To My Sisters Courtney Daniella Boateng & Renée Kapuku

From money-woes, to wedding drama, and emotional spending, your favourite online sisters jump it all in this weeks episode of #TMSHotTakes. 
TIMESTAMPS: 
00:00 Intro: Welcome to Audio Only & Courtney’s Blocked Bath
02:38 ‘Poverty is an underrated trauma…’ 
15:59 The Scandalous Cost of Weddings
32:49 Emotional Spending & Consumerism 
48:58 Learning to Nurture and Mother Yourself
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In today’s episode, the sisters weigh in on last week’s episode with none other than Adella Afadi. From seeking freedom from the male gaze to repairing our relationship with self, sex and the male gaze - tune in to reflective and candid conversation on how, and why, women should strive for the same. 
Timestamps: 
00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis 
02:08 Housekeeping announcements 
05:57 Ding ding ding dilemma: Maid of honour DRAMA 
24:16 The dangers facing women under the male gaze
42:10 Divesting from the male gaze and putting you first
58:49 Sexual liberation and education
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Join your favourite online sisters in this mid-week episode as they share their thoughts on the upcoming UK General Election. The complex feelings women might feel towards the recent series of engagement and pregnancy announcements on social media. And their tales of being young, dumb and in love as they reflect on a viral TikTok trend. 
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When it comes to social movements, humans tend to swing from one extreme to another. Today we sit down with our good sis Adella Afadi to ask the question, have we gone too far with some of our responses to internet trends and conversations on the male gaze, being a ‘pick me’ and recovering from people pleasing? 
💌 Introducing our guest
Adella Afadi is a social commentator, YouTuber and host, with a unique skill of bringing deep, nuanced and fun conversations and theories to the internet. 
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AdellaAfadi
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adellaafadi
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adellaafadi
TIMESTAMPS: 
00:00 Welcome to the conversation with Adella Afadi
03:02 Asking Your Questions: Marriage, Celibacy & Self-discovery
13:25 Finding Balance: The Male Gaze, Pick Me’s & People Pleasing
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Marriage and commitment is hard, but cheating might not be the answer… Join your favourite online sisters as they share their thoughts on Netlfix’s The Ultimatum South Africa and the Ashley Madison Scandal. Plus in the exclusive audio they delve into thoughts on the Diddy, Jalen Noble and modern men. 
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Your favourite online sisters are back! In this episode, they reflect on the conversations they had with the brothers on fatherhood, marriage, dating and the gender wars. They share thoughts on how to approach toxic relationships with parents, the importance of healing, and financial management in romantic relationships.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis.
02:26 Housekeeping Announcements
03:52 Ding Ding Dilemma: Should I repair my relationship with my Dad?
16:53 The challenges when rebuilding intimacy with your parent
29:25 Choosing to believe there are good men out there
46:47 Conversations you need to have about money in a relationship

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