51 episodes

Welcome to Chatting to a Friend. In this podcast I am chatting to incredible women from all walks of life about friendship, community, self care, adventure, sex, grief, boundaries and asking them how they look after themselves, how they manage their mental health and what drives them. It’s an enormous privilege to have the time and opportunity to learn from some truly remarkable women. I hope you enjoy it.

Chatting to a Friend Catie Friend

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 4 Ratings

Welcome to Chatting to a Friend. In this podcast I am chatting to incredible women from all walks of life about friendship, community, self care, adventure, sex, grief, boundaries and asking them how they look after themselves, how they manage their mental health and what drives them. It’s an enormous privilege to have the time and opportunity to learn from some truly remarkable women. I hope you enjoy it.

    Chatting to Frankie Dewar about podcasting, being a young carer and how to protect yourself when your job is linked to your identity

    Chatting to Frankie Dewar about podcasting, being a young carer and how to protect yourself when your job is linked to your identity

    Freelance Social Media goto and lover of big days outside, Frankie Dewar is a climber, hiker, skier and general fun seeker Frankie has cycled 3,000km around the UK to interview people older than herself about the outdoors to show that you don't have to "do it whilst you're young".

    In this conversation, we cover everything from how the podcast came about to how she coped as a young carer to her mum and how she burst into her 20s tyring to make up for time “lost” during her childhood. How envy can be a powerful motivator, musing over what “being enough” means, how to manage when the work you do is so closely aligned with your own identity and how to support a loved one on a journey, both physical and spiritual.

    https://www.frankiedewar.co/ https://www.instagram.com/frankie_dewar/ https://www.tiktok.com/@frankiedewarcreative https://www.linkedin.com/in/frankie-dewar/

    Chatting to Lucy Bartholomew about ultra distance running, a sustainable healthy body and what is your "why"

    Chatting to Lucy Bartholomew about ultra distance running, a sustainable healthy body and what is your "why"

    Running began for Lucy when she was 15 years old as a way to spend time with her Dad. When he decided to run a 100km race through the blue mountains 5 years ago she trained alongside him for every step of the way. On race day, she ran from place to place to see him and accidentally ran her first ultra. Then she decided that she wanted to complete a race of this distance and ran side by side with her Dad for 100Km, finishing in 12:36:00 and smiling. She was in love, not only with the physical and mental side of performing the art of ultra-running but the community and the environments it took her to.
    The following year she entered this race again and ran solo finishing in a time of 9:30:00 to place her second female and suddenly she had emerged into this sport with potential. She then wanted to keep pushing the limits and so competed in a 6-day multi-stage race in the Simpson Desert in Australia finishing 2nd female and 2nd overall.
    Fast forward a few years and in 2014 she ran as part of the Australian/New Zealand Skyrunning team in Chamonix, France winning the junior division of the Mont Blanc Marathon to become the junior world family Skyrunning champion. She then competed in the Ultra distance world championships of 85kms where she won the junior category to become the world ultra-junior trail running champion.
    A second place in the 2018 Western States race catapulted her into the public eye but when she lined up again in the same race a year later, after a reassessment of her diet, lifestyle and health, her body shape had changed and that same public demanded to know why she was no longer the same runner.
    This led to a recaculating of what was important, what she loved and a chance to take it back to basics and remembering the “why”.
    This conversation covers everything from her start in running, her relationship with her parents, her body and her sport.
    We discuss at length her movie “Running Out”, where she ran the 231km Larapinta Trail in the Autralian Outback and the extreme challenge that presented as well as where is “the line” when it comes to pushing your body. I cannot recommend the movie enough!
    Lucy is a bright, bubbly spark of joy and inspiration and I loved chatting to her.
    IG: @lucy_bartholomew
    https://www.lucybartholomew.com/
    http://www.runningoutmovie.com/

    Chatting to Victoria Evans before she sets off to row solo across the Atlantic and about equality for women in sport

    Chatting to Victoria Evans before she sets off to row solo across the Atlantic and about equality for women in sport

    At the time of the episode release (January 2022) Victoria Evans is about to depart in February to become the 8th British woman to solo row the Atlantic Ocean. Setting off from Tenerife, she will row 3000 miles over the course of nearly two months to reach Port St Charles in Barbados.
    It’s a challenge that’s been 3 years in the making, with Victoria forced to postpone last minute at the start of 2021 due to COVID restrictions . It’s an endeavour she’s undertaking to raise awareness about, and money for, UK Charity ‘Women in Sport’.
    A sports lawyer herself, she didn’t start being active until her late twenties when she moved to Switzerland for work. Access to the transformational benefit of sport for all women and girls is a cause that she’s passionate about on both a personal and professional level.
    We talk about her awakening into sport, equality for women in sport, how the culture needs to change, why she decided to do this row and how she got into sport relatively late in life and how much benefit she has gained from it.
    Finally, we talk about the row and what she hopes to get out of it.
    Part two will be after her row is completed and we’ll get to hear how the dream compared to the reality.
    I didn’t ask her for a #challengecatie but I will when she gets back!
    IG: @seachangesport www.seachangesport.com

    Chatting to Monika Sattler about cycling the Vuelta and being brave enough to make your own decisions despite what others may think

    Chatting to Monika Sattler about cycling the Vuelta and being brave enough to make your own decisions despite what others may think

    Originally from Germany, Monika moved after high school to the US to play volleyball for a university team. After an uncomfortable start at one college, she graduated from another with a summa cum laude and was accepted with a full scholarship to the School of Foreign Service at Georgetown University. After graduation, she worked for the International Monetary Fund and the World Bank.
    But she felt there was an inner urge that there was more than settling for a job she was not completely passionate about.
    So she quit that career-aspiring job with the World Bank and went to pursue her dream to become a professional cyclist while going for a Sports degree at the University of Minnesota.
    But during this time, she realized that professional cycling is not what she wanted and she had trouble finding a suitable career in sports.
    To return on the “right career track”, she applied to any job everywhere and got accepted to a prestigious consulting firm as IT management consultant. She worked first in Switzerland and then Australia.
    But while now financially secure and on the path she was supposed to be on, the very same urge as two years earlier emerged in her wanting more from life.
    She studied the world map looking for that place she would love to live. She packed her bike and flew with a one-way ticket to Malaga, Spain, where she decided to become the first woman to cycle the entire three-week long Vuelta de Espana just hours before the all male professionals did it.
    It was a decisive moment of whether to stay in her comfort zone or to take a huge leap outside of it and face her fears of failure and pursuing something that seemed beyond her limits.
    We talk diversity, decisions and doubts. How to make your own goals, leaving out the opinions and fears of others and how to accept when a decision you made is not serving you anymore.
     
    I encourage you to take on the #challengecatie with me. It’s really quite an exciting one that involves nothing more extreme than sitting with a pen and paper and facing your lifetime of decision making.
    Watch Monika’s TEDx talk here.
    www.monikasattler.com
    IG: @rad_monika

    Chatting to Dot Bekker about leaving her marriage at 58 and driving solo 20,000km from Europe home to Zimbabwe

    Chatting to Dot Bekker about leaving her marriage at 58 and driving solo 20,000km from Europe home to Zimbabwe

    Chatting to Tracie May about being an artist, a Guinness World record holding speed skier and a breast cancer survivor

    Chatting to Tracie May about being an artist, a Guinness World record holding speed skier and a breast cancer survivor

    Born and raised in NY, Tracie May grew up being influenced by artist’s work she had the opportunity to encounter as a child. From Picasso’s Guernica to Basquiat, and the Egyptian exhibits of King Tutankhamun at the Met to Salvador Dali, and contemporary artists of the Whitney Biennial, she was exposed to a wide variety of creative geniuses starting at an early age.
     
    Tracie knew as a child that she would become an artist with skills in multiple media.
    Upon graduating high school on Long Island, she left NY and found herself at Washington University in Saint Lewis. She graduated with honors and a BFA, and was also coxswain for her varsity crew team.  That allowed her to combine her love of sports and art. Then she moved on to graduate school at Cranbrook Academy of Art in Michigan where she earned her MFA with a concentration in sculpture.
     
    Her breadth of knowledge in contemporary art and her skills in all media including video, photography, installation, sculpture, metals, jewelry, glass blowing, sewing, construction, painting and more, quickly won Tracie an Artist in Residence award at the Cité International des Art in Paris, France.
     
    From there, she moved back to NY full of ideas and motivation. It was during this time that Tracie rented a large loft in the now famous Chelsea region of NYC. She was able to create an artist’s collective in which she and fellow artisans could exhibit their work and create without the pressure of the gallery mindset.
     
    She began revisiting her fondness for athletics and started ski racing again in upstate NY. She was quickly recognized for her prowess in speed while racing with her sister and was invited to the national speed ski championships in Colorado, where she placed 3rd in her first race. She was hooked and didn’t want to take a complete break from art while she pursued a speed ski career, so she found work at some of New York City’s finest museums. Working as a freelance metalsmith for the Guggenheim, American Museum of Natural History and the Brooklyn Museum to name a few, enabled her to simultaneously pursue an athletic career in speed skiing.
     
    Tracie found her job as a freelance mount maker at the Guggenheim the most satisfying of all the museums she worked at. This creative environment was just what she needed in the downtime of her athletic career, which was skyrocketing quickly for her to become the best in the world. During 14 years of hard work at the Guggenheim, Tracie also became a 5 time World Cup Champion, Pro world Champion, FIS World Champion and American Women’s record holder with a speed of 238.57 km/ hour or 148.57 mph. That is a record that has held since 2006, astonishingly over a decade.
     
    This achievement was recognized in 2018 when she was inducted into the Jewish Sports Hall of Fame. Recently she was nominated as one of 6 ahtletes for the US national Ski Hall of fame.
     
    While Tracie is now retired from competitive Speed Skiing, she is still connected to the sport as a ski instructor in the Swiss Alps and a ski technician for her husband who still races.
     
    She is currently getting her studio back in shape after a cancer diagnosis in 2019. She has been fighting hard and has finished her radiation treatments. She is relieved to have that segment of her cancer journey completed and knows she will have to fight more. She feels this will only give her more ammunition to be creative and continue to create artwork to share with the world. Her specialty and true love is still silver-smithing and jewelry.
     
    IG:                               @swissbijou
    Jewellery website:      http://www.jewelrybytracie.com/home/
    Speedski website:       http://www.quickchick.com

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Annabel Abbs

Lovely chat with Annabel Abbs. I’m reading *Windswept* now with an online bookclub. And plan on reading *Miss Eliza’s English Kitchen* when it’s released in the USA soon. I’m a day hiker and a foodie.

Delia Folk ,

Love the topics!

Thanks to Catie for featuring such great guests & conversations :)

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Chattingtoafriend has become my favourite go-to Podcast during my commute to and from work.

Catie has clearly researched her subjects exceptionally well. Her questions are direct, sincere, interesting and on-point. Her subjects all come across well and are clearly at ease and therefore open and forthcoming with their thoughts, feelings and experiences. Catie has also chosen her interview subjects well because they truly are an inspiring cross section of women from all walks of life.

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