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【聊了什么The What】

戛纳电影节第四天，《疲惫娇娃》的一芳和《赶场 Way To Cinemas》播客的Selina在戛纳电影宫的天台坐了下来录制本期特辑节目，聊聊戛纳体验和目前看过的电影。

谢谢豆瓣对本期播客的支持，现在豆瓣也可以听播客啦！

剪辑和时间轴：陆小鸟，汤包（赶场）

主播：Selina（小红书 About Cannons）赶场 Way To Cinemas，一芳《疲惫娇娃 CyberPink》

On the fourth day of the 77th Cannes Film Festival, Yifang and Selina (host of Way To Cinemas) sat down to record this special episode, talking about their experience with the festival and the films they’ve seen so far. Thanks to douban.com for their support, you can now find our podcast on Douban.

【时间轴 The When】

00:45 好开心，竟然与《疲惫娇娃》联动上啦！

01:13 第一次来戛纳的一芳

03:07 开幕片《第二幕》

04:14 《原钻》（野性钻石）

06:08 《拿针的女孩》

08:08 《鸟》

09:12 《折射》

10:26 《一部未完成的电影》（本期内容不多，未来会再聊）

12:28 《大都会》“当一个男导演花太多时间去思考罗马帝国，就会拍出来这样一部电影”

14:42 《噢，加拿大》“他的故事，他的人生，他的一切，我根本就不想知道”

16:49 《善良的种类》

24:51 《狗镇》

26:51 《风流一代》

00:45 "Way to Cinemas" is excited to be collaborating with "Cyberpink"

01:13 Yifang's first time at Cannes

03:07 Opening Film: "The Second Act" by Quentin Dupieux

04:14 "Wild Diamond" by Agathe Riedinger

06:08 "The Girl with the Needle" by Magnus von Horn

08:08 《鸟》"Bird" by Andrea Arnold

09:12 《折射》Ljósbrot (When the Light Breaks) by Rúnar Rúnarsson

10:26 "An Unfinished Film"

12:28 "Megalopolis" by Francis Ford Coppola, "this is what happens when a male director spends too much time thinking about the Roman empire"

14:42 "Oh Canada" by Paul Schrader, "I could care less about the protagonist's story, his life, his everything"

16:49 "Kind of Kindness" by Yorgos Lanthimos

24:51 "Black Dog" by Guan Hu

26:51 "Caught in the Tides" by Jia Zhang-Ke

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正文： 这是"疲惫娇娃Wife三部曲"的第一部，我们想聊聊近年来在社交媒体上备受关注的"Trad wife" (传统妻子) 现象。

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疲惫娇娃的几个娃将分析Trad wife在当代互联网上的细分门类（到底有多少种trad wife想卖给我们货???!!!)，以及不同年龄段受众人群的特点，以及这一兼具审美与意识形态内核的复杂现象。

Today we want to dive into the deep internet rabbit hole of "Trad Wife" -- short for traditional wife, this social media phenomenon has taken the world by storm, and we want to unpack it all.

To talk about trad wives, we first have to time travel back to the emergence of the American suburb in the post-war 1950s, the image of the white-picket-fence home, the nuclear family, and the blonde, ruby-lipped housewife that's imbued with class and political undertones. This visually evocative image has resurfaced in recent years on social media, sparking a discussion on the deeper socioeconomic and political undertones of the trad wife revival.

In this episode, we unpack how the trad wife trend is not merely an aesthetic style but also an ideological core with a religious and politically conservative undertone. The rise of this online movement has collided with contemporary feminism, reflecting the challenges women face on various fronts, including balancing family and work, surviving the pandemic, participating in the economy, as well as their naïve embrace of tradition as a means of emancipation.

