The Parenting Cipher Genie Dawkins

Are you worried about your teen's online safety and how much control they should have over their technology?
In this episode, Genie Dawkins talks about the emotional and practical journey of giving her son, Zavier, more control over his technology as he turns 13. From setting up recovery options to dealing with location settings, Genie shares her reflections on the responsibilities that come with turning 13. This episode highlights the importance of open conversations between parents and children about technology use, offering insights from previous expert interviews and personal experiences.
Key Takeaways:
- The significance of turning 13 and the responsibilities that come with it.
- Steps for setting up technology settings safely with your teenager.
- The importance of parental involvement in conversations about technology and responsibility.
- Lessons from experts Jody Aman, Simone Alicia, and Elizabeth on guiding teenagers in managing online safety.
- Impact on a teenager's sense of agency, self-esteem, and responsibility.
- Strategies for ensuring clear expectations and boundaries regarding technology use.
Timestamps:
03:58 Google account supervision for kids over 13
09:42 "Why not empower him with tech?"
10:51 Giving children agency reduces anxiety and rebellion.
15:57 Reflecting on conversations, empowering son's growing independence.
18:06 YouTube ads and parental controls for kids.
Links and Resources:
"Black Gold" by Flying Lotus: From the Yasuke soundtrack, symbolizing Zavier’s journey into a new identity as he turns 13.Google Safety Center [Google SafetNational Online Safety: (https://nationalonlinesafety.com/)Family Online Safety Institute: (https://www.fosi.org/Google Family Link: https://families.google/familylink/Jodi Aman : https://jodiaman.com/Elizabeth Milovidov: https://www.digitalparentingcoach.com/Dr. Simone Alicia: https://www.theselfesteemdoctor.com/
Quotes:
1. "Turning 13 is a milestone, not just for our children, but for us as parents as we balance their newfound independence with ensuring they are safe." – Genie Dawkins
2. "Conversations about technology use and boundaries are essential. It's about building trust and setting clear expectations." – Genie Dawkins
3. "Empowering our teenagers with responsibilities can boost their self-esteem and sense of agency, but we have to guide them in managing those responsibilities." – Genie Dawkins
Speaker Biographies:
Genie Dawkins
Genie Dawkins is a dedicated and passionate advocate for parents navigating the challenges of raising children in a tech-savvy world. As the host of "The Parenting Cipher," she shares her experiences and insights into effective parenting strategies, often inspired by her journey with her own children. Genie’s candid reflections and thoughtful conversations help listeners understand and tackle the complexities of modern parenting.
Join us in this episode as we delve into the journey of empowering our teenagers with the right technological tools while ensuring their safety and growth. Tune in to "The Parenting Cipher" and be part of the conversation!
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Are you wondering how to boost your child's self-esteem and why it's so essential for their emotional and educational resilience? In this enlightening episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins is joined by Dr. Simone Alicia, renowned self-esteem coach and founder of a self-esteem academy. They delve into practical strategies for enhancing self-esteem at home and discuss the significant role it plays in a child's development and well-being.
Key Takeaways:
- Importance of modeling positive self-talk and behavior to reinforce good self-esteem in children.
- Role of social-emotional learning in children's development and how parents can integrate practices into their daily routines.
- Dr. Simone Alicia’s insights into using affirmation and gratitude games to engage and teach children about their self-worth.
- The impact of self-esteem on children's critical thinking skills and confidence.
- The importance of understanding and adapting to different learning styles to support children with special educational needs.
Timestamps:
1:49 Negative thoughts have a chemical impact.
18:37 Prepare for ongoing education and self-improvement.
25:05 Confidence and self esteem are interconnected forces.
26:56 Build genuine self-esteem, confidence, self-assurance. Follow inner guidance.
35:52 Story emphasizes importance of self-assuredness and calm.
41:28 Studied neuro linguistic programming for behavioral change.
43:12 Nurturing self-awareness and positivity in youth.
53:16 Seeking solutions when feeling overwhelmed with responsibilities.
58:26 Empower yourself through academy for teaching advantage.
01:07:00 Incorporate activities into your daily routine for balance.
Link and Resources:
- Dr. Simone Alicia's Self-Esteem Academy: https://www.theselfesteemdoctoracademy.com/
- The Self-Esteem Doctor: https://www.theselfesteemdoctor.com/
Quotes:
- "Self-esteem is more than feeling good about oneself; it is about having the resilience to tackle challenges and the confidence to explore new opportunities." — Dr. Simone Alicia
- "Every interaction with your child is an opportunity to build their self-esteem." — Genie Dawkins
About the Speakers:
- Genie Dawkins is a passionate advocate for children's education and parenting strategies. She hosts "The Parenting Cipher" to provide parents with resources and insights for handling various parenting challenges. Genie combines her personal experiences with expert advice to foster a supportive community for parents navigating the educational system.
- Dr. Simone Alicia is a self-esteem coach and the enthusiastic founder of a self-esteem academy designed to empower children and parents. With a background in educational psychology and a heartfelt dedication to fostering healthy self-esteem, Dr. Alicia’s approach involves engaging, tailor-made content and practical strategies for everyday parenting. Connect with Dr.Simone on IG @drsimonealicia
Tune in to this episode for an invaluable conversation that could change the way you support your child’s growth and self-esteem. Whether at home, school, or in the community, learn how to be the role model your child needs for developing genuine confidence and self-worth.
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Have you ever wondered how lack of assistive technology in schools can affect your child's education, especially if they have been diagnosed with neurological behavioral conditions like dyslexia or ADHD? In this enlightening episode, Genie Dawkins dives into the critical role of assistive technology in aiding students' learning processes and advocates steps to ensure these resources are accessible in public schools, particularly those in inner-city areas.
In This Episode:
Genie Dawkins shares her personal struggle with securing assistive technology for her son and uses her experience to offer insight and advice for other parents in similar positions. She discusses the disparity between the resources available in underfunded public schools versus private schools and stresses the importance of parents' advocacy to bridge this gap.
Key Takeaways:
- Understanding the spectrum of assistive technologies and their significance in supporting students with disabilities.
- Navigating the challenges presented by the underfunding of assistive technology in public schools.
- Practical steps to advocate for assistive technology, including knowing your legal rights and collaborating with educators.
- The benefits of assistive technology in not only aiding academic success but also boosting student confidence and independence.
Links and Resources:
IDEA Act National Center on Accessible Educational MaterialsCenter for Parent Information and ResourcesWrights LawUnderstanding Assistive Technology for Your Child's Academic Success
Time Stamps:
07:38 Adapting assistive technology to support students in need.
10:08 Underfunded schools impact children's education and support.
14:10 Assistive technology helps students focus on comprehension.
17:08 Schools may lack awareness and resources for assistive technology.
20:15 Special education consultant advocates for technology access.
22:15 Closing the gap for neurodiverse kids is essential.
28:05 Instructions sent for child's independent learning.
29:28 Use speech-to-text to ensure accountability in schools.
Quotes:
"Assistive technology is not just a tool; it's a bridge to unlocking our children's potential." - Genie Dawkins
"Every child deserves the right tools to succeed, and sometimes, it's up to us as parents to build that toolkit." - Genie Dawkins
Speaker Biography:
Genie Dawkins is a devoted mother and dynamic advocate for children's education rights, especially those with special educational needs. With her insightful podcast, The Parenting Cipher, Genie empowers parents with knowledge and strategies to support their children's educational journey and advocate for necessary resources, including assistive technology.
Tune into this episode for a deep dive into how assistive technologies can revolutionize learning for students with special needs and how you can play a pivotal role in that transformative process.
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Are you finding it hard to stay calm and present during the hectic everyday life of parenting? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Josephine Atluri sheds light on how mindfulness can transform your parenting journey. Sit back and join hosts Genie Dawkins and Josephine Atluri as they dive deep into embracing mindfulness amidst the chaos of raising kids.
Episode Summary:
Josephine Atluri, a mom to seven children through international adoption, IVF, and surrogacy, shares how her challenging journey led her to embrace mindfulness and meditation. Both Genie and Josephine explore their initial skepticism towards these practices and discuss various accessible strategies for incorporating mindfulness into daily routines. This episode debunks common myths, highlights the simplicity of mindfulness practices, and provides actionable advice for integrating mindfulness moments throughout your day to foster a more grounded and calm parenting approach.
Key Takeaways:
- Mindfulness can be practiced in simple, scalable ways starting with even just one minute a day.
- It is natural for the mind to wander during mindfulness practices; the key is returning focus without judgment.
- Incorporating mindfulness into daily activities can greatly aid in handling stress and enhancing clarity and presence within family interactions.
- There are diverse ways to practice mindfulness, ensuring that there is something for everyone—there is no "one right way."
- Even moments of supposed failure, like falling asleep during meditation, are part of the journey toward more mindful living.
Links and Resources:
- 5 Minute Mindfulness for Parents - Check out Josephine Atluri’s book to explore easy and quick mindfulness exercises.
- Mindful.org - A useful resource for beginners and seasoned practitioners looking for tools to deepen their practice.
- Headspace - An app offering guided meditation sessions and mindfulness training.
Quotes:
- "Mindfulness is not about getting it right; it's about being aware of the present and learning from it," - Josephine Atluri.
- "The beauty of mindfulness is in its flexibility; it bends to fit into our lives uniquely," - Genie Dawkins.
About the Speakers:
Josephine Atluri is an expert in meditation and mindfulness training, specialized in helping individuals overcome adversity through mindfulness. She is the author of "5 Minute Mindfulness for Pregnancy" and a mom of seven, whose journey through adoption, IVF, and surrogacy has deeply influenced her practices and teachings. You can listen to Josephine's Podcast Responding to Life on Apple and follow her on IG @josephineratluri
Genie Dawkins, co-host at The Parenting Cipher, is a passionate advocate for children’s rights and a vocal proponent for parental involvement in education and personal development. Through her work, she aims to empower parents with the tools needed to advocate effectively for their children. 
Delve into this insightful discussion on "Embracing Mindfulness in Parenting" and discover how small, mindful moments can lead to significant changes in your parenting and personal well-being.
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Are you feeling overwhelmed about understanding how assistive technology can support your child’s learning? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins clarifies the often misunderstood world of assistive technology, sharing her own experiences and insights to shed light on how this resource can be tapped to unlock your child's full academic potential.

In This Episode:- Genie delves into what assistive technology is and how it can level the playing field for children with disabilities.
- Discover the range of assistive technology, from low-tech solutions like pencil grips to high-tech software for speech-to-text functionality.
- Learn the significance of ensuring your child not only receives these technologies but is also adept at using them.
- Understand the institutional hesitancy around acknowledging and providing assistive technology, and prepare for the forthcoming discussion on challenging schools to check the assistive technology box on IEPs.

Key Takeaways:- The Definition: Assistive technology includes any item, equipment, or system that enhances the functional capabilities of children with disabilities.
- Importance of Early Implementation: Assistive technology can be introduced as early as pre-K or kindergarten to support a child's educational journey.
- Low to High-Tech: Ranging from pencil grips and planners to sophisticated computer programs, assistive tech is varied and adaptable to each child’s needs.
- Empowering Learning: The proper use of assistive technology, coupled with quality instruction, can significantly impact a student’s independence and academic achievement.
- Next Steps: Genie will continue the conversation on assistive technology, discussing how parents can advocate for its inclusion in their child’s education plan and hold schools accountable for their child’s success.

Links and Resources:- Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA)
- Learning Ally
- Sora Reading App
- Read and Write
- Article: [Benefits of Assistive Technology in Special Education](#)
Stay tuned for part two of our conversation on assistive technology in a future episode of The Parenting Cipher, where Genie will dive deeper into advocating for your child's needs in the realm of educational technology. 

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In This Episode Summary:
In an enlightening conversation, Kiva Schuler and Genie Dawkins delve deep into the tenets of peaceful parenting, reflecting on the pivotal role of trust, the detrimental impacts of shame, and the power of patience and empathy in the parent-child dynamic. They share personal stories, one being Genie's heartening tale of her son with autism and anxiety, and discuss how recognizing a child's emotions and fostering self-advocacy shapes a healthier family relationship. From challenging the status quo to mindful discipline, this episode is a thought-provoking dialogue on breaking generational cycles and embracing the authenticity of parenting.
Key Takeaways:
1. Building Trust: Creating a safe environment where children feel comfortable coming to adults with their problems.
2. Avoiding Shame and Punishment: Recognizing that punitive measures can erode trust and lead to children hiding their issues.
3. Empathy and Understanding: The importance of listening to children's worries and validating their emotions without downplaying them.
4. Self-Patience and Growth: Encouraging parents to be patient with themselves and their children, acknowledging the journey of personal growth for both.
5. Cultural Consideration in Parenting Advice: Kiva Schuler's introspection on the authoritative voice in the parenting space.
6. Promotion of Children's Autonomy: Celebrating milestones that recognize growing independence in children.
7. Embracing Failure and Learning: Allowing children to face the natural consequences of their decisions as a fundamental learning process.
8. Legacy and Healing: Overcoming ancestral traumas and acknowledging inherited parenting styles that may be limiting.
9. Role of the Inner Child in Parenthood:*Understanding and healing one's own childhood experiences to better serve as a parent.
10. Peaceful Parenting Defined: Understanding peaceful parenting as non-permissive, non-punitive, and rooted in connection and guidance.
Links and Resources:
- Giant Institute Parent Coaching http://jaiinstitute.forparenting.com/
- The Peaceful Parenting Revolution, by Kiva Schuler https://www.amazon.com/The-Peaceful-Parenting-Revolution/

Powerful Quotes:
- "It's critical that we build an environment where our children run to us, not away from us when trouble arises." — Kiva Schuler
- "We must learn to sit with the discomfort of our children's failures, as it is through them that they will learn the most." — Genie Dawkins
- "Parenting is not about perfecting our children, it's about guiding them through the unique journey of becoming who they are meant to be." — Kiva Schuler
- "In parenting, we not only raise our children but also the child within us." — Genie Dawkins
- "Peaceful parenting is about leading with empathy, compassion, and the understanding that teaching trumps any form of coercion." — Kiva Schuler
Guest:
Kiva Schuler is a devoted advocate for children's rights and a maven of growth through mindful parenting. Nestled in the heart of Kiva's philosophy is the conviction that to foster capable, wise, and independent children, adults must first embark on their own journeys of maturity and self-improvement. For Kiva, parenting transcends the traditional boundaries of rearing young ones; it becomes a transformative process where adults and children evolve together.
Connect: IG Kiva_schuler Website:https://www.jaiinstituteforparenting.com/
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