No, The LGBTQIA+ Community Isn’t Going to Burn in Hell For Eternity (or at all, for that matter)(with Susan Cottrell‪)‬ Lesbi-Honest: Candid Convos With Later-in-Life Lesbians

💡 Speaker bios
Susan Cottrell and her husband were deeply involved in the evangelical church for 20 years, finding a sense of community and family within it. However, their perspective changed when two of their five children came out as queer. This prompted a re-examination of their beliefs, as one of their children expressed that they had tried to resist their identity but ultimately realized they could not deny who they were. This experience led Susan to become an advocate for the LGBTQ+ community within religious spaces, and she has since dedicated herself to supporting and affirming queer individuals within faith communities.
ℹ️ Introduction
Welcome to "Lesbi-Honest," where we dive into the stories and experiences of the LGBTQ community and those who advocate for their rights and acceptance. In this episode, we are joined by the inspiring Susan Cottrell, founder of Freehearts, an organization dedicated to helping families accept and support their LGBTQ children. Susan shares her powerful journey of questioning traditional religious teachings and finding a new path of embracing love and acceptance. She challenges the notion that God wants parents to reject their LGBTQ children and urges them to seek a community that aligns with unconditional love. From discussing the concept of hell as a metaphor to unpacking the church's resistance to change, Susan offers profound insights and encouragement. Join us as we explore her wisdom and experience, and embrace the message of love and inclusion.
❇️ Key topics and bullets
Primary Topic: Susan Cottrell's Work with Freehearts
- Susan Cottrell's encouragement for parents to accept their LGBTQ children
- The challenge against the idea that God wants parents to reject their LGBTQ children
- The importance of separating God from the church's teachings
- The advice for parents to seek a new community that embraces acceptance and love
- Understanding LGBTQ issues through the Freedhearts community
Primary Topic: Susan Cottrell's Personal Journey and Freehearts Organization
- Susan and her husband's experience in the evangelical church
- Founding Freehearts as a blog and expanding it to include resources, online groups, and a podcast
- Susan's ongoing work on a book about deconstruction and reconstructing faith
Primary Topic: Concept of Hell and the Church's Teachings
- The absence of the concept of hell in the Jewish Bible
- Hell as a pagan belief introduced between the Old and New Testaments
- Criticism of the traditional teaching that humans are inherently sinful and wretched
Primary Topic: Jesus' Teachings and the Church's Responsibility
- Jesus' deconstruction of empires and his focus on valuing regular people
- Jesus' criticism of religious leaders in the Bible
- The church's teaching of contempt against LGBTQ individuals, contrary to Jesus' teachings
Primary Topic: The Future of the Church Regarding LGBTQ Issues
- The potential trend towards affirmation for LGBTQ individuals within the church
- Resistance to change within the church due to reluctance to admit wrong
Primary Topic: Interpretation of Hell in the Bible
- The interpretation of hell as metaphorical rather than a literal place of torment
- The belief that the idea of a punishing God goes against the essence of God's love and the freedom of humanity
Primary Topic: Encouragement and Reassurance
- Reassurance to the queer community that feelings of rejection, inadequacy, and unworthiness are not from God
- The encouragement to trust in the God that loves them
- The emphasis to rely less on the religious community that tells them God doesn't
Primary Topic: Conclusion
- Sarah St John's appreciation for Susan's time and her thanks for reaching out
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