16 min

Coaches Unplugged : The People-Pleaser's Paradox (ft. Vicki Haddock‪)‬ The Lunch Break Coach

    • Business

🤔 Are you a people-pleaser? Take the short self-assessment QUIZ below. 👇

Imagine you're travelling on an aeroplane and just about to take off. 🛫

What does the flight attendant instruct all passengers?

Is it to FIRST:

A) put on the other person's oxygen mask; 

B) put on your own oxygen mask ❓

You may be surprised, but a lot of people would choose option A. 🤯

Vicki Haddock and I discussed WHY in the new miniseries, part of the "The Lunch Break Coach" podcast —  "Coaches Unplugged". 🎙 🔌

In a quarter-hour, we uncharted people-pleasers. 🗺

During our talk, perceptions popped up.

As you may know, we experience life through our little window.

Or lens. Frame of reference. Whatever you want to call it.

We interpret life based on what we 

Hear, 🙉

See, 🙈

Say, 🙊

Do, 🎭

Feel. 💙

No wonder, some messages may be distorted in our heads, based on our understanding.

And when facing the oxygen mask situation...

... we may remember to take care of others, first, instead of ourselves. 🤲

To get in touch with Dragan book an explorational call here

To get in touch with Vicky look here

🤔 Are you a people-pleaser? Take the short self-assessment QUIZ below. 👇

Imagine you're travelling on an aeroplane and just about to take off. 🛫

What does the flight attendant instruct all passengers?

Is it to FIRST:

A) put on the other person's oxygen mask; 

B) put on your own oxygen mask ❓

You may be surprised, but a lot of people would choose option A. 🤯

Vicki Haddock and I discussed WHY in the new miniseries, part of the "The Lunch Break Coach" podcast —  "Coaches Unplugged". 🎙 🔌

In a quarter-hour, we uncharted people-pleasers. 🗺

During our talk, perceptions popped up.

As you may know, we experience life through our little window.

Or lens. Frame of reference. Whatever you want to call it.

We interpret life based on what we 

Hear, 🙉

See, 🙈

Say, 🙊

Do, 🎭

Feel. 💙

No wonder, some messages may be distorted in our heads, based on our understanding.

And when facing the oxygen mask situation...

... we may remember to take care of others, first, instead of ourselves. 🤲

To get in touch with Dragan book an explorational call here

To get in touch with Vicky look here

16 min

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