GilandBrenda Gil and Brenda Stuart

Wonderful interview with Laura Jenkins, founder of In The Blend. She is encouraging stepfamilies who live in Australia...and beyond! We never know where the conversation will go! We always know we'll have fun!Check out more podcasts from Laura at https://omny.fm/shows/in-the-blendHere are her show notes:Gil and Brenda, a husband and wife duo, share their journey into counseling and coaching for blended families, discussing their personal experiences and the challenges they've faced. They emphasize the importance of the couple relationship and provide insights into the differences in parenting styles and communication within blended families. They also discuss the upcoming Better Marriages Australia Conference and the key themes they address in their presentations.#gilandbrenda #restoredandremarried #intheblend #laurajenkins #stepfamily #stepmom #stepmum #stepdad #stepfamilyaustralia #stepfather #blendedfamily #bonuskids #bonusmom #bonusmum #bonusdad

This is an interview Gil had with Mike Anderson from Blended Family Breakthrough.We hope you feel a little more equipped and encouraged after listening to this great conversation. Here are the notes from Mike's podcast:Hey Stepdads — ever wonder if you're "winning or losing" in your role at home?Most stepdads I meet genuinely want to build trust with their stepkids and influence them toward success in life.  But sometimes it feels like there's a bit too much chaos in the home — or you're not quite on the same page with your wife.The typical challenges of blending families often feel like they get in the way of you making the impact you really want to make.I get that feeling, and so does Gil Stuart, our guest for this episode.  Gil is a dad and stepdad who has experienced the ups and downs of blending 7 kids along with his wife, Brenda.  Gil is a counselor, author, speaker, and down-to-earth guy.If you want to discover new ways to build trust and influence in your home, this episode is for you.You'll Discover:* A healthy mindset around commitment, influence, trustability, and connection* How to create emotional safety and avoid relational damage* Understanding the 'Rock-and-A-Hard-Place' dilemma - and navigating it well* The importance of unity and flexibility* Practical tips for loving well in challenging situations#restoredandremarried #gilandbrenda #blendedfamilybreakthrough #stepdad #stepdads #stepfather #stepfathers #stepmom #stepfamily #blendedfamily

Blended family life doesn't often start with every relationship in harmony. But it's not unusual to develop it along the way. Ron Deal speaks with Gil and Brenda Stuart about how disappointment and confusion eventually morphed into redemption and joy. Celebrating their 20th wedding anniversary with a vow renewal was an amazing experience. Another way to celebrate their family!#tipstoolstingles #gilandbrenda#conflictresolution #marriagehelp #marriage #investinyourmarriage #remarriagehelp#friendshipinmarriage #marriagecounselor #marriagecoach #husbandandwifeteam#RestoredandRemarried #remarried #remarriage #stepfamily #stepmom #stepdad #stepmother #stepfather #stepparent #stepparenting #stepchild #blendedfamily #marriagehelp #conflictresolution #parenting #remarriagehelp #stepfamilyhelp #blendedfamilyhelp #remarriageadvice #marriagepodcast #stepfamilypodcast #blendedfamilypodcast #remarriagepodcast  www.gilandbrenda.com (http://www.gilandbrenda.com/)  hello@gilandbrenda.com (mailto:hello@gilandbrenda.com)  Find us on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube Twitter (https://twitter.com/brendagilstuart)  Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/restoredandremarried/)  Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/RestoredandRemarried/)  YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc6LPCo8ksYC0nJK2y2dSVg?view_as=public)

Brenda, and two other Stepmoms were interviewed by Mike and Kim Anderson from Mike and Kim Coaching (https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/). This interview brings 3 perspectives of being a stepmom, but yet there is one common thread. Being a woman in a stepfamily can be a hard road. Whether you join with kids or not, having realistic expectations are part of having a successful formula to help you thrive in your stepfamily.With Tiffany, Stacy and Brenda, you will hear some raw experiences from their own lives and what worked…and what didn’t. We hope you are encouraged.Brenda is now taking new coaching clients. She specializes in working with women and helping them reach their potential. Whether it’s stepfamily challenges, family concerns or just life circumstances she can help you navigate these seasons with thought provoking questions, and compassion. She’ll make you stop and think and realize you had the answer to what you needed all along. Contact her today at hello@gilandbrenda.com.

