Be You Podcast Jill Herman

Jill gives a brief life update including a few lessons learned and then lists ten ways to know that you're actually healing. Many times, we chase being healed and forget that it's not a destination. It's a lifelong journey.
AND, we forget that embodiment shows up in ways we least expect. When we no longer feel guilty for resting, for example, that's a sign we are healing!
Don't forget, Jill is gearing up for an in-person retreat in September which is not just a gathering but a transformative experience where women are already starting to see shifts just by committing! There is even a private room left if you’re feeling called to join us! Go to jillherman.com for more info!
 
Show Notes: [2:16] - Create a season of intention to avoid regrets and to feel fulfilled.
[3:08] - Jill's summer plan includes no travel between July 12 and August 31 and better sleep habits.
[6:00] - Jill also plans to remove her amalgam fillings safely, using detox measures.
[7:30] - Hear about a moving and insightful Zoom session with psychic medium Jessica Lynne that Jill recently had.
[10:00] - Learn about an in-person retreat that Jill is hosting; go to jillherman.com for more info!
[13:57] - Resistance to change is normal, but it's important to be detached from outcomes and trust divine timing.
[15:21] - Jill shares how she decided not to attend a friend’s party, trusting her intuition despite initial doubts and guilt.
[17:28] - Jill is excited for her first-ever girls' weekend in Denver and is relieved to not have to plan it.
[18:46] - Jill moves into discussing ten signs that you are embodying healing work, beginning with being less reactive.
[19:39] - The second sign is trusting your own judgment and decisions without seeking others' opinions.
[20:02] - The third sign is that you enjoy being alone, but note that there is a difference between solitude and isolation.
[20:33] - No longer catastrophizing or at least doing it a lot less is another sign.
[21:28] - Jill discusses the fifth sign of healing: no longer feeling the need to apologize for imaginary wrongs.
[22:54] - The seventh sign is that you've learned to appreciate slowness and simple pleasures.
[24:56] - Related to the seventh sign, it's important not to feel guilty about taking time to rest.
[25:50] - The ninth sign that Jill discusses is that you've stopped being overly critical of others, seeing them as wonderful without the need for criticism.
[26:21] - Jill's final sign is that you recognize recurring patterns without self-criticism, instead giving yourself grace and understanding.
 
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Have you heard? Jill is hosting the very first retreat for the Be You community!
Go to www.jillherman.com 
Even if it’s not summer where you are, you’ll love this solo episode!
This practical and energizing exercise will ensure that the season ahead is experienced (and ENJOYED) by DESIGN and not by default.
So many people find that summer goes so quickly and gets away from them and then before they know it, they look back with regret, missed opportunities and can’t even remember what they did all summer.
Has this happened to you? Do you feel like it’s already starting with all of the graduation parties and weddings, other invitations and new responsibilities? 
Jill shares a really energizing and practical exercise so that you can truly have a summer of YOU.
 
Show Notes: [2:55] - Let’s have an attitude of intentionality going into the summer.
[5:05] - We can be grateful for busy plans, and we can also feel overwhelmed.
[8:18] - Literally write down the things you want to experience this summer AND the things you don’t want to experience.
[10:59] - Jill shares some of the things on her list.
[13:48] - You can have amazing and beautiful experiences that don’t cost a dime. What do you want to experience?
[16:50] - Sometimes we need something to cleanse our palette when things get too much.
[19:13] - Whatever you do by default is what you do all the time.
 
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Have you heard? Jill is hosting the very first retreat for the Be You community!
Go to www.jillherman.com 
Emily Oriana Todd is an ICF-certified Personal Freedom and Business Coach.
She supports entrepreneurs to scale their businesses through social media strategy, messaging and content strategy, energetics, subconscious reprogramming, and hypnosis.
Emily’s approach is rooted in 15 years in marketing supporting both Fortune 500 companies and startups alike to grow their businesses using the power of social media, influencer marketing, brand development, and word of mouth marketing.
Emily’s greatest passion lies in supporting service providers to unf*ck their marketing and stand out outline.
Connect with Emily on Instagram @emilyorianatodd and her website HonorYourWild.co
 
