Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide Dr. Jessica Higgins
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The Empowered Relationship Podcast helps you turn relationship challenges into opportunities and sets you up for relationship success, satisfaction, and intimacy.
This podcast is designed to inspire, motivate, and guide individuals and couples into more empowered, conscious, and evolved ways of loving.
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ERP 429: How To