Vasu_ndhra vasundhra gupta

Keeping a positive outlook, we are not here to discuss the signs that will show you that you are in an unhappy relationship. Let’s see life with more optimism, than approaching the questions we have in our mind with strong criticism whenever we feel confused. A positive perspective can change a lot rather than always looking the wrong in a relationship.
Are you happy in your relationship largely depends on whether the relationship is giving you what you expected out of it? Is it making your life more easy and peaceful? The sense of belongingness you feel in the relationship is actually making you feel complete and whole?
The meaning of love and relationship is different for every human. Humans are complex, and so is your partner. So it is not always necessary to find all the answers unless the situation is too critical. The most important thing in a relationship is whether you are at peace and happy with your partner or not.
We often relate our happiness with our expectations, but wasn’t love supposed to be unconditional. Well we no longer live in a world where we can find eternal-true-unconditional love. The connection between people and the meaning of love have always evolved within this modern world. Somebody meeting our expectations is important in the sense of emotional satisfaction and mental peace rather than the things your partner is giving you.
We usually expect love, loyalty, trust, kindness, warmth, hugs, kisses, cuddles, moral support, respect and so many more things from our partner. A sweet reminder you can’t have it all. Everyone lacks something, no one can fulfill all our desires and wants. We have to compromise and settle for what we are receiving from our partner, rather than wishing to get it all.
Go by the simple rule whenever in doubt, is the good things more than the bad ones.