#18 The Case Against “Moving In Silence‪”‬ Take What You Need

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“Move in silence”

“Be careful of evil eye”

“Be mysterious online”

Many of us, including me, have lived by these mantras… in my view, to our detriment. It’s time to change that. In this episode I unpack aaaallll the reasons why you should let go of moving in silence this summer (and beyond)

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00:00 — Speaking it into existence ≠ moving in silence


09:35 — Let’s talk about Joseph, because people keep misinterpreting the story and it’s upsetting me


26:40 — Do you believe there’s wisdom in a multitude of counsellors, or not?


27:36 — Oh, is that me talking in depth about my personal life? Maybe.


34:15 — “I’ve been betrayed, I don’t want to go through that again, what should I do?”



34:17 — How to deal with betrayal - “After all, computers crash, people die, relationships fall apart. The best we can do is breathe and reboot.” — Carrie Bradshaw



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