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Sex Matters. Sex Matters.
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- Maatschappij en cultuur
Patricia, once a New Jersey Girl, and Judy, an almost lifelong Minnesotan come together to talk about sex! Why? To normalize and discover our own awareness in this crazy U.S. culture we live in. (Yes, we really CAN talk about sex in Minnesota!)
We are looking to, by our conversations, encourage and facilitate positive, healthy, authentic shifts in our relationship with sex. Topics inspired by what is on our mind, in the news or YOU! We love listener questions and topic suggestions.
So many of us could use a little help figuring out how to think, how to talk about and uncover our own true thoughts, feelings, fears. finding our sexual, authentic self… well, it is a process. And, it’s always fun to talk about sex!
Join us!
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Mind, Body, Spirit – Our Relationship to Sex - A Chat. - And a Bit About Ball Gags
We start with a listener question…“Are ball gags meant to make you gag?”(Inspired by episode 52)Some about ball gags… purpose and safety.Stormy Daniel’s warning on the safe word that is NOT “safe” with a ball gag.
Our relationship to sex? How do we engage in sex and sexuality… body, mind, spirit?What is it today, yesterday and how will it change and shift over time… to ourselves, our partners, our own evolution. Our values.
Sex for sex sakeExplorationConnectionUsed for pleasureUSE for pleasureA giftValue in sexual experience… your value for you, how others value you, your body, Joy and fun How are your sexual experiences feeding you?Are YOU feeding them?Are they feeding you?How does role play and BDSM fit into this conversation?
Journal?
More with Judy and Patricia
PATRICIA ENGELKING, PhD – Relationship Doula
Learn more about Patricia, working with her as your coach on Patricia’s website at: https://www.patriciaengelking.comFind her on Facebook, Instagram, TikTokhttps://www.facebook.com/patricia.eng3lkingHer book – Crossing the river called sufferingOrHer latest book… Embrace Your Sexual EnergyYou can click right to amazon through this website… Look on the right side.
JUDY BREUER– Weekly well-being Podcast and wellness advocate
Connect with Judy and her weekly The Wellness Renaissance PodcastWellnessRenPodcast.comor listen on iTunes and other places you listen to podcasts. -
Sex With an Ex
Judy and Patricia came to this conversation with VERY
different directions.
The what.
the why.
the ego?
Why do you ask to have sex with your ex? Why do you say yes if asked? What do you get out of it? Power? Disposable? Jack hammers? Empowered? Friends with benefits? Just the benefits?
A few questions to ask ourselves as we enter into
relationships
Is the “just one more time” REALLY just one more time??.. Are ya going in eyes wide open… or eyes REALLY tightly shut?
There are real emotions and real people’s lives involved
What do you think??
Instagram: @stylo_erotique
More with Judy and Patricia
PATRICIA ENGELKING, PhD – Relationship Doula
You can learn more about and find Patricia’s main website at: https://www.patriciaengelking.comFind her on Facebook, Instagram, TikTokhttps://www.facebook.com/patricia.eng3lkingHer book – Crossing the river called sufferingOrHer latest book… Embrace Your Sexual EnergyYou can click right to amazon through this website
JUDY BREUER– Weekly well-being Podcast and wellness advocate
Connect with Judy and her weekly The Wellness Renaissance PodcastWellnessRenPodcast.comor listen on iTunes -
To Gag or Not To Gag - That is A Question
A conversation Patricia had about gagging during a blow job sparked some interesting conversations… SO, we continued the conversation here… Take a listen and chime in.
Hear the responses and where people weighed in… and our added conversation.
We’d love to hear from men in relationships with men and women…. what do YOU think? As the gag-ER… Click the “ask a question” link above and share away!
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https://sexmatterspodcast.com/Thank you for spending your time with us!
Support the podcast! Your generous… or even conservative… support… be that monetary sharing, feedback, questions… it goes a long way to helping to keep Sex Matters. Podcast alive and kicking.
THANK YOU!!!https://www.patreon.com/SexMatters
Find more of Judy and Patricia
PATRICIA ENGELKING, PhD – Relationship Doula
You can learn more about and find Patricia’s main website at: https://www.patriciaengelking.comFind her on Facebook, Instagram, TikTokhttps://www.facebook.com/patricia.eng3lkingHer book – Crossing the river called sufferingOrHer latest book… Embrace Your Sexual EnergyYou can click right to amazon through this website
JUDY BREUER– Weekly well-being Podcast and wellness advocate
Connect with Judy and her weekly The Wellness Renaissance PodcastWellnessRenPodcast.comor listen on iTunes -
Why you should not tolerate "your women's" bitchy, moody and complaining ways... and how
Today we explore…. Patricia’s inspiration… The Way off the Superior Man. Patricia pulled out an intriguing section in said book… Tolerating her leads to resentment. (Written in 1997… this is the 20 year anniversary addition.)
