Unscripted With Sinmi Williams Sinmi Williams

Hi y’all! It’s been a while here. Life has been lifing and I’ve been through it!!! Thankfully, I’m getting back in the groove and have ceased waiting for my life to be perfect before showing up here again. I intend to be consistent this time around as God would be helping me. Thank you so much for always sticking around. Love ya!

You meet someone new and happily date for a little while. The connection is great and there is chemistry, You start spending more and more time together and begin considering becoming a couple.

But then, you stop replying to their texts right away. You cancel dates. You avoid talking about taking things to the next level. Your partner expresses frustration, disappointment, or even anger about your behavior. Not long after, the partner breaks up the relationship.

Does this sound like something that happens to you? If so, you might be self-sabotaging your relationships. Listen to this podcast to find out why you sabotage your relationships.

Our brains get shaped by experiences that mold us into who we are as adults and the patterns we follow. It becomes our comfort zone. We feel safe in what we know and what we can expect from the world.
We learn the unknown is to be feared and avoided.
We are protected by our limiting beliefs out of fear of reaching our full potential. We allow uncertainty about what could go wrong to determine how far we can go. Wasting time worrying about the outcome instead of following our intuition and leaning into fear, exploring what could be. If you want to find out why you may not get the life of your dreams, listen to this podcast.

Dating scene in Nigeria is kind of unique. And that's because it involves Money. Evidently, our women are completely obsessed with rich men; and would never look in the direction of whoever they consider broke. It is a common norm in Nigeria that running and maintaining the family is the sole duty of the man of the house while she is only a supporter. It is also quite common to hear men complaining that Nigerian women are too materialistic.

Is this truly a case of materialism or females are merely acting according to their inherent makeup? I got a guy to weigh in on the topic to give his perspective on the issue and it was littt!!! Trust me, you want to listen to this!

Whether you’ve been together for one month or one year, there will likely come a time when you want to take your relationship to the next level. And there’s no better way to do so than by asking your partner questions — especially ones of the deep and personal variety. It might feel uncomfortable to have a meaningful heart-to-heart but asking questions is a good way to figure out if you’re actually compatible, beyond any “honeymoon phase” feelings of love. It's totally a given, but if you want to develop a deep connection with someone, you’ll need to know a lot more about them than their likes, dislikes, and hobbies.


If you're at a loss as to where to begin, or you and your partner consistently butt heads; leading to unnecessary friction, you should totally listen to this podcast!!

Disagreements happen in all relationships, but what matters is how they are dealt with. The way you deal with an issue with your partner can determine if your relationship is healthy or unhealthy, so here are some tips to keep in mind that will help you handle your next argument in a healthy way.