学英语环游世‪界‬ Fly with Lily

今日格言
Facing your inner self is the path to true peace. 面对自己的内心，才能找到真正的平静。
回应听众：“好像以前的播客比较能学得到英语...?”
谢谢听众反馈。因为在创作的时候，我会根据当时状态和地点创作出不同的内容，追寻我当下的动力来做出创作的内容，对于过去发表的东西，有些是旧的能量已经引发不了我目前创作的动力，然而这些内容的中心都是帮助大家可以用更好的方式学英语、打破自己的局限和勇敢的去圆梦而出发。
运用觉察日记学习英语建议搭配ChatGPT，写英语日记的时候加上这样的字眼：Be my tutor, help me revise my grammar and vocabulary. Tell me how I can improve my journal entry. (做我的家教，帮助我修改我的语法和词汇。告诉我如何可以改善我的日记）
Day 8 自我察觉挑战
How do I respond when plans change or plans get cancelled without me say so? 我是如何回应当计划被改变或被取消的情况
In the past, I usually felt very sad or unfairly treated. However, I am now increasingly adapting to these changes. When it happens now, I try various ways to see if there is a way to reverse it. If it still cannot be changed, I consider it as fate and usually accept the change calmly.
过去我通常都会很难过或感到不公平，但是我现在越来越适应这些变化了。现在当它发生时，我会试着用各种方法去看看有没有办法逆转，但还是不能改变的时候，就将它视为老天爷的旨意，通常都能平静的去接受变化。
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Line的官方帐号是@flywithlily
微信的官方帐号是 Englishfit
回覆“觉察”的英文 awareness 当然也可以透过我的网站flywithlily.com/30 下载过去的现在的所有挑战

今日格言
Self-awareness is the foundation of all spiritual practice. —Eckhart Tolle 自我觉察是一切修行的基础。—艾克哈特·托利
Day 7 自我察觉挑战
How do I deal with challenges in my life?
我是如何面对我人生的挑战？
When I was 10 years old, I broke my arm while playing with a neighbor. That was the first significant challenge in my life. I remember my father taking me to a local clinic to get my arm set, and I screamed loudly. My father told me not to cry. After surgery, the doctor said my arm would never be straight again, which made me very sad. During that time, my parents were very proactive in helping me with rehabilitation. Just when I thought I had to accept my arm would always be bent, it straightened on its own.
Since then, I have encountered many challenges in life, but I know everything will be okay. As I often say, "Everything will be okay in the end; if it's not okay, it's not the end."
10岁的时候我因为和邻居玩耍而摔断了手臂，那是我这辈子第一个印象最深的人生挑战，我记得爸爸带我去接骨，结果我大声吼叫，爸爸告诉我不能哭。经过了手术后，医生说我的手将一辈子无法变直让我很难过，那个时候，我的父母都很积极地为我做复健，当我觉得好像不得不接受这样的情况的时候，我的手就自己变直了。
在这之后，我仍遇见了很多人生的挑战，但我知道一切都会好好的，就像我常说的那句话，Everything will be okay in the end; if it's not okay, it's not the end. (事情最终都会变好的；如果它还没变好，代表这不是终点。）
***“30日自我觉察的挑战”可以透过以下管道下载
Line的官方帐号是@flywithlily
微信的官方帐号是 Englishfit
回覆“觉察”的英文 awareness 当然也可以透过我的网站flywithlily.com/30 下载过去的现在的所有挑战

今日格言
Only through self-awareness can we achieve true self. —Ralph Waldo Emerson 只有透过自我觉察，才能成就真正的自我。—拉尔夫·瓦尔多·爱默生
Day 6 自我察觉挑战
How do I deal with negativity in my environment?
我是如何回应目前在我环境中负面的事物?
This situation happened just recently: an alarm clock rang from 3 AM to 4 AM, and I was certain it came from the neighboring room. Initially, I recorded the noise, angrily went to knock on the neighbor’s door, and shouted a curse word. I couldn’t fall back asleep afterward. When morning came, I complained to the landlords. They seriously reminded all the tenants and investigated the source of the noise. Through self-reflection, I realized how easily I get angry. I later thought, was it necessary to react that way and disturb everyone? After calming down, I started to consider that the person might not have done it on purpose. Could there be better ways for everyone to help each other?
这一天就发生了这么一件事：一个闹铃声从三点响到了四点，很确定是隔壁传来的，我一开始录了音很生气的到了隔壁门敲门然后骂了一声脏话，后来就睡不着了，然后等到天亮的时候再和房东们告状，房东们很认真的帮我提醒所有的住户，并且查明声音的出处。透过自我觉察，我发现我真的是好易怒啊？后来想了一下，有必要这样反应然后惊动大家吗？所以等我冷静下来后，我就在想如果别人不是故意的呢？会不会有其他更好的办法，大家可以互相帮忙？
“30日自我觉察的挑战”可以透过以下管道下载
Line的官方帐号是@flywithlily
微信的官方帐号是 Englishfit
回覆“觉察”的英文 awareness 当然也可以透过我的网站flywithlily.com/30 下载过去的现在的所有挑战

