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Do you or your partner struggle with insecurities, doubts, and uncertainties in life? Are you easily overwhelmed and feel like you’ll never be able to overcome such feelings?
On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by entrepreneur, speaker, host, and husband Tom Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they explore why you are trapped in a cycle of insecurity and ways you can break out of it.
They discuss how a growth mindset leads to turning insecurities into strengths, why you have to own up to your insecurities, how understanding sexuality helps feeling less worried about it, how to let go of the things you can’t control, why you may need to re-prioritize what you value, why your insecurities aren’t sexy, and how to be clear with your partner so you know how to support each other.
[Original air date: 12-16-20].

SHOW NOTES:
Intro | Lisa opens today’s episode about dealing with your insecurities and uncertainties. [01:33]
Handle It | Tom shares why having a growth mindset is key early into a relationship. [2:49]
Own Up | Tom reveals how to identify your insecurities and share them with your partner. [6:20]
Identity | Tom reveals how to shift your mindset to deal with your insecurities. [9:30]
Sexuality | Tom shares the reasons behind why we find each other physically attractive. [12:15]
Value | Tom shares his insecurities and how he utilizes them as a strength andforce. [ 20:12]
Harmless | Tom reveals how men and women have to embrace their aging. [23:26]
It’s Not Sexy | Tom shares why wallowing in your insecurities isn’t sexy. [25:53]
Articulate | Tom reveals why you have to be tactful and clear with your partner. [29:39]

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Introducing Breaking News: A New Valentino Creative Director | PLUS Great Vogue Weddings and New Pop Music from The Run-Through with Vogue.
Follow the show: The Run-Through with Vogue

We start the show with breaking news about a new Creative Director at Valentino. Then Chloe and Chioma are joined by Vogue’s Alexandra Macon and Elise Taylor to talk about what makes a great Vogue Wedding. They talk about the most memorable weddings they’ve covered, from Serena Williams to Kourtney Kardashian and their wedding pet peeves (no donut walls, please). Plus, Vogue’s Liam Hess and José Criales-Unzueta discuss the albums they are anticipating this spring from Beyoncé’s “Cowboy Carter” to Dua Lipa’s “Radical Optimism.” This episode of The Run-Through is presented by Graff.

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You want to give the world to your partner. But you don´t have the money to do so? Sure, gifts such as roses, necklaces, or being able to fulfill financial dreams are beautiful things, but the best gift you can´t buy with money. What your partner really wants is not the world, but something else and probably not what you think. In this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down and share why money is not the most important thing in a relationship and how they managed the time in their lives when they had no money at all. Now you have the chance to learn easily what they had to learn with great difficulty to make their relationship last for over 20 years. After you watch this episode, you´ll know how Tom handled being in a bad financial situation when he first met Lisa. How Lisa reframed not having money, to find joy in the situation, and why getting rich will not solve your relationship problems and the one thing that makes all the difference. Furthermore, you´ll know what you can give instead of money which is way more powerful and much more. [Original air date: 3-5-21].

SHOW NOTES:
Why Tom thinks relationships have nothing to do with being financially free. [1:25]
How Tom handled being in a bad financial situation when he met Lisa.” [2:20]
Why being ashamed of your financial situation shouldn´t hold you back from love. [3:08]
How Lisa reframed not having money, to find joy in it. [3:42]
The only thing you should be ashamed of and two things you should never worry about. [4:10]
The most amazing gift we can have in our lives. [4:40]
Why getting rich will not solve your relationship problems and the one thing that makes all the difference. [5:03]
Why not having money doesn´t say anything about you. [5:23]
This is what you can give instead of money which is way more powerful. [5:41]

