You Are Heroic with Brian Johnson

Brian Johnson

The best big ideas from life-changing books, plus the tools to live them. Brian Johnson helps you move from Theory to Practice to Mastery and flourish in Energy, Work, and Love. More wisdom in less time so you can activate your best, every day. More at heroic.us

  1. 10 hr ago

    PNTV: Raise the Player, Not the Pressure by Brandon Guyer

    🚀 Start your FREE 7-day trial of Heroic OS: → https://go.heroic.us/heroic-os-app   👇 Get the Notes on Raise the Player, Not the Pressure by Brandon Guyer for FREE to follow along: → https://go.heroic.us/raise-the-player-not-the-pressure   In this episode of Philosopher's Notes TV, Brian is back at the chalkboard to unpack the ultimate parent-and-coach playbook for raising confident, resilient young athletes. We invite you into the virtual classroom to look inside the Philosopher's Note on Raise the Player, Not the Pressure by Brian's dear friend and former MLB player Brandon Guyer. Subtitled The Parent and Coach Playbook for Confident, Happy Athletes, this tiny-but-mighty book is packed with hard-won wisdom from Brandon's career as a pro ballplayer (and current mental toughness coach for the University of Virginia, formerly with the LA Angels) on how to help our kids fall in love with competition instead of fearing it. If you're ready to trade pressure for presence and help your young athlete become a winner on and off the field, this episode is your roadmap!   Grab a copy of the book on Amazon here: → https://amzn.to/4pLyt5Y   ⏱️ Chapters: 0:00 — Cold Open: You Can't Make Winning the Focus 0:40 — Introduction: Raise the Player, Not the Pressure 2:39 — Idea 1: Win the Ultimate Game (Marcus Freeman & Becoming the Best "You") 6:37 — Idea 2: The Fun Factor (Why Kids Really Play, and Magnus Carlsen) 9:01 — Idea 3: The Pressure Paradox (Be a Signal, Not a Source of Stress) 11:03 — Idea 4: The Before, During & After Playbook (Trust Yourself, I Love You, I Love Watching You Compete) 19:31 — Idea 5: Win or Learn (Building Antifragile Confidence) 25:30 — Summary & Plus One: Moving from Theory to Practice to Mastery   🧠 Deep Dive: The Core Concepts Win the Ultimate Game: You can't make winning the focus, you have to make becoming a winner the focus. Brian shares the story of helping Notre Dame's Marcus Freeman and his team win the ultimate game: becoming the best version of themselves, on and off the field. Character equals fate, so teach the cardinal virtues first, and the other wins tend to follow. The Before, During & After Playbook: Brandon's simple three-phase framework turns any competition into a chance to build trust and connection. Before: two words, "trust yourself." During: be a calm, loving signal so your kid knows they're safe no matter how they're playing. After: lead with "I love watching you compete," not a breakdown of their performance. Safety comes before analysis, every time.

    PNTV: Raise the Player, Not the Pressure by Brandon Guyer
  2. 5 days ago

    PNTV: The Daily Dad by Ryan Holiday

    🚀 Start your FREE 7-day trial of Heroic OS: → https://go.heroic.us/heroic-os-app   👇 Get my Notes on The Daily Dad by Ryan Holiday for FREE to follow along: → https://go.heroic.us/the-daily-dad   In this episode of Philosopher's Notes TV, Brian is back at the chalkboard to unpack the ultimate daily playbook for fatherhood, family, and intentional parenting. We invite you into the virtual classroom to look inside the Philosopher's Note on The Daily Dad by Ryan Holiday. Subtitled 366 Meditations on Parenting, Love, and Raising Great Kids, this book is an extraordinary deep dive into becoming the best version of yourself for the people who matter most. Written with Ryan's trademark Stoic intensity, it delivers a direct kick in the butt for fathers (and mothers!) looking to lead their families with character, discipline, and presence. If you are ready to stop giving lip service to your values and start modeling the exact behaviors you want your children to inherit, this episode is your roadmap! If you are ready to quit making excuses, step out of your comfort zone, and go all-in on showing up for your kids, this episode is your roadmap!   Grab a copy of the book on Amazon here: → https://amzn.to/4yJ6FTF   ⏱️ Chapters: 0:00 — Introduction: Meditations on Parenting, Love, and Raising Great Kids 1:53 — Idea 1: Teach by Example (A Little Fellow Is Watching You) 4:48 — Idea 2: Character Equals Fate (Embodying the Cardinal Virtues) 8:30 — Idea 3: Always Be a Fan (Jimmy V & "My Bags Are Packed") 12:27 — Idea 4: Struggling & Enduring (Saying "Good" Jocko-Style to Life's Setbacks) 14:44 — Idea 5: Time Flies (Tempus Fugit & 18 Summers) 18:22 — Summary & Plus One: Moving from Theory to Practice to Mastery   🧠 Deep Dive: The Core Concepts Teach by Example: Your children will listen to some of what you say, but they will watch all of what you do. As Ralph Waldo Emerson famously put it, "Who you are speaks so loudly, I cannot hear what you say." Whether it's your walk, your tone, or your daily habits, your kids are constantly mirroring you. Being worthy of your children's imitation is the single greatest challenge—and commitment—of a parent's life. Always Be a Fan ("My Bags Are Packed"): Ryan shares the powerful story of legendary basketball coach Jimmy Valvano, whose dad packed his bags for the national championship when Jimmy was just a little kid dreaming out loud. Believing in your kids means being their biggest cheerleader, helping them clarify what they want, and using their personal goals to teach them foundational life skills like nutrition, movement, sleep, and focus.

    PNTV: The Daily Dad by Ryan Holiday

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The best big ideas from life-changing books, plus the tools to live them. Brian Johnson helps you move from Theory to Practice to Mastery and flourish in Energy, Work, and Love. More wisdom in less time so you can activate your best, every day. More at heroic.us

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