Tips, Tools, and Tingles for Your Relationship!Encouragement for Dads in a Stepfamily! Gil was interviewed by Ron Deal, from Family Life Blended. This was a great conversation about how important the Dad is in the stepfamily…and how it can be challenging. Gil doesn’t pull any punches and is pretty raw and honest with Ron. This 8-part video series, filmed on location brings the realities of what it means to be a Stepdad. Topics include: “You’re Not My Dad,” “Between a Rock and a Hard Place” (that would be between your wife and your kids) “Too Much too soon,” “Emotional Safety” (guns are involved), “Reverse Betrayal” (when you feel guilty that you are bonding more with your stepkids rather than your own), “allow Kids to Love,” (don’t put them the middle), and of course the intro.You can purchase this video series on the Stepfamily Network (https://www.stepfamilynetwork.com/course-unsungheroes) website for $48 or $5 once a month. You’ll receive free videos from Gil to encourage you along your journey too!Check out more about UnSung Hereos on our site GilandBrenda (http://www.gilandbrenda.com/) #unsungheroes #stepdad #stepfather #bonusdad #stepdadhelp #stepfatherhelp #alwaysforward #stepmom #restoredandremarried #stepfamily #blendedfamily #stepfamilynetwork #gilandbrenda #dadhelp #fatherhelp #stepdadconversations #stepdadvideo Counselor/Coach, Husband/Wife Team, Marriage Illustrators and Encouragers#gilandbrenda #tipstoolsandtingles #conflictresolution #marriagehelp #marriage #investinyourmarriage #remarriagehelp#friendshipinmarriage #marriagecounselor #marriagecoach #husbandandwifeteam#RestoredandRemarried #remarried #remarriage #stepfamily #stepmom #stepdad #stepmother #stepfather #stepparent #stepparenting #stepchild #blendedfamily #marriagehelp #conflictresolution #parenting #remarriagehelp #stepfamilyhelp #blendedfamilyhelp #remarriageadvice #marriagepodcast #stepfamilypodcast #blendedfamilypodcast #remarriagepodcast www.gilandbrenda.com (http://www.gilandbrenda.com/) hello@gilandbrenda.com (mailto:hello@gilandbrenda.com) Find us on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube Twitter (https://twitter.com/brendagilstuart)  Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/restoredandremarried/)  Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/RestoredandRemarried/)  YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc6LPCo8ksYC0nJK2y2dSVg?view_as=public)

There are 2 things that we share intimately with our spouse: Sex and Money.With financial intimacy, it’s not about the money. Gil and Brenda dive into the deep end on this issue.It’s about experiences, and what it means to you. It’s important that you talk about this with your spouse so you both have a realistic view of how money is “felt” in your family. Even if you’ve been married a while, it’s always good to check in with each other, especially as you enter a new season.A realistic conversation about spending habits can be hard. Have it be a heart conversation. Get on the same page so you are working together for your goals. Best question to ask as you make financial decisions: What’s best for “us?” Action Steps1. Have a conversation about these 4 areas and what money means to you. How would you rate    these?         Security         Leisure/enjoyment         Control/Influence         Status/Alignment2. Meet with a financial advisor3. Check out Dave Ramsey (https://www.ramseysolutions.com/) materials 4. Smart StepFamily Guide to Financial Planning (https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Stepfamily-Guide-Financial-Planning/dp/0764233351/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1S9W7T5EUCWDR&keywords=smart+stepfamily+guide+to+finance&qid=1642813398&sprefix=smart+stepfamily+guide+to+finances%2Caps%2C2787&sr=8-1) 5. Email us for the Prepare Enrich Financial worksheet (6 pages)Counselor/Coach, Husband/Wife Team, Marriage Illustrators and Encouragers#gilandbrenda #tipstoolsandtingles  #conflictresolution #marriagehelp #marriage #investinyourmarriage #remarriagehelp#friendshipinmarriage #marriagecounselor #marriagecoach #husbandandwifeteam#RestoredandRemarried #remarried #remarriage #stepfamily #stepmom #stepdad #stepmother #stepfather #stepparent #stepparenting #stepchild #blendedfamily #marriagehelp #conflictresolution #parenting #remarriagehelp #stepfamilyhelp #blendedfamilyhelp #remarriageadvice #marriagepodcast #stepfamilypodcast #blendedfamilypodcast #remarriagepodcast  www.gilandbrenda.com (http://www.gilandbrenda.com/)  hello@gilandbrenda.com (mailto:hello@gilandbrenda.com)  Find us on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube Twitter (https://twitter.com/brendagilstuart)  Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/restoredandremarried/)  Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/RestoredandRemarried/)  YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc6LPCo8ksYC0nJK2y2dSVg?view_as=public)