The whys… the hows. We explore the author’s suggestions and add some of our own.
We also talked about Indian food and moods, partner equality and other fun stuff.
Take a listen… what do YOU think? Does this resonate?
The book this chapter of discussion was taken…The Way of the Superior Man [Paperback] [Jan 01, 2017] David Deidahttps://amzn.to/3jn6u9C
Patricia also mentioned this book.Sex Matters: How Modern Feminism Lost Touch with Science, Love, and Common Sense by Mona Charenhttps://amzn.to/33kGXse
MORE EPISODES OF SEX MATTERS PODCAST. AT…
https://sexmatterspodcast.com/Thank you for spending your time with us!
Support this podcast! Your generous… or even conservative… support. Goes a long way to helping to keep Sex Matters. Podcast alive and kicking.
THANK YOU!!!https://www.patreon.com/SexMatters
Find more of Judy and Patricia
PATRICIA ENGELKING, PhD – Relationship Doula
You can learn more about and find Patricia’s main website at: https://www.patriciaengelking.comFind her on Facebook, Instagram, TikTokhttps://www.facebook.com/patricia.eng3lkingHer book – Crossing the river called sufferingYou can click right to amazon through the website
JUDY BREUER– Weekly well-being Podcast and wellness advocate
Connect with Judy and her weekly The Wellness Renaissance PodcastWellnessRenPodcast.comor listen on iTunes -
Patricia's 50th B-Day - and Book Release - A BIG DAY!
IT IS OUT!!!
So is Episode 50
And so it is Patricia’s 50th Birthday! Half way to being a centurion! YOU GO GIRL!
CELEBRATE WITH US! And hear more about WHO should get “Embrace Your Sexual Energy”… Patricia’s new book. Yes, EVERYBODY of course! Wink, wink. Nudge nudge. But WHO and WHY this book can speak to so many… walk them through a journey of learning ourselves and our own mind. (You can check it out here… https://amzn.to/2Fu1ktQ
Judy shares some of her perspectives on the book and why it matters. There are so many ways you could use this book. Know, it is an introspective journey that you will be taking… You are invited!
–Have questions you want us to chat about… about sex… about Patrica’s Books?Send your questions, comments and thoughts here. https://sexmatterspodcast.com/questions/
MORE EPISODES OF SEX MATTERS PODCAST. AT…
https://sexmatterspodcast.com/Thank you for spending your time with us!
Support this podcast! Your generous… or even conservative… support. Goes a long way to helping to keep Sex Matters. Podcast alive and kicking.
THANK YOU!!!https://www.patreon.com/SexMatters
PATRICIA ENGELKING, PhD – Relationship Doula
You can learn more about and find Patricia’s main website at: https://www.patriciaengelking.comFind her on Facebook, Instagram, TikTokhttps://www.facebook.com/patricia.eng3lkingHer book – Crossing the river called sufferingYou can click right to amazon through the website
JUDY BREUER– Weekly well-being Podcast and wellness advocate
Connect with Judy and her weekly The Wellness Renaissance PodcastWellnessRenPodcast.comor listen on iTunes -
Patricia Teases Us With Her Upcoming Book
Check THIS out!… (Oh Patricia… ya big tease!)
Patricia treats us to a sneak peak read of the introduction
of her new book Embrace Your Sexual Energy.
It is a lovely invitation and explanation of the book’s inspiration and
her philosophy around sex and culture and US as individuals. She gives us a peak at what we can expect to
find.
After a chat about Patricia’s 2 experiences skydiving… and
why!
Patricia is also turning 50!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY PATRICIA! The
same day her new book is released… So, lots to celebrate.
Her book releases in hard copy, Tuesday, September 15, 2020. If you can’t wait – it is available on Kindle right now. Embrace Your Sexual Energy by Patricia Engelking (IF the link does not appear properly please search on Amazonhttps://amzn.to/3ik3OJy
Dr. PATRICIA ENGELKING – Relationship Doula
You can learn more about and find Patricia’s main website at: https://www.patriciaengelking.comFind her on Facebook, Instagram, TikTokhttps://www.facebook.com/patricia.eng3lkingHer book – Crossing the river called sufferingYou can click right to amazon through the website
JUDY BREUER– Weekly well-being Podcast and wellness advocate
Connect with Judy and her weekly The Wellness Renaissance PodcastWellnessRenPodcast.comor listen on iTunes