366 episodes

In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.

'Highly Recommended' Guardian

'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes

'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOut

An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongay
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A Gay and A NonGay James Barr and Dan Hudson

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.6 • 7 Ratings

In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.

'Highly Recommended' Guardian

'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes

'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOut

An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongay
Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

    Richard Gadd on Baby Reindeer (2019 Re-Release)

    Richard Gadd on Baby Reindeer (2019 Re-Release)

    Netflix's 'Baby Reindeer' creator Richard Gadd had a chat with James and Dan back in 2019 at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival when it was first performed as a stage show. Trigger Warning - this episode does contain conversations about abuse and sexual violence.
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    • 20 min
    Are 'TradWives' Progressive Or A Step Backwards?

    Are 'TradWives' Progressive Or A Step Backwards?

    Have you seen the TradWives movement? What do you think?
    In this episode James and Dan explore whether coming out will always be 'a thing', the boom of the TradWives movement and answer your pressing life dilemmas.
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    • 19 min
    Exploring Trans Love And Identity: 'Close To You' with Elliot Page & Dominic Savage

    Exploring Trans Love And Identity: 'Close To You' with Elliot Page & Dominic Savage

    James and Dan share a deep conversation with Elliot Page and Dominic Savage, makers of the new film 'Close To You'.
    Sam (Elliot Page) has a chance encounter with an old friend (Hillary Baack) on his way home to a dreaded family reunion that forces him to confront long-buried feelings.
    They explore the creative process behind creating this film and the importance of trans masc representation in cinema.
    This interview was part of the BFI Flare: London LBTQIA+ Film Festival. You can find more info about the festival and other great art pieces via their website.


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    • 18 min
    I Had To Have Tea With His Mum On The First Date

    I Had To Have Tea With His Mum On The First Date

    What would you do if you had to have tea with someone's mum on the first date?
    James and Dan are back and in this episode they explore whether online LGBTQ+ inclusivity posts actually do more harm than good... as well as responding to more of your pressing dilemmas!
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    • 20 min
    Barbie needed The Gays

    Barbie needed The Gays

    Happy Ken Day! ... But where were the gays in Barbieland?

    
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    • 18 min
    Crystal Hefner's Journey to Freedom: How to find strength after manipulation and control

    Crystal Hefner's Journey to Freedom: How to find strength after manipulation and control

    Crystal Hefner sheds light on her time at the infamous Playboy Mansion, from the glamour of the mansion to the shadows of manipulation, abuse and control.
    James and Dan discuss Hugh Hefner's legacy and the dark underbelly of the Playboy empire. From the pressures of maintaining physical perfection to the emotional and financial exploitation.
    Crystal shares her conflicting feelings about her relationship with Hefner and her eventual realisation of the toxic dynamics at play.
    Crystal's journey highlights the importance of self-respect and empowerment in breaking free from abusive situations.
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    • 21 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
7 Ratings

7 Ratings

History Nerd NZ ,

The perfect accompaniment to my midlife crisis

I found this podcast three days ago and I’m caught up. Seriously, I’ve done little else but eat and listen to this podcast for three days. I mean, great podcast, really excellent, but I’m kind of worried I might not be in the best place right now. Like, what am I doing with my life? Also, Dan and James are adorable.

justanotherbtm ,

Super cute podcast but drop the breeder.

New listener, listened to about 8 episodes now 4 of your oldest podcasts and 4 of your latest ones. This would be an absolutely stunning five star podcast but can we just keep the gay one and drop the straightie? Idk babes! I suppose we all make interesting choices Xx

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