41 episodes

What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlesterFor advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.comWe wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4

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What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlesterFor advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.comWe wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4

    Shallontine’s Day Special: Your V-Day Horror Stories!

    Shallontine’s Day Special: Your V-Day Horror Stories!

    In this special bonus Shallontine’s Day episode, I’ll break down some truly heinous Valentine’s horror stories you shared with me, from a love-bombing loser and a dollar-store romeo, to the many, MANY dudes who have many, MANY excuses for why they didn’t get you a gift! 

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    • 36 min
    The Trap Of “Just Friends” & Dating With Disabilities

    The Trap Of “Just Friends” & Dating With Disabilities

    Should you be “just friends” with a guy who isn’t ready to commit? UH NO. I’ll break down the trap of endless friendship, plus help a Shalloner dealing with a physical limitation and a follow up to a saga about a guy who won’t say “I love you!” 


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    @ShallonXO 
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    • 28 min
    Getting Unstuck & Catfishing On Tinder

    Getting Unstuck & Catfishing On Tinder

    Do you feel stuck in stagnant? I’ll tell you how to reverse-engineer your life to get out of a rut and back on track, talk to a girl dealing with an in-and-out ex fiancé, plus help a Shalloner who met a dude by… catfishing him? 

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    & more!
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    • 34 min
    Weddings, Funerals, and Trauma Bonding

    Weddings, Funerals, and Trauma Bonding

    Life isn’t always sugar and pom-poms. This week we’re tackling some heavy topics from family obligations to family loss. Plus, I’ll help a confused Shallonee sort out the nuances of trauma bonding and you have another one a plan to get away from an abusive ex

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    rate and review this podcast!

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    of hoodies & more!
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    • 26 min
    Career Quagmires & The Truth About Being An Empath

    Career Quagmires & The Truth About Being An Empath

    This week, I’ll help a fan narrow down her career options, explain some hot and cold behavior from a guy who won’t put out, and we are the pros and cons of coming clean about kissing your friends fella. Plus, I’ll dismantle the idea that being an empath is a good thing… Because it is not.

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    • 29 min
    Vacationships & Being A Beta

    Vacationships & Being A Beta

    Did you fall for a guy on a getaway? I’ll unravel a fiasco with a “vacationship” and help a girl who realized that SHE is the beta. Plus, we’ll tackle toxic family members, and feeling like the odd chick out in a trio of friends! 

    💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com
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    💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast!

    💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more!
    https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester
    .
    💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week
    https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester
    .
    💜FOLLOW 💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO 




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    • 33 min

Customer Reviews

Emuuliee ,

So much fun listening to this podcast!

I LOVE listening to Shallon’s advise, and in genera how she views the world. This is a great podcast for everyone who want to evolve personally or in their relationships. And it’s entertaining. Keep doing your good work Shallon, I love both your YouTube videos and your podcast! Much love from Norway. <3

Hivehnj ,

Best big sis advice right here

If you need some solid life advice you should listen to this. Period.

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