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【时间轴 The When】

0:00 “美国娇妻” trad wife是一种寄居在社交媒体和年轻人头脑中的意识形态

3:23 市面上有哪些不同的trad wife？

06:00 大人糖产品部分

14:44 社交媒体上的娇妻生活为什么有如此大的吸引力？娇妻生活的美学对

【聊了什么The What】

等等，先别划走。就算你对篮球的知识仅限于篮球是圆的，这可能依旧是一期有趣的播客。

体育从来都不止关于体育，竞技体育从来都是流行文化的塑造者也被时代的思潮所塑造。如果你也关注美国竞技体育，尤其是篮球，很难不感受到一个巨大的女子篮球浪潮正在袭来。谁能想到从2019年至今，电视观看人数最高的篮球比赛是大学女篮的总决赛？1870万人次的观看数字远远超越了过去几年NBA的总决赛（丹福掘金对不起），也在互联网上掀起了讨论的热潮。

女子篮球的崛起也与诸多社会议题息息相关。我们与The Athletic的小帆和布鲁克林篮网的思齐一起，聊了聊那些隐藏在数字和赛事之后备受关注的问题：女篮突破了哪些障碍才走到了今天这一步？是什么因素促成了这场变革？我们能从中窥见哪些值得关注的趋势？

Sports have never been merely about the games themselves; they shape the popular culture we engage with, from fashion to music, reflecting the cultural zeitgeist. Those who have been closely following American sports will have noticed the surging popularity of women's college basketball and its standout stars—Caitlin Clark, Angel Reese, Paige Bueckers, Kamilla Cardoso, and many others. Remarkably, the 2024 NCAA Women's Basketball Championship was the most-watched basketball game on television since 2019, attracting a staggering 18.7 million viewers. This viewership even surpassed last year's NBA Finals (sorry, Nuggets), sparking widespread discussion both online and offline.

In this conversation, we talked to Yifan from The Athletic and Siqi from the Brooklyn Nets, and delved into the factors beyond mere statistics, exploring the obstacles these athletes had to overcome for women's basketball to achieve its current prominence.


【时间轴 The When】


00:00 今年的大学女篮有多火？


15:45 男篮和女篮收入差距能有多大？当女篮在要求涨薪水的时候他们在要求什么？


24:30 假设天降两个非常有天赋的初中生——凯文和凯莉杜兰特，他们从新秀到退役的职业道路会有什么不同？


52:17 为什么不能让篮筐低一点呢？


01:13:18 站在女性、少数族裔、酷儿交叉口的WNBA


00:00 How popular is women's college basketball this year?


15:45 Exploring the income gap between men's and women's basketball: What highlighting this disparity matters? It's not just about income.


24:30 Imagining two highly talented middle school students—Kevin and Kelly Durant—dropped into the world: How would their career trajectories differ from rookies to retirement?


52:17 Why isn't the basketball hoop height lowered for women?


01:13:18 The WNBA at the intersection of gender, racial, and LGBTQ+ identities



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除了播客以外，疲惫娇娃的几个女的在小红书上开了官方账号，我们会不定期发布【疲惫在读】、【疲惫在看】、【疲惫旅行】、【疲惫Vlog】等等更加轻盈、好玩、实验性质的内容。如果你想知道除了播客以外我们在关注什么，快来小红书评论区和我们互动。

Apart from the podcast, we have set up an official account on Xiaohongshu. We will periodically post content such as “CyberPink Reading,” “CyberPink Watching,” “CyberPink Traveling,” “CyberPink Vlog,” and more. Those are lighter, more fun and more experimental stuff about our lives. Leave us some comments on Xiaohongshu!

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第96届奥斯卡颁奖典礼在两天前刚刚结束，疲惫娇娃在所有奖项公布之后录了一期播客来聊聊我们当下的感受和反应。在奥斯卡这个奖项在过去的很多年被反复的质疑、挑战之后，在以“学院奖”自居的奥斯卡看起来越来越和时代精神脱节时，我们还是想借助这个颁奖典礼，来重新审视“学院奖”和2023年许多电影（比如《芭比》）和社会事件（比如全世界正在发生的战争）的交织和互动，从而去审视支撑它的历史包袱、权力、固化和正在逐步调整的审美——以及，为什么它仍旧是电影节的最高奖项？赢得它，或者不赢得它，提名，或者不被它提名，意味着什么。

The CyberPink squad is back with an episode on the recently wrapped 96th Academy Awards!

Over the past few years, the Academy Awards have faced a lot of questioning and criticism. As the self-proclaimed pinnacle of cinematic excellence, the Academy is struggling to maintain its reputation and convince people of its relevance. But the Oscars ceremony still provides an interesting lens to examine how this major cultural institution addresses ongoing events - from the writers and actors strikes to the conflict in Gaza. Which films, actors and actresses win ultimately is not based on merit, but on a myriad of factors and a relentless awards season campaign that has become the norm of the industry, a profound legacy of none other than Harvey Weinstein and his company Miramax.

