The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz Evan Marc Katz

I haven't interviewed anyone on my podcast since 2017 but when I got the opportunity to speak with Thais Gibson, creator of the Personal Development School, I leapt at the chance. She's fiercely intelligent and listening to her go deeper on attachment styles and limerence was a treat.



Thais Gibson is a counselor, best selling author and co-founder of The Personal Development School. She has a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in modalities ranging from CBT, NLP, somatic experiencing, internal family systems, to shadow work and hypnosis. Thais had nearly a decade of experience running a successful private practice and founded The Personal Development School, an online learning platform, to provide a more accessible, authentic way for clients to transform their lives. Thais is on a mission to empower individuals to overcome their insecure attachment styles and reprogram any limiting thoughts and behaviors, creating long-lasting and enlightening changes. She is the bestselling author of Learning Love, and she and her husband split their time between Austin, TX and Toronto, Canada.



Together, we discuss:

1. How anxious people can tell if it’s his behavior or their anxiety that’s triggering them.

2. The value of dating a secure person and how that feels different than anxious/avoidant pairings

3. Why attachment styles are malleable and change depending upon your circumstance and your partner.

4. The definition of limerence. Why does it take place? What are the symptoms?

5. Coping strategies to manage limerent feelings.

6. Whether you should walk away from a 10 chemistry or go towards it.



Find her at https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ and https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool



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As an independent, successful, single woman, you've built a life about which you can be extremely proud. There's only one problem. You have to take care of everything yourself. The mortgage. The health insurance. The plans. The repairs. The vacations. You take care of your parents, you take care of your kids, you take care of your clients. I just have one question for you: who's taking care of YOU? This special Love U Podcast episode explores the story of one woman who is finally ready to let a man take care of her.

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I once took a poll and discovered that 40% of my mailing list was not dating at all.

These are women who had enough interest in the subject matter to reach out to me for dating advice, but, for their own reasons, chose not to use it. I feel for them.

When all your past relationships have disappointed, it's natural to feel afraid and paralyzed when it comes to dating. The problem is that you'll never find love if you don't date.

In this Love U Podcast, I'm going to nudge you to stop letting fear win.



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The first presidential debate of 2024 was revealing. We saw, quiet clearly, that the two candidates running for office were, in fact, incapable of being the leader of the free world. How does this apply to dating and relationships, you might ask? Well, the world is filled with Donald Trumps and Joe Bidens. One is selfish and untrustworthy. The other is a nice guy who is not capable of the job. So, what should you do, as the CEO of your love life, when you run across men like these? Check out this Love U Podcast to hear my take.



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I agree: the masculine/feminine thing is a little overdone. And yet I still think there's value in emphasizing that women tend to have certain traits that men lack and therefore, crave. In this Love U Podcast, I'll run down six of the most important ones and share examples of how I get to experience them in my marriage. If you listen and think, "Hey, I do that!" then I predict you've got a bright relationship future ahead of you.



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My client Diana taught me a valuable lesson last week. After dating man with excellent long-term relationship potential, she wasn't quite feeling it. Since she didn't want to let a good catch go, she started to talk herself into why she should keep seeing him. Then she asked this ONE question that clarified EVERYTHING for her. In this quick Love U Podcast, I'll share that one question so you can ask it yourself.



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