1 hr 25 min
Ep34 - Radical Unschooling and Peaceful Parenting, w Dayna Martin The Dr. E Show
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- Health & Fitness
[Guest: Dayna Martin] Join Dr. Edith and Dayna Martin, the world-renowned pioneer of Radical Unschooling (also known as Peaceful Parenting) as we explore the history of education, new perspectives on children’s rights, and the new Partnership-Based Paradigm with our children.
“You know when you hear truth.” ~ Dayna.
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Topics explored:
* Backstory - how Dayna came to live this life of Unschooling and Radical Unschooling
* Listening to your inner guidance and inner truth. Healing from the need to seek approval from outside “experts”.
* How to be an effective bringer of change.
* Going past judgement, embracing one another via kindness, peace, and love
* As an empath - shifting the energies. Vs. letting “default energy” happen
* Definition of “Unschooling” - learning outside of the paradigm of school.
* “We’ve been conditioned to see only certain things of value.”
* Study John Holt’s work - forced learning is not true learning, it’s training in obedience.
* Learning is supposed to feel good! When kids say “I hate learning” - they don’t - they hate “forced learning.”
* The Prussian model of school - intention to make good factory workers.
* History of mandatory schooling - in late 1800s, Boston massachusetts - 85% of parents unwilling to put kids in school, but were forced at gun-point.
* How teaching kids all the same things can lead to dumbing kids down. Undermining connection between parent and child - up until now. Now everything is changing.
* Definition of “Radical Unschooling” - extending this into every aspect of life.
* All humans are born into this world deciding freedom. When we are controlling, it warps the relationship with things that are being controlled and limited.
* Our desire for freedom comes before finding moderation and balance.
* How to manage “Screen time” - how to find balance through freedom.
* Kids want to make healthy good choices. When you’re not controlling kids, they tap into the understanding that you want what’s best for them.
* Why the term “screen time” is disrespectful to kids.
* Kids see all their interests and passions as an extension of themselves.
* When you’re afraid of something, you want control.
* Books, magazines, mentorships, technology, museums, etc. are all equally valued.
* Parenting is supposed to feel good. Controlling kids all day is not pleasant. It’s hellish.
* How do children not group up to be “spoiled brats?”
* What is a “spoiled” kids - are not from a partnership-based paradigm.
* Balancing raising children, unschooling, and our dreams, projects, careers, etc. Mantra - “Everything I want to do, will get done.”
* Control is the biggest time suck and energy suck.
* “Parents - you know when you hear truth.” ~ Dayna.
* The rights and respect of children - the evolution of consciousness.
* Story of bullying, power struggles.
* When we model peace in home, kids will model world-peace in everything they do.
* What are Dayna’s kids up to these days?
* “Happiness leads to success.” Vs. “you’ll be happy when you’re successful.”
* What is Dayna’s #1 most important advice for stepping into our highest human potential?
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Connect w Dayna - http://www.DaynaMartin.com
Connect with Dr. Edith - www.SuperWellness.com / www.DrEdithUbuntu.com
Pick up your copy of SuperWellness on Amazon.com
Join us for the upcoming Six Week SuperWellness class - starting July 14!
http://www.SuperWellness.com/6WEEK
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[Guest: Dayna Martin] Join Dr. Edith and Dayna Martin, the world-renowned pioneer of Radical Unschooling (also known as Peaceful Parenting) as we explore the history of education, new perspectives on children’s rights, and the new Partnership-Based Paradigm with our children.
“You know when you hear truth.” ~ Dayna.
~~~~~~~~~
Topics explored:
* Backstory - how Dayna came to live this life of Unschooling and Radical Unschooling
* Listening to your inner guidance and inner truth. Healing from the need to seek approval from outside “experts”.
* How to be an effective bringer of change.
* Going past judgement, embracing one another via kindness, peace, and love
* As an empath - shifting the energies. Vs. letting “default energy” happen
* Definition of “Unschooling” - learning outside of the paradigm of school.
* “We’ve been conditioned to see only certain things of value.”
* Study John Holt’s work - forced learning is not true learning, it’s training in obedience.
* Learning is supposed to feel good! When kids say “I hate learning” - they don’t - they hate “forced learning.”
* The Prussian model of school - intention to make good factory workers.
* History of mandatory schooling - in late 1800s, Boston massachusetts - 85% of parents unwilling to put kids in school, but were forced at gun-point.
* How teaching kids all the same things can lead to dumbing kids down. Undermining connection between parent and child - up until now. Now everything is changing.
* Definition of “Radical Unschooling” - extending this into every aspect of life.
* All humans are born into this world deciding freedom. When we are controlling, it warps the relationship with things that are being controlled and limited.
* Our desire for freedom comes before finding moderation and balance.
* How to manage “Screen time” - how to find balance through freedom.
* Kids want to make healthy good choices. When you’re not controlling kids, they tap into the understanding that you want what’s best for them.
* Why the term “screen time” is disrespectful to kids.
* Kids see all their interests and passions as an extension of themselves.
* When you’re afraid of something, you want control.
* Books, magazines, mentorships, technology, museums, etc. are all equally valued.
* Parenting is supposed to feel good. Controlling kids all day is not pleasant. It’s hellish.
* How do children not group up to be “spoiled brats?”
* What is a “spoiled” kids - are not from a partnership-based paradigm.
* Balancing raising children, unschooling, and our dreams, projects, careers, etc. Mantra - “Everything I want to do, will get done.”
* Control is the biggest time suck and energy suck.
* “Parents - you know when you hear truth.” ~ Dayna.
* The rights and respect of children - the evolution of consciousness.
* Story of bullying, power struggles.
* When we model peace in home, kids will model world-peace in everything they do.
* What are Dayna’s kids up to these days?
* “Happiness leads to success.” Vs. “you’ll be happy when you’re successful.”
* What is Dayna’s #1 most important advice for stepping into our highest human potential?
~~~
Connect w Dayna - http://www.DaynaMartin.com
Connect with Dr. Edith - www.SuperWellness.com / www.DrEdithUbuntu.com
Pick up your copy of SuperWellness on Amazon.com
Join us for the upcoming Six Week SuperWellness class - starting July 14!
http://www.SuperWellness.com/6WEEK
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1 hr 25 min