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An ongoing series of Executive Coaching Tips designed to help you be perceived in the workplace the way you want to be perceived.

The Look & Sound of Leadership Essential Communications - Tom Henschel

    • Management

An ongoing series of Executive Coaching Tips designed to help you be perceived in the workplace the way you want to be perceived.

    Thinking Errors

    Thinking Errors

    This month’s coaching conversation examines phrases we use that lead us into self-deception. Tom and his client explore why thinking errors so often remain invisible and, once revealed, what other words might be possible substitutions.
    SHOW NOTES:
    Tom mentions two books in this episode:
    “How To Raise Your Self-Esteem” by Nathaniel Branden
    https://www.amazon.com/Raise-Your-Self-Esteem-Action-Oriented-Self-Confidence/dp/0553266462/
    “The Four Agreement” by Don Miguel Ruiz
    https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319
    Related Tips & Episodes
    Don’t Take Anything Personally Self-Awareness & Self-Management Self-Limiting Beliefs Smoothing Harsh Edges Three Words You Should Never Say  
    This Tip is in five categories in the archive:
    For Women, Managing Yourself, Perception - How You Perceive Yourself, Personal Growth & Self-Development, Self-Talk  
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    From all of us, thanks!
    See you next month!

    • 21 min
    Don’t Take Anything Personally

    Don’t Take Anything Personally

    This month’s coaching conversation wrestles with the eternal struggle to depersonalize the events in our lives that feel so personal. Is it even possible to actualize the adage, “Don’t take it personally?”
    Tom mentions two books that can help you manage yourself so you don’t take things personally:
    The Four Agreements
    Six Pillars of Self-Esteem
     
    In the archive, this Tip is in five categories:
    Managing Yourself
    Perception – How You Perceive Yourself
    Perception – How You Perceive Others
    Personal Growth & Self-Development
    Self-Talk
    Five related Coaching Tips you can listen to are
    Acting on the Corporate Stage
    Animating Your Persona
    Don’t Take It Personally
    Self-Limiting Beliefs
    Taming the Wild Child
    Lots to browse through!
     
    The archive is at: https://essentialcomm.com/podcast/
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    From everyone at “The Look & Sound of Leadership,” thanks!
    See you next month!

    • 19 min
    Boundaries

    Boundaries

    This month’s coaching conversation explores how hard it can be to say ‘no’ sometimes. Together, Tom and his client come up with four strategies for setting better boundaries.This month’s coaching conversation explores how hard it can be to say ‘no’ sometimes. Together, Tom and his client come up with four strategies for setting better boundaries.

    Tom mentions three books that will help you speak up and set boundaries: 

    Crucial Conversations
    https://www.amazon.com/Crucial-Conversations-Talking-Stakes-Second/dp/0071771328/

    The Four Agreements
    https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Toltec-Wisdom-Collection/dp/1878424580/

    Leadership and Self-Deception
    https://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Self-Deception-Getting-Out-Box/dp/1523097809/

    If you want to receive a zip file with Executive Coaching Tips related to assertiveness, reach out to Tom at: info@essentialcomm.com
    This Tip is in four categories in the archive:
    Developing New Behaviors
    Personal Growth & Self-Development
    Self-Talk
    For Women

    Lots to browse through!

    Five related Coaching Tips you can listen to are

    Act “As If”
    The Executive Impostor
    The Many Parts of You
    Taming the Wild Child
    Self-Awareness & Self-Management
    The archive is at: https://essentialcomm.com/podcast/
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    From everyone at “The Look & Sound of Leadership,” thanks!
    See you next month!
     

    • 17 min
    Agreeable Disagreement

    Agreeable Disagreement

    This month’s coaching conversation follows an executive’s journey from a bulldozer, rolling over people and their ideas, to a thoughtful seeker of ways to get his ideas heard while also building positive relationships.
    Related episodes are:
    Assertion versus Aggression
    Be Impeccable With Your Word
    Disagree Agreeably – yes, that was an episode long ago!
    Don’t Take It Personally
    The Conflict Conversation
    Sorting & Labeling
    This Tip is in four categories in the archive:
    Communication Skills
    Executive Presence
    For Women
    Relationship Building
    The archive is at:
    https://essentialcomm.com/podcast/
    Get the HTML transcript:
    https://essentialcomm.com/subscribe/
    Be in touch with Tom at:
    https://essentialcomm.com/contact/
    From all of us, thanks!
    See you next month!

    • 17 min
    Video Feedback & Executive Presence

    Video Feedback & Executive Presence

     
    This month’s coaching conversation centers on learning how to watch yourself on video. It might be uncomfortable at times, but the benefits are enormous.
    During the commentary, Tom talks about a checklist for you. It’s here.
    direct link: https://essentialcomm.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/Video-Review-Checklist.pdf
    Related episodes are
    Captivate Your Audience
    Executive Presenting
    “I Talk Too Fast!”
    Performing Like a TED Talker
    The Power of Rehearsal

    This Tip is in these categories in the archive:
    Executive Presence
    Feedback
    Presentation Skills
    Perception – How You Perceive Yourself

    The archive is at:
    https://essentialcomm.com/podcast/
    Get the HTML transcript:
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    Tom is at:
    info@essentialcomm.com
    From all of us here, thanks!
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    • 17 min
    The Talky Executive

    The Talky Executive

    This month’s coaching conversation wrestles with the obstacles that arise when you try listening to people who think out loud – often at great length!
    Related episodes are:
    Sorting & Labeling
    A Breakdown of Listening
    Leadership & Listening
    Short Sounds Confident
    In the archive, this Tip is tagged in four categories
    Communication Skills
    Leadership
    Relationship Building
    Social Skills
    The archive of Executive Coaching Tips is available at:
    https://essentialcomm.com/podcast/
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    From all of us on “The Look & Sound of Leadership” team — thanks!

    • 16 min

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