Show Notes: [6:10] - Emily shares her background and the 15 years she spent climbing a career ladder.
[8:25] - She went into marketing and consulting, but when Covid hit, she made a shift.
[10:51] - Emily describes a wake-up call that she got during a phone call with her dad.
[14:40] - It’s one thing to go from good to great. It’s another thing to go from great and the potential of even greater to leaving it behind for uncertainty.
[16:28] - At the start of her business, she felt regret and grief over the loss of her identity markers and “throwing it all away.”
[18:09] - Her ego was in rejection of what was occurring, but there was something in her that knew it was worth it. She kept going with no tangible evidence that it was working.
[19:35] - Emily took an opportunity for a lengthy interview process and realized that she couldn’t see it through.
[21:24] - There can be some programming that includes a lot of guilt and shame for entrepreneurs having a typical “real” job.
[25:06] - She truly followed her intuition. She physically felt her intuition telling her to keep going.
[27:14] - Entrepreneurship is pushing a boulder up a mountain for an extended period of time. But eventually you create momentum.
[30:22] - When she started on her entrepreneurship journey, she resisted anything that felt like marketing.
[32:32] - Entrepreneurship is shadow work like no other. It activates all your greatest doubts, insecurities, and fears.
[35:44] - The focus on money freaks a lot of entrepreneurs out and activates the fear that they aren’t doing enough.
[40:59] - Sales is a crucial part of being an entrepreneur but it makes a lot of women business owners feel icky.
[45:06] - Emily discusses the difference between the law of attraction and the law of action.
[47:43] - Entrepreneurship is not for everyone. It is inherently hard due to uncertainty and discomfort.
[52:10] - Marketing isn’t saying a million different things. It is saying the same thing a million different ways.
 
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Have you ever wondered what it means to be more of you?
Do you get confused about who you really are at your core?
Are you curious about how life would look if you stripped it all down, took off the masks, laid down the armor and rejected the script you were handed? 
I did it. So can you. Here's how. 
Jill's hosting the first Be You retreat!! "More of ME" retreat this September.
Visit www.jillherman.com to learn more and/or apply.
 
Show Notes: [2:01] - It happened to all of us. We were taught to be someone we aren’t.
[3:30] - We are so full of stuff from our past, we sabotage ourselves.
[5:50] - We don’t know the things we’re doing subconsciously.
[8:40] - This entire podcast is about excavating the person you already are.
[10:34] - The upcoming retreat in September is a gift to Jill as well.
[15:20] - This retreat is for women who are ready to heal and crack open in a safe space.
[17:49] - There are experiences that will literally change you.
[20:16] - Jill can hold someone who has a history of trauma as a trained and certified coach who has done her own work.
 
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Jill traveled to Brazil and recorded on her iPhone for a quick life update and… a Be You BIG announcement!!!
She’s hosting the first Be You retreat, “More of ME,” this September and applications open TODAY!!!
She only has 8 spots maximum and may keep it as intimate as 4-6.
Go to www.jillherman.com to learn more and apply.
 
Show Notes: [1:31] - Jill gives a quick life update at a beautiful wedding ceremony in Brazil.
[3:39] - Recording from her phone is a little out of her comfort zone, but she has since learned why she didn’t choose to pre-record.
[5:48] - In September, Jill is hosting the retreat she has always known she’s wanted to.
[7:41] - Apply to make sure this is the right fit for you.
[8:20] - Put some real thought into the answers on the application.
 
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Too few of us are willing to be true to ourselves and risk disappointing or (GASP!) offending others. 
We rarely speak our truth or ask for what we want. 
We shrink, hide and politely accept and agree to terms we don’t want in order to be accepted and liked.
What if we didn’t? 
 
Show Notes: [3:10] - We need to be willing to get uncomfortable and potentially make others uncomfortable by asking for the things we want.
[4:21] - We’ve been taught to be “the good girl.” We wind up saying yes to everything to be nice and not be “too much.”
[7:07] - It’s hard to stand up for ourselves and it takes practice.
[8:50] - When will you allow yourself to have the things you want to your satisfaction?
[10:27] - With more practice it becomes harder to not follow your true north.
[14:29] - Don’t apologize for your decisions. You can apologize for taking someone’s time or inconveniencing them, but not for your decision.
[17:40] - Many times life is going to put us in situations that are so extreme to show us how bad it feels to abandon ourselves so we can really make the decision to choose ourselves.
[19:14] - Think of a situation where you spoke up for yourself and how it showed up in your body. Now think of a time when you didn’t.
[21:08] - You don’t have to abandon yourself and your needs to fulfill the needs of someone else.
[23:36] - It will eventually feel so natural to stand up for yourselves.
[29:03] - Jill gives an example of how “the flavor can change.” What feels right to you and when are you willing to compromise?
[31:10] - What are your rules? What are your boundaries?
 
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