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A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 30 years experience working with those surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups Counsellor A.J. Mahari

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A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 30 years experience working with those surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.

    BPD or BPD/NPD or BPD/Psychopath - You Are Never Going To Change A Borderline - End The Breakup Cycles

    BPD or BPD/NPD or BPD/Psychopath - You Are Never Going To Change A Borderline - End The Breakup Cycles

    How to achieve Surviving a BPD Relationship Breakup that is actually the end of therelationship and the breakup. How and why endless focus on is the Borderline only a Borderline or a BPD/NPD or a
    Borderline 'Psychopath' is meaningless because it keeps you stuck in the pain and
    agony of not focusing on yourself and your own healing and recovery journey to
    break free of the unhealthy bond and no longer need endless dramatic videos,
    misinformation and/or more and more about Cluster B that keeps you mired in the
    emotional muck of not getting to the surviving of an ended BPD Breakup so that you
    can go on to a new chapter in your life.

    Moving forward, after a formal in depth healing and recovery journey to be BPD relationship free and remain Cluster B Free!

    • 30 min
    Borderlines or Narcissists Do Not Cause Situational Narcissism in Codependents

    Borderlines or Narcissists Do Not Cause Situational Narcissism in Codependents

    Borderlines or narcissists do not cause or create situational (or "Temporary")
    Narcissism or "acquired narcissism" in people with Codependency. To suggest
    that this has any factual truth to it is to misinform people with
    Codependency. Codependency is still not that well understood for what
    it really is, means, and how people develop codepenency in childhood.
    It is extermely important not to fuse Codependency with BPD or NPD or the traits
    of because Codependency is its own painful mental health challenge. It is
    separate from BPD and NPD no matter how much has been hurt and loses more of
    self to a person with BPD or NPD.

    • 27 min
    Malignant Borderline as if Psychopathic vs BPD | 8 Traits & 4 C's of Differentiation

    Malignant Borderline as if Psychopathic vs BPD | 8 Traits & 4 C's of Differentiation

    Malignant Borderline is a meaningless term. An internet term not a clinical term.
    It is now being forwarded online as slippery language for (supposedly) co-morbid
    BPD/ASPD women. In this podcast I give you 8 traits of ASPD and the 4 C's that can
    help you differentiate a woman (or man) with ASPD from one with BPD.
    Less than 2% of all women diagnosed with BPD (according to all the
    research papers to date) fit this BPD/ASPD or "secondary psychopathy" ideological
    narrative forwarded from what remains pseudoscience.

    • 22 min
    Malignant Borderline "10 Signs" of BPD/ASPD Supposed Co-Morbidity Conflated with BPD

    Malignant Borderline "10 Signs" of BPD/ASPD Supposed Co-Morbidity Conflated with BPD

    A response and my understanding or this "psychopathy" or "secondary psychopathy"
    co-mingled with BPD and really not in a meaningful way. I responsd ro another
    Youtuber - a therapist - who essentially describes BPD as Malignant Borderline Females
    by describing BPD and not explaining well or at all the delineation between "Malignant
    Borderline" (which is meaningless) or BPD/ASPD (controversial) from Borderline
    Personality Disorder. Less than 2 % of all women diagnosed with BPD, according to
    researchers would be "malignant borderlines" = Co-morbid BPD/ASPD or even
    "secondary psychopaths".

    • 2 hrs 4 min
    BPD Breakup What is The BPD FINAL DISCARD? Go From Limbo To End Of Breakup Cycles

    BPD Breakup What is The BPD FINAL DISCARD? Go From Limbo To End Of Breakup Cycles

    BPD Breakup that doesn't seem to have an end in sight. What is the BPD Final
    Discard? Is there such a thing as a BPD final discard? How to go from
    this limbo place to ending BPD Breakup ghost and/or discard cycles.

    • 47 min
    Extrem Focus on BPD Ex Increases Distress Drives More Focus On Ex - Dangerous and Painful

    Extrem Focus on BPD Ex Increases Distress Drives More Focus On Ex - Dangerous and Painful

    For most people after being ghosted or discarded by a Borderline or Narcissist Ex
    rumination is central and very painful. For those also with Limerence this
    focus on the Ex can be even more intense. The intense focus on the Cluster B
    increases your pain and your increased pain will exacerbate the intensity of
    your focus on the Cluster B. This is agony, and dangerous emotionally and physically
    because it means that your mind and body are in a hyperfocused and hyperaroused state
    of flight/figh, freeze or fawn trauma response. Most people need professional help
    to learn how to cope more effectively and break the cycles of this unhealthy focus
    that can block your recovery.

    • 24 min

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