QUOTES:
“Until the day you´ll die you´re in the middle of your journey.” [1:27]
“I was actually excited at that time to be a part of that journey, I guess because we always had our sight set on the big goal.” [3:53]
“There are two things you should never ever worry about or be ashamed. One, the things you cannot change. Two, The things you can change.” [4:23]
“You´re not gonna get rich and say: “Now all my problems are solved.” [5:03]
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Welcome back to Women of Impact and a very special #NYBBS episode! This time around, Lisa Bilyeu is chatting with the amazing Dr. Mindy Pelz, and they’re digging into everything about women's health that often goes unspoken. From the rollercoaster of hormones during perimenopause and menopause to the sneaky ways stress messes with your body and relationships, they've got you covered. 
So, whether you're deep in the health struggle or just looking for ways to better manage stress, tune in and join Lisa and Dr. Mindy for some honest talk and real solutions. Let’s get into it and make some positive changes together! #NYBBS
Dr. Mindy Pelz is a respected expert on the long-term impact of stress on the body. Through her career, she has explored how continuous stressors, even those perceived as positive or exciting, can prevent the body from recognizing moments of safety and recovery.

SHOW NOTES
00:00 Monthly webpage offering discounts for women's health.
04:31 Create schedule "NYBBS" for body's relaxation cues.
08:00 Enjoy comedy shows, consider a walking desk.
13:06 Women skipping foundational healing for quick fixes.
16:16 Stress triggers primitive reaction, releases glucose instantly.
17:48 Combat stress with movement to regulate glucose.
21:38 Managing stress in perimenopausal years for loved ones.
23:58 Recognizing challenges women face, seeking solutions together.
28:59 Returning home, she must prioritize self-care.
30:14 Prioritize self-care after giving to others.
33:41 Emphasizing self-healing through understanding body rhythms.
37:29 Digestion slows on flights, avoid eating before. Drink bone broth for longer trips.
41:39 Beef sticks stabilize blood sugar, aid fasting.
43:24 Choose whole foods but have backup options.
47:59 Nature packed Brazil nuts with essential nutrients.
50:46 Encouraging participation, offering discounts, spreading health awareness.
52:48 Memoir discussing health journey, confidence and goals.

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Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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Welcome back to part 2 of this AMAZING conversation with my brother from another mother, Matthew Hussey!!
And if you thought part 1 was good, we were just getting started!! In part 2, Matt and I keep going deeper into how to find and attract the right partner for you without lowering your standards or being inauthentic.
We cover:

- The 4 levels of importance & why they are leading you to waste time investing on the WRONG guy

- How to avoid seeing everything as a red flag after heartbreak

- Why getting vulnerable and sharing your insecurities with your partner is SO important

- The importance of compassion and understanding in a relationship, but too much empathy can actually be dangerous

- The healing powers of the RIGHT relationship

- And so much more!! 


So don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Matthew Hussey. 
And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!

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If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu 

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It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another AMAAAAAZING episode of Women of Impact to help you stop wasting time with wrong guys (or gals) and break the cycle that has you stuck in the same broken patterns every single time!
In today’s episode I’m joined again by dating & relationship expert (and my long-time homie), Matthew Hussey. 
And today Matt is here to call out the bad relationship tips out there and instead give you a blueprint to ACTUALLY find love in your life and STOP doing the destructive things that are sending the WRONG message and keeping you in unhappy, and even toxic, relationships! 

In this episode, we’re diving into:

- The toxic dating advice out there that’s doing you more harm than good

- How your fear of being alone is keeping you trapped in unhealthy relationships

- Why what attracts a partner doesn’t always attract the RIGHT partner 

- Why you constantly invite bad people into your life & how you can break out of the cycle

- How your mind plays tricks on you when it comes to relationships & safety

- How to distinguish between expectations in a partner that will make you happy & those that just feed your ego


And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode!

So listen closely guys, this conversion with Matt is filled with SOOOOO many dating insights that you can use right away TODAY to make the small changes in your life that will actually make a big difference in your love life and help you find the right partner for you! 

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Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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Visit http://betterhelp.com/WOMEN today to get 10% off your first month.
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Click the link below or head over to https://cozyearth.com and use promo code LISA to save an exclusive 35% off.
Post your job for free at https://LinkedIn.com/LISA.
your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa.
Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today!
PRE-ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE" 

(NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon

***CALLING ALL BADASSES!***
If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! 

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