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The show about mastering the art of relationship by first uncovering the default nature and design of relationships then gaining the insights needed to design relationships (rather than continually trying to repair them); and finally, equipping yourselves to successfully meet the many challenges that accompany long-lasting relationships.

Relationship By Design Relationship By Design

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The show about mastering the art of relationship by first uncovering the default nature and design of relationships then gaining the insights needed to design relationships (rather than continually trying to repair them); and finally, equipping yourselves to successfully meet the many challenges that accompany long-lasting relationships.

    009 Is Resignation Shaping Your Relationship?

    009 Is Resignation Shaping Your Relationship?

    If you really listen to yourselves talking about your relationships, you’ll hear (1) how often you exaggerate with “always” and “never” - which fills your future with your past - and (2) how often you unconsciously talk about what happened in the past as if it’s happening now - which also fills your future with your past. Having a future filled with the past - which is, in a very real sense, forfeiting your future to the past - is the definition of resignation, which means “marked or signed ag

    • 2 min.
    008 Strike 2: Fear In Relationships Part 1

    008 Strike 2: Fear In Relationships Part 1

    Commitments and promises are the foundation for every relationship.

    What is the basis for your relationships? For ALL relationships? There’s a foundation that all relationships rest, lay, or stand on. For the most part, as human beings, we haven’t really looked at what our relationships stand on.
    Today, Sandy and Lon explore what the basis is for all relationships.

    • 11 min.
    007: Are We Doing Politics The Way We Do Relationships?

    007: Are We Doing Politics The Way We Do Relationships?

    Today Paul Bennett from Relationship By Design is reading his blog post about Politics and Relationships. 

    There’s a lot of dissatisfaction and unhappiness in American politics today. There’s a lot of dissatisfaction and unhappiness in relationships, too. Could there be a connection? 

    • 4 min.
    006 Strike 1: The Fantasy

    006 Strike 1: The Fantasy

    Today Sandy and Lon Golnick are talking about the “fairy tale” in a relationship they call Strike 1. They’ll be covering the problems; what you’re looking for; everything you want, all the time, everywhere, w/everyone, forever - and that fantasy is not going away.

    If you’re new to Relationship By Design start here: Episode 001 Get Real About Relationship.

    • 14 min.
    005 What’s Hidden From View

    005 What’s Hidden From View

    Unseen conditions undermine effectiveness.

    Today Sandy and Lon Golnick take a look at what’s hidden from our view when we have upsets or concerns, and breakdowns in relationship. So what happens when you don’t see what’s actually going on?

    • 6 min.
    004 What Is A Relationship?

    004 What Is A Relationship?

    Synonyms, characteristics, actions; you don’t know; problems; blame.
    Today Sandy and Lon Golnick have a short conversation discussing “What is a relationship?”
    The question is not answered here, but what’s given are a few things to consider when attempting to understand what a relationship is.

    • 5 min.

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