Sex Chat for Christian Wives Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor

We welcome guest Dr. Carol Tanksley, who is an author, speaker, podcaster, licensed OB-Gyn, and a trained and ordained minister. She joins us to talk about how your sexual story shaped you and how to pursue sexual wholeness as God intended.
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From the Bible
John 4:1-42 (Jesus and the Samaritan Woman at the Well)
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23
Resources
Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships by Carol Tanksley, MD, DMin Your Sexpectations Dr Carol Ministries The Chosen Scene: Jesus and the Outcast Woman at the Well Who's in Your Story of Sexual Intimacy? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, J Parker talks about the bad messages we hear about sex.

Many of us face obstacles to playfulness around sexuality and sexual experience. Today, we discuss ways to foster light hearts on a sometimes serious subject.
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From the Bible
Song of Songs - the whole book!
A cheerful heart is good medicine,
    but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
Proverbs 17:22
Resources
Episode 114: Pursuing Playfulness in Sexual Intimacy - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Episode 25: Sex Is Funny - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Faithful Counseling by Better Help - online therapy Does He Make You Laugh? - Hot, Holy & Humorous (hotholyhumorous.com) 3 Benefits to Playing a Bedroom Game - Hot, Holy & Humorous Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker Why I Still Wear Lingerie (though My Hubby Doesn't Care) - Hot, Holy & Humorous 7 Ways to Make the Most of Your Lingerie | The Forgiven Wife Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's sex tip quickie comes from Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage: self touch.

Did you know that 3 out of 4 women at some point experience pain during intercourse? Today, we're joined by Debby Wade, a licensed therapist and expert in the area of women's sexual pain.
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From the Bible
Lord my God, I called to you for help, and you healed me. Psalm 30:2
Resources
Debby Wade (ACTSolutions Therapy) Debby Wade — Institute for Sexual Wholeness Faculty Wives Struggling with Sexual Pain - Authentic Intimacy Painful intercourse (dyspareunia) - Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic Genito-Pelvic Pain/Penetration Disorder - University of Texas Hypertonic Pelvic Floor: Symptoms, Causes & Treatment (clevelandclinic.org) Finding a Good Gynecologist - Hot, Holy & Humorous (hotholyhumorous.com) Casino Royale Scene Bonny Referenced (oops, it wasn't Skyfall, but in the same series!) - NSFW or with kids around Episode 33: When Sex Hurts Her - Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com) Find an ABCST Therapist Sexual Wholeness, Inc. Why I Chose To Get Rid Of Parabens & What I Use Instead! - MARRIAGE AFTER GOD (Unveiled Wife) Email Debby Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

J explains why it's a great idea to have a euphemism for sex.