We discuss the history of Oscars, its genre bias, and what we think about the “Barbie snub.”

【时间轴 The When】


00:00 颁奖典礼的回顾和高光时刻


08:23 颁奖典礼外，加沙和乌克兰的战火


21:04 奥斯卡的种族多样性进步了吗？


25:02 奥斯卡颁奖的竞选游戏，包括宣传策略和资源投入


33:05 奥斯卡的类型偏见


48:12 女性导演和女性主导电影在奥斯卡中的困境，特别是对《Barbie》和《Poor Things》的讨论


56:42 彩蛋：没想到我们还能继续聊poor things


00:00 Highlights and memorable moments of the 2024 Oscars Awards


08:23 Addressing the war in Gaza and Ukraine


21:04 Is the Oscars doing better in diversity?


25:02 The bloodsport of Oscars campaigning


33:05 The Academy’s genre bias


48:12 Ongoing challenges of female filmmakers in the industry


56:42 Yet more on "Poor Things"



【拓展链接 The Links】

Oscar Wars: A History of Hollywood in Gold, Sweat, and Tears
I Still Believe in the Power of Sexual Freedom
Jonathan Glazer’s Oscar Speech Becomes Latest Battleground in Israel-Gaza Conflict
BarbieGate: Why All Oscars Snubs Are Not Created Equal
The profound weirdness of Robert Downey Jr.’s Oscar win — and the category he won
Is A24, the Indie Upstart with a Fresh Best-Picture Win, the Next Miramax?

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除了播客以外，疲惫娇娃的几个女的在小红书上开了官方账号，我们会不定期发布【疲惫在读】、【疲惫在看】、【疲惫旅行】、【疲惫Vlog】等等更加轻盈、好玩、实验性质的内容。如果你想知道除了播客以外我们在关注什么，快来小红书评论区和我们互动。

Apart from the podcast, we have set up an official account on Xiaohongshu. We will periodically post content such as “CyberPink Reading,” “CyberPink Watching,” “CyberPink Traveling,” “CyberPink Vlog,” and more. Those are lighter, more fun and more experimental stuff about our lives. Leave us some comments on Xiaohongshu!

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【聊了什么The What】

奥斯卡提名的作品《美国小说》American Fiction讲述了一个陷入这样的创作难题的黑人作家Monk——在以自己作为主体的Monk自己的书不被出版界和读者买账，却发现一部“迎合白人观众、贩卖黑人创伤和贫困”的书却大卖。于是Monk决定用通过写一部充满所以刻板印象的“黑人文学”去反抗自己的命运。但是却遭遇了一系列的家庭变故。

把这个故事翻译到疲惫娇娃熟悉的语境中，我们也能找到共通的挑战：女性书写女性的苦难一定是“吃女权饭”吗？亚裔书写亚裔的创伤是“迎合白人观众”吗？如何在忠于自我生活的创作中，同时能够获得创作的体面（收入、关注等等）？如何演绎生活的复杂度，同时也能鼓励其他族群的人和“我”共情？

一个很会写的女的Caiwei也加入了这场对话。

The Oscar-nominated work "American Fiction" tells the story of Thelonius “Monk” Ellison, a Black writer who finds himself in a creative dilemma. Out of anger, spite, and disappointment in the publishing industry status quo, he takes up a pen name and writes a piece of "Black literature" filled with stereotypes as a form of rebellion, yet the publishing world gobbles it all up.

The movie, when translated into familiar contexts, reveals universal challenges: Is it merely a form of capitalizing on feminism when women write about women's suffering? Is it catering to white audiences when Asians write about Asian trauma? How can one stay true to their own life experiences in their creative work, while also achieving dignity in creation (income, attention, etc.)? How can the complexity of life be conveyed in a way that also encourages empathy from people of other ethnic groups?

Caiwei, our a talented female writer friend, also joins this dialogue.

