Spoiled Girlie Support Group Elle Ray

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In this episode, Elle discusses the detrimental impacts of hookup culture and the behaviors of certain men. She criticizes men who irresponsibly impregnate women and then coerce them into terminations, labeling such behavior as psychopathic. Elle zeroes in on a popular podcaster, referred to as Pumbaa, who allegedly got a woman pregnant and then asked her to terminate. This incident sparks a broader conversation about men who degrade women publicly but engage privately with the very women they belittle. Elle argues that hookup culture is psychopathic and that supposed 'liberation' often still serves patriarchal interests. The episode ends with a call to action for listeners to recognize their own worth and value outside of men's validation.

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In this episode, Elle covers why the ultimate PICKME never gets picked because of the FREE BIRD THEORY. She also critiques "red pillers" who seek to adopt traditional roles without having been raised in them and so they take the worst parts of tradition and pass it off as the real thing. This episode is part of the "spoiled girlie support group" series where Elle encourages discernment, choosing the best parts of various ideologies to navigate the systems women live under. 

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In this episode, Elle delves into the topic of parents using their children for personal gain, especially focusing on mothers who prioritize their own desires for validation, fame, and wealth over their children's well-being. She discusses notable cases such as the experiences of Jennette McCurdy, Wren Eleanor, and Gypsy Rose. Elle concludes the podcast by arguing that the societal pressure to not criticize mothers allows harmful behaviors to go unchecked, causing significant harm to their children. She encourages listeners to differentiate between unnecessary mom shaming and pointing out endangering behavior.

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In this episode, Elle discusses the concept of 50/50 relationships and explains why she believes such men are in survival mode. She emphasizes the need for women to prioritize their own needs and not to justify or defend their positions to 50/50 men. Elle points out that being in a relationship with a man is labor and risk, and that the 50/50 concept often only applies to finances, while women still end up doing the majority of physical and emotional labor. Elle suggests that women who live with their parents rent-free and debt-free are being set up for success by their parents, a privilege that 50/50 men may potentially undermine. She concludes by advising women to leave 50/50 men alone, as they are in survival mode and are not likely to provide the support and financial stability.

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In this episode, Elle discusses the concerning the safety of women in NYC. She highlights the disturbing trend of men resorting to hurting women when they cannot access women, and the societal and systemic issues that contribute to this. She criticizes the language that often absolves men of their actions and urges listeners to examine these issues critically. She emphasizes the need for respectful conversations, allowing room for diverse opinions and experiences, and the importance of not letting women’s empathy and compassion be exploited.

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In this episode, Elle makes a bold confession: she is basic and perfectly fine with it. She discusses how the fear of being 'basic' is tied to internalized misogyny and class anxiety. Elle argues that being 'basic' or similar to other women is not a crime but a neutral aspect that stems from shared ideas and influences. Elle emphasizes that being 'basic' is essentially a reflection of what is popular or accepted by the majority. She suggests that women are good at distilling information and sharing recommendations, making life easier for others. Elle explores the fear of being 'basic' as a manifestation of internalized misogyny and how it conditions women to divide and distrust each other. She then delves into the class implications of being 'basic', referring to the TV show "Emily in Paris" as an example. Elle ends the episode by urging listeners to be okay with being 'basic', to love themselves, and to realize that this self-acceptance can lead to a collective awakening.