleasure, orgasm gap, sex education, masturbation, sexual health, Magic Wand, confidence, parenting, sex toys, social media
Takeaways
Comprehensive and age-appropriate sex education is crucial for promoting sexual health and well-being.The United States has a lack of comprehensive sex education, with only 17 states requiring medically accurate program content.Abstinence-only programs perpetuate myths and misinformation about sex and sexual health.Sex education should start at a young age, with age-appropriate discussions about boundaries, consent, and body parts.Public health plays a vital role in addressing sexual health issues and promoting overall well-being. Masturbation can have numerous benefits, including stress reduction, improved mood, and increased confidence.
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Chapters
00:00
Introduction to Danielle Bezalel (DB)
05:54
The Lack of Comprehensive Sex Education in the United States
12:06
Age-Appropriate Topics in Sex Education
28:21
Comprehensive Sex Education
41:19
Talking to Children About Masturbation
48:09
The Challenges of Being a Sexual Health Educator
54:33
Navigating Social Media as a Sexual Health Influencer

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What's it like to make a decision in favour of your sexual and mental well-being that costs you everything you know and sometimes everyone you love? Julia and Jeremiah Postema are certified sex therapists who grew up in different religious communities, and from their experiences they speak to singles and couples who are on their own healing path from shame, disillusionment, and allegiance to the church. Jeremie and Bryde chat with today's guests about the restrictive gendered messages around relationships and sexuality that exist within evangelical, Mormon, and Pentecostal communities. They also talk about the challenges of existing in both religious and philosophical spaces and the grief that can come with leaving a religious community. They highlight the importance of expanding options for healthy relationships and sexuality, at a pace that is appropriate for those in treatment.
Takeaways
Growing up in religious communities can impact our approaches to intimacy and sexuality.The concept of the 'trad wife' reinforces restrictive gender norms within evangelical, Mormon, and Pentecostal communities.Existing in both religious and philosophical spaces can be challenging, but it is possible to maintain a sense of spirituality outside of organized religion.Leaving a religious community can result in a sense of grief and loss, as it often means leaving behind a community and relationships.Religious communities often teach foundational values for healthy sexuality in early childhood, but as children become adolescents, the focus shifts to allegiance and identification with the church.Men who grow up in purity culture may struggle with the double bind of being taught that they are sexually dominant and aggressive, but also that they must fight sinful urges.Couples with differing religious beliefs or levels of commitment may face challenges in their sexual and intimate relationships.
Keywords
sex, religion, sexuality, religious communities, sex therapy, gender norms, trad wife, evangelical, Mormon, Pentecostal, philosophy, spirituality, grief, leaving a religious community, healthy relationships, religion, sexuality, relationships, abstinence-only education, gender differences, shame, therapy, couples, communication
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Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Background of Julia and Jeremiah
03:08
The Intersection of Sex and Religion
06:10
The Trad Wife Phenomenon and Gender Norms in Religious Communities
10:57
Challenges of Existing in Religious and Philosophical Spaces
23:35
Expanding Options for Healthy Relationships and Sexuality
29:32
The Impact of Religion on Sexuality
31:06
Gender Differences in Religious Teachings
34:06
The Double Bind for Men in Purity Culture
38:46
Challenges in Relationships with Differing Religious Beliefs
46:16
The Importance of Finding a Therapist Who Understands Religious Backgrounds

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Have you ever wondered why your mother/daughter is such a bitch? Dr. Debra Mandel, nationally renowned psychologist and author of 4 books including the bestselling "Dump That Chump," joins Bryde and Jeremie for a conversation about Dr. Debra’s latest release, “Sassy & Rude, Her New Attitude: A Tough Love Guide for Moms on How to Bring Back The Sugar and Spice in Their Not-so-Nice Adult Daughters”. This conversation centers on the relationship between adult mothers and adult daughters, and this information is for you if you are either of those or anyone who knows and loves a mother daughter duo. The three talk through personal anecdotes and professional insights on themes of shame, power dynamics, shifts in relationship, independence, boundaries, expectations, body image, and more. Dr. Debra provides insights and advice on fostering healthy communication, addressing conflicts, and supporting each other's growth.
Dr. Debra brings over 30 years working clinically with individuals, couples, and families with a range of specialties from relationship and daily life issues to depression, anxiety, eating disorders and addiction, and she speaks on her subject with humour and compassion at the forefront.
Takeaways
Parent-adult child relationships require open dialogue and understanding.Recognize and address shifts in the relationship to foster healing.Let go of the need to be the authority and embrace a reciprocal relationship.Power dynamics can impact communication and should be navigated with care.Transitioning from a parent-child relationship to an adult-adult relationship can be challenging for both mothers and adult daughters.Setting boundaries and managing expectations are crucial in maintaining a healthy mother-daughter relationship.Mothers should prioritize self-care and pursue their own interests and hobbies to avoid becoming overly dependent on their adult daughters.
Keywords
parent-adult child relationships, healing, communication, power dynamics, open dialogue, understanding, mothers, adult daughters, boundaries, expectations, roles, responsibilities, self-care, body image, communication, conflicts, growth, empathy, understanding
Links
Twitter: @DrDebraMandel
Instagram: @dr.debramandel
Facebook: Dr. Debra Mandel, The LOVE Warrior
Youtube: @debramandel7083
Website: DrDebraOnline.com
Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Background of Dr. Deborah Mandel
03:05
Exploring Different Modalities in Psychology
07:51
The Effectiveness of Psychological Techniques
11:05
The Inspiration Behind 'Sassy and Rude'
13:53
Healing Unresolved Mother-Daughter Relationships
21:28
Power Dynamics in Parent-Adult Child Relationships
27:01
Transitioning to an Adult-Adult Relationship
33:29
Setting Boundaries and Overcoming the 'Too Nice Mom Syndrome'
38:55
The Empty Nest and Shifting Roles
45:17
Mother-Daughter Conversations about Sexuality and Empowerment
48:48
Addressing Dislike for a Daughter's Partner

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It’s time for a revolution in the sheets and the streets, as we sit down with Cindy Gallop, the genius at the forefront of the Social Sex Revolution. Cindy, the visionary behind MakeLoveNotPorn, shares the serendipitous inception of her platform and how it's challenging and reshaping societal norms around sex. But that's just the first layer. Delving deeper, Cindy unravels the complex web of gender bias in AI, advocating for a seismic shift towards inclusivity and safety in tech through the lens of female innovation. Imagine a world where AI not only serves us but enhances our creativity and nurtures ethical, consensual relationships in the digital age—Cindy believes it's not just possible; it's imperative. From the gritty challenges of entrepreneurship to the soaring potential of AI in the arts and sex tech, this conversation is a masterclass in disruption, diversity, and daring to dream.
Key Takeaways
Make Love Not Porn has had a significant impact on changing the conversation around sex and challenging societal norms.The platform has played a role in shifting views on sex work and promoting healthy, consensual sexual relationships.Cindy Gallop emphasizes the importance of diversity and inclusion in the tech industry, particularly in AI development.The future of AI depends on funding female founders and incorporating the female lens to create safe and beneficial AI experiences. Gender bias in AI can lead to ineffective and biased outcomes. Safety is a significant concern in AI development. Ensuring AI is designed and implemented safely is essential to prevent potential harm and create a positive impact.Ethical and consensual practices are essential in the world of sex and porn. AI can be used to create positive and empowering experiences, but it should be approached with caution and respect for consent.Investing in companies that align with one's values and beliefs can be a powerful way to support their growth and make a positive impact.
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This week we’re passing the vibe check with VibeSlut, AKA Abby Jensen! Abby is the comedic force behind the Rat Girls podcast who joins us to blow the lid off women's health and sexuality. With a blend of humour and hard truths, she takes us on a wild ride through the often hushed world of orgasms, face-sitting tutorials, and the art of taking the perfect nude. It's a beginner's guide to the taboo. From the debate of beard versus stubble in intimate moments to navigating the murky waters of social media censorship, Abbyl doesn't shy away from anything. She even dishes out advice on keeping the flame alive in long-term relationships with a mix of flirting and open conversation about sex. This episode is a candid exploration of the challenges and triumphs in talking openly about sexuality.
Key Takeaways

Podcasts provide a platform for candid conversations about women's health and sexuality.Women often lack access to open and honest discussions about topics considered taboo.Comedy can be an effective tool for discussing sensitive subjects and making them more accessible.Practical tips and information about sexual education can empower women to explore their own pleasure and improve their sexual experiences. Stubble can be uncomfortable and unclean during intimate activities, so proper hygiene is important for facial hair owners.When taking nudes, consider lighting and angles to create a flattering and confident image.Censorship and content restrictions on social media platforms can be frustrating for sex educators and content creators.Flirting and open communication about sex can help maintain the spark in long-term relationships.
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Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life
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Enter a realm where play parties become immersive experiences. In this episode, Michael Hollice, founder of The Play, walks the hosts through the creation of something special on the play party scene.
Inspired by what he found lacking in his initial forays into the play parties and backed with organizational experience in elevating artistic events, Michael was impassioned to shift the culture. Jeremie and Bryde hear about what to expect between the hours of 8 pm - 4 am at The Play, including special guidelines for socializing, expressive art as foreplay, and the four pillars behind this growing community that guide every event.
Key Takeaways:

Artful Atmosphere: Immerse yourself in play parties that elevate the experience with artistry and production value, creating a uniquely captivating atmosphere.Curated Connections: The Play’s curated experience involves a meticulous application process, ensuring compatibility and safety for attendees through thorough interviews.Stigma Shakeup: Break the mold with The Play—regular testing and challenging stigmas are vital for fostering a safe, inclusive environment where everyone feels comfortable.Global Allure: The Play attracts a diverse global crowd, emphasizing health and safety with mandatory STI testing, interviews, and strict protocols.Convo Over Looks: Conversational connection takes center stage at The Play, shifting the focus from appearances to the ability to engage in meaningful dialogue.
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