【时间轴 The When】

00:00 电影《美国小说》和电影导演编剧Cord Jefferson

05:58 对家庭故事部分的讨论，包括男主角Monk的家庭背景和家族创伤：人生的复杂度和混乱从Monk的角度徐徐展开

17:39 电影中对白人出版界人物的扁平化描写和对白人观众的讽刺

34:00 故事中穿插着故事，这个电影是一个三个圆嵌套的非常meta的结构; 女作家和Monk是互通的，而不是互为对立

40:59 电影结尾的开放式处理和对创作者能讲怎样的故事的探讨

01:00:23 我们值得看到真诚、细腻的少数族裔故事

00:00 “American Fiction”: overview of this Oscar-nominated movie and its creator: screenwriter-turned-director Cord Jefferson

05:58 The duality of the movie: intertwining storylines of the literary plot and the family drama, the complexity of life as a middle-aged man, all from protagonist Monk’s point of view

17:39 The intentional one-dimensional portrayal of characters in the publishing industry and the satirization of a white audience

34:00 The meta structure of this movie’s storytelling

40:59 Our discussion around the choice for an open-ended ending and what kind of creators are allowed to tell what kinds of stories

01:00:23 We all deserve to see authentic and nuanced stories

01:06:55 Bella's patricide, reconciliation with her father, and eventual symbolic rebirth as her father

【拓展链接 The Links】

https://tinhouse.com/on-pandering/

【疲惫红书 CyberRed】

除了播客以外，疲惫娇娃的几个女的在小红书上开了官方账号，我们会不定期发布【疲惫在读】、【疲惫在看】、【疲惫旅行】、【疲惫Vlog】等等更加轻盈、好玩、实验性质的内容。如果你想知道除了播客以外我们在关注什么，快来小红书评论区和我们互动。

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【聊了什么The What】

《可怜的东西》是一部关于剥削与女性命运的丰富、引人深思、扭曲的成长故事。在跟随好奇而大胆的主角贝拉·巴克斯特的两个小时里，我们闯入了贝拉的生活中，同时收获了一种“有益的混乱”——能够帮助我们理解了一系列复杂的问题：在一个企图界定和限制女性的世界里寻求女性自主权，性工作作为一种艰苦、剥削性质的劳动，以及在某种程度上，生物黑客技术和CRISPR伦理问题。

Poor Things is a juicy, chewy, twisted coming-of-age fable about exploitation and womanhood. The two hours we spent following the curious, bold protagonist Balla Baxter provided a helpful chaos for us to metabolize an array of complex problems: the pursuit of female autonomy in a world seeking to define and confine it, the nature of sex work as gritty, exploitative labor, and, at some point, the ethics of biohacking and CRISPR.

【时间轴 The When】

00:00 今年颁奖季的宠儿Poor Things以及为什么我们要重新录制这集播客

04:04 我们对于这个电影的第一感受

10:10 “成熟女人的身体与婴儿的心智“——为什么我们对于Bella的担心程度随着她的旅程展开而忽上忽下？

13:45 Poor Things是一部彻底翻转过来的《洛丽塔》？

23:40 (假装我们在聊这部电影）电影的设定导致我们去思考了文本中复杂的性同意

35:47 Poor Things的科幻设定——人类为何恐惧技术？Bella是一个关于AI的角色（？？？），科学设定和伦理困境

45:30 我们对于现有科技以及特权人群改造人体的探讨

51:12 从事性工作的Bella和她的劳工意识觉醒

01:06:55 Bella弑父，和父亲和解，最后“变成父亲”的旅程

00:00 Poor Things - This awards season's darling - and why we're re-recording this podcast

04:04 Our first impressions of the film

10:10 "A mature woman's body with an infant's mind" - Why do our concerns over Bella fluctuate throughout her journey?

13:45 Is Poor Things a thoroughly inverted Lolita?

23:40 (Pretending we're discussing the film) - How the storyline prompts pondering complex consent ethics within the text

35:47 Poor Things' sci-fi premise - Why does technology unnerve humanity? Is Bella an allegory for AI (?) - scientific concepts and ethical dilemmas

45:30 Our exploration of current technologies and how privileged groups alter human bodies

51:12 Bella's awakened labor consciousness after entering sex work

01:06:55 Bella's patricide, reconciliation with her father, and eventual symbolic rebirth as her father

【拓展链接 The Links】

https://www.jstor.org/stable/10.5149/9781469661940_berg

https://www.thelancet.com/series/HIV-and-sex-workers

https://www.thecut.com/2014/01/qa-the-woman-debunking-myths-about-sex-work.html

https://pwd.org.au/sex-work-and-the-ndis-frequently-asked-questions/

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