Understanding Men’s Vulnerabilities with Jed Diamond On This Walk

In our pursuit of a healthier and happier society, it is vital that we recognize the often-overlooked struggles faced by men concerning their emotional well-being. Despite living in a world brimming with technology and constant communication, an alarming number of men silently battle feelings of loneliness and disconnection. It's a subject that deserves our attention, empathy, and understanding. 
This week on "On This Walk," my walking partner is Jed Diamond, founder of Men Alive. We discuss men's health and well-being, particularly the issue of male loneliness and the importance of connection.
Jed shares his personal experiences and journey to becoming a hands-on father and promoting healthy fatherhood. We explore the concept of the shadow self, the need for balance between outer success and inner fulfillment, and the historical context of male-female relationships. We also discuss personal responsibility, the role of men's groups in fostering connection, and Jed's work with Men Alive and the Moonshot for Mankind project.

In This Episode

(03:18) Jed’s journey to becoming a hands-on father

(11:18) The dichotomy between success and connection.

(14:14) The historical perspective on male and female roles

(21:33) The tendency to project our own unresolved pain and wounds onto others

(24:05) The need for a new paradigm to understand disconnection, trauma, and healing

(26:05) The importance of personal change and self-reflection in addressing societal issues

(33:28) Recognizing and addressing male loneliness as a fundamental need for connection

(33:28) Reconnecting to aliveness and purpose: Advice for men seeking fulfillment and overcoming loneliness.

(36:28) Men's historical need for connection and the importance of male companionship and support.

(43:13) The concept of a new paradigm shift and its potential impact on creating positive systems for mankind and humanity.

(47:06) Jed's work with Men Alive and the Moonshot for Mankind project


Notable Quote
“Our sons and our daughters are not saying, ‘Dad, I wish you would be more successful and spend more time away and make more money. They want your presence. And so my journey, what I've been teaching and writing about is to help men and the women who love them, the families that are connected, to find the way to be a full, complete whole man, which for me includes being successful in the outer world and making a good living and doing something that we believe in, but also being able to be a hands-on dad and a hands-on husband and a hands-on mate, and a hands-on person that is present to himself and other people.” – Jed (12:07)

Our Guest
Jed Diamond is a prominent expert in gender-specific healing and men's health, with 17 books to his name, including bestsellers The Irritable Male Syndrome and Surviving Male Menopause. He holds a Ph.D. in International Health and has practiced psychotherapy for over 50 years. Together with his wife, Carlin, they have five children, 17 grandchildren, and 2 great-grandchildren. For more information, visit http://www.MenAlive.com.

Resources & Links
On This Walk

https://www.facebook.com/dlukeiorio

https://www.linkedin.com/in/lukeiorio/

https://instagram.com/dlukeiorio

https://instagram.com/onthiswalkshow

https://www.onthiswalk.com/alignment


Jed Diamond

https://menalive.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jed-diamond-a1580b/

https://twitter.com/menalivenow

https://www.facebook.com/MenAliveNow/

https://menalive.com/about/my-moonshot-mission/


Mentioned
12 Rules for Good Men- https://www.amazon.com/Rules-Good-Men-Jed-Diamond-ebook/dp/B07Z1FBG74