117 episodes

Every Monday morning step into the office of iconic psychotherapist Esther Perel and listen in as real people in search of insight bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories. From breakups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, it’s a place to hear our own stories reflected in the lives of others. So…where should we begin? Part of the Vox Media Podcast Network.

Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther’s Office Hours

    • Kultur og samfunn
    • 4.8 • 129 Ratings

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Every Monday morning step into the office of iconic psychotherapist Esther Perel and listen in as real people in search of insight bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories. From breakups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, it’s a place to hear our own stories reflected in the lives of others. So…where should we begin? Part of the Vox Media Podcast Network.

Listen on Apple Podcasts
Requires subscription and macOS 11.4 or higher

    Does Growing Up Mean Growing Apart?

    Does Growing Up Mean Growing Apart?

    They grew up together and now run a production company. They are contending with the growing pains of transitioning from best friends to coworkers and the challenges of running, essentially, a family business. Esther helps them find the complementarity in their roles and see their story as growing and developing even in the face of challenges.
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    • 1 hr 3 min
    Esther Calling - My Mom Should Have Set a Different Example

    Esther Calling - My Mom Should Have Set a Different Example

    Esther speaks to a woman who is experiencing a kind of a double story. She resents her mother for the choices she made and the example she set, while also wondering if she keeps choosing the safe person as a way to combat those childhood feelings of abandonment. Esther helps her untangle these complicated feelings.
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    • 42 min
    The Legacy of Our Mothers

    The Legacy of Our Mothers

    In this Apple bonus, Esther shares a letter she wrote about mothers including the complicated relationship she had with her own mother. As we approach Mother's Day, Esther invites you to reflect on your own relationships with motherly figures and encourages you to reach out to them. She even has a few ideas of things you can ask to get a new conversation started.

    Want to learn more? Receive monthly insights, musings, and recommendations to improve your relational intelligence via email from Esther: https://www.estherperel.com/newsletter

    There's You, There's Me, There's US

    There's You, There's Me, There's US

    This is a classic session, from the first season of Where Should We Begin? A middle-aged couple, together for seventeen years, best friends and partners who, despite their loving and positive relationship, go months without connecting sexually. He transitioned 10 years ago, and they’re both experiencing the physical changes of aging. Esther guides them through body exercises, in an effort to help them find sexual spaces amidst the crush of everyday life.
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    • 47 min
    Esther Calling - Love is a Trap Follow Up

    Esther Calling - Love is a Trap Follow Up

    It's been a few weeks since Esther first spoke to this young man who kept getting to a certain point in relationships before he would start fantasizing about his ex-boyfriends or other future partners. Esther talks through some of the things that stuck with her after the session ended and he lets us know where everything landed after they hung up.

    For the first time on the U.S. stage, Esther invites you to an evening unlike any other. Join her as she shines a light on the cultural shifts transforming relationships and helps us rethink how we connect, how we desire – and even how we love. To find a city near you, go to https://www.estherperel.com/tour2024

    Want to learn more? Receive monthly insights, musings, and recommendations to improve your relational intelligence via email from Esther: https://www.estherperel.com/newsletter"""

    Esther Calling - Love is a Trap

    Esther Calling - Love is a Trap

    He gets to a certain point in relationships before he starts fantasizing about his ex-boyfriends or other future partners. Esther talks him through what he might be holding onto from his childhood that makes his otherwise healthy relationships feel stifling.
    Esther Callings are a one-time, 45-60 minute interventional phone call with Esther. They are edited for time, clarity, and anonymity. If you have a question you would like to talk through with Esther, send a voice memo to producer@estherperel.com.
    For the first time on the U.S. stage, Esther invites you to an evening unlike any other. Join her as she shines a light on the cultural shifts transforming relationships and helps us rethink how we connect, how we desire – and even how we love. To find a city near you, go to https://www.estherperel.com/tour2024

    Want to learn more? Receive monthly insights, musings, and recommendations to improve your relational intelligence via email from Esther: https://www.estherperel.com/newsletter
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    • 40 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
129 Ratings

129 Ratings

QB-FROM-HELL ,

Why so many reruns?!?

I absolutely looove this show, and I’ve listened to every episode multiple times. I became a subscriber because I wanted to listen to the episodes behind the paywall, and they were really great! But I must admit that I’m a little disappointed whenever a new week arrives and the new episode is a ‘classic’ or a rerun. It feels like I’m not getting my money’s worth.
I get that Esther is super busy and releasing countless episodes of this show would be an insurmountable task, but it would be nice with some different content. Like the ‘gut check’ one you did with Terry Real! That one was really neat.
Either way, that’s my two cents. Still love this show, and have recommended it to a lot of people.
Sincerely. Norwegian man, 30 (sigh).

Qeertyuuii ,

Real, raw and inspiring.

Excellent podcast. May inspire to changes in your own relationships.

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