26 min
#181 Part 2 – Effective Consequences Beautiful Behavior
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- Self-Improvement
Today’s episode is the second part of a three-part series in
providing more clarity around punishment, consequences and boundaries.
I find that these three things can be wildly misunderstood.
I am offering this series to provide some clarity around how each of these is different. Often, we use these words interchangeably however, each carry a different energy, purpose and impact.
On this episode, we dive into effective consequences.
Key takeaways:
· A true consequence is about how one FEELS about
the impact of their choices and actions
· Effective Consequences are about taking ownership
of one’s choices and actions
· Trust must be present to take ownership
· Effective Consequences focus on solutions rather
than the problem
· Effective Consequences create problem solvers
· Effective Consequences keep self-worth in tact
· With Effective Consequences the child becomes
part of the solution
· Effective Consequences is about solving a
problem without diminishing anyone in the process
· 3 elements of Effective Consequences are:
Reflection, Make a plan, Follow-up
· 3 types of Effective Consequences are: Natural, Logical
and Problem Solving
Continue the conversation on Instagram @dianesorensen.bb
FREE LUNCH & LEARN April 17th. Topic – Handling Children’s Big Emotions: https://www.dianesorensen.net/registration-page
Join the Beautiful Behavior community
for more insights and perspectives in parenting and relationship building - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1234281357530027
The Beautiful Behavior Programs will
support you in setting firm boundaries that promote self-regulation while also
promoting compassion and respect in all your relationships. Take the first step by filling out the questionnaire or book a call here: https://www.dianesorensen.net/workwithme
Together we will design the best program to fit your needs.
Grab this free workbook: https://www.dianesorensen.net/drama-to-empowerment
More free Resources & program descriptions -
https://www.dianesorensen.net/
Today’s episode is the second part of a three-part series in
providing more clarity around punishment, consequences and boundaries.
I find that these three things can be wildly misunderstood.
I am offering this series to provide some clarity around how each of these is different. Often, we use these words interchangeably however, each carry a different energy, purpose and impact.
On this episode, we dive into effective consequences.
Key takeaways:
· A true consequence is about how one FEELS about
the impact of their choices and actions
· Effective Consequences are about taking ownership
of one’s choices and actions
· Trust must be present to take ownership
· Effective Consequences focus on solutions rather
than the problem
· Effective Consequences create problem solvers
· Effective Consequences keep self-worth in tact
· With Effective Consequences the child becomes
part of the solution
· Effective Consequences is about solving a
problem without diminishing anyone in the process
· 3 elements of Effective Consequences are:
Reflection, Make a plan, Follow-up
· 3 types of Effective Consequences are: Natural, Logical
and Problem Solving
Continue the conversation on Instagram @dianesorensen.bb
FREE LUNCH & LEARN April 17th. Topic – Handling Children’s Big Emotions: https://www.dianesorensen.net/registration-page
Join the Beautiful Behavior community
for more insights and perspectives in parenting and relationship building - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1234281357530027
The Beautiful Behavior Programs will
support you in setting firm boundaries that promote self-regulation while also
promoting compassion and respect in all your relationships. Take the first step by filling out the questionnaire or book a call here: https://www.dianesorensen.net/workwithme
Together we will design the best program to fit your needs.
Grab this free workbook: https://www.dianesorensen.net/drama-to-empowerment
More free Resources & program descriptions -
https://www.dianesorensen.net/
26 min