今日格言
Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom. —Aristotle 认识自己，是一切智慧的开端。—亚里士多德
Day 5 自我察觉挑战
How do I respond to situations that I have no control over?
我是如何回应我无法控制的事？
Regarding failed marriage, career setbacks, the sudden death of parents, and not having met a life partner, as well as daily situations that I have no control over, initially, my response is often frustration and anger. I feel a strong sense of injustice and helplessness when these situations occur.
However, I hope to accept these situations that I have no control over more peacefully, recognizing that my life is ultimately in my hands. Nowadays, when I face minor uncontrollable events, I handle my emotions much better in the moment!
对于婚姻失败、事业失败、父母突然离世还有一直以来没有遇上一个可以一起生活的伴侣，甚至一些日常无法控制的事，起初，我会有点忧郁甚至生气。我会觉得不公平甚至对这些事情的发生而感到无助。
然而，我希望自己会更平和地接受这些不能控制的事情，我的生命操之在我。现在我面对一些不能控制的小事情的时候，我当下处理的情绪更好了！
**“30日自我觉察的挑战”可以透过以下管道下载
Line的官方帐号是@flywithlily
微信的官方帐号是 Englishfit
回覆“觉察”的英文 awareness 当然也可以透过我的网站flywithlily.com/30 下载过去的现在的所有挑战

今日格言
Self-awareness is the first step to wisdom. —George Santayana 自觉是通往智慧的第一步。—乔治·桑塔亚纳
Day 4 自我察觉挑战
How do I deal with inconvenient life situations? 我是如何处理/面对不利于我的生活处境？
When faced with inconvenient life situations, I usually feel a bit distressed initially. I tend to analyze how I can make the most of these seemingly inconvenient situations to benefit me.
For example, this time I returned to Taiwan, I unexpectedly lost my inspiration for travel and motivation for work. Despite this, I used the time to study for a tour guide examination. By gradually relaxing, I gained the opportunity to work as a podcast coach for events during an around Taiwan trip.
Another instance involved an interesting part-time job opportunity located an hour and a half away from my current home. I turned this commute into a positive by using the one-hour travel time to listen to audiobooks and the half-hour cycling as a fitness activity.
Through these experiences, I have learned to face each inconvenient situation more calmly and relaxed, understanding that every challenge can be an opportunity for growth.
一开始会有点苦恼，因为我会去进行分析这我可以如何利用这个目前看起来不利于我的生活处境为我获得最大的益处。
例如回到了台湾，没有预期地我陷入了轻微的忧郁，失去了旅行的灵感和工作的动力，但我利用这段时间报考了导游的执照，另外借由慢慢放松后，我获得了环岛担任播客教练机会。
还有一个有趣的兼职工作机会，但是这个机会距离我家一个半小时以外的路程。
我将那一个小时当作我可以听有声书的机会，还有半小时的脚踏车时光当作是健身。
借由这次的觉察，我更加体会，可以更加放松地去面对每一次对我不利的处境。
***“30日自我觉察的挑战”可以透过以下管道下载
Line的官方帐号是@flywithlily
微信的官方帐号是 Englishfit
回覆“觉察”的英文 awareness 当然也可以透过我的网站flywithlily.com/30 下载过去的现在的所有挑战

今日格言
The greatest knowledge is to know oneself. —Michelangelo 认识自己，是最伟大的知识。—米开朗基罗
Day 3 自我察觉挑战
How much self-control do I have with things that I know are bad for me, but tend to indulge in?
我现在对事物拥有多少的自控力？
The best self-control in my life is probably maintaining a regular sleep and wake schedule. I also tend to listen to my body and feelings and take necessary breaks. I don't have major emotional outbursts and work hard when I need to. However, I have less control over my phone and internet usage, and I can clearly feel that I am being "hijacked" by my phone and spending a lot of time online.
我在生活中最好的自控力大概就是保持规律的作息。我也倾向于倾听自己的身体和感受，并在必要时休息。我不会有严重的情绪爆发，并且在需要时会努力工作。但我在手机或网络使用的状况就比较没有控制力，这个我可以明确感受到被手机绑架，还花了很多时间在上网。
“30日自我觉察的挑战”可以透过以下管道下载Line的官方帐号是@flywithlily
微信的官方帐号是 Englishfit
回覆“觉察”的英文 awareness 当然也可以透过我的网站flywithlily.com/30 下载过去的现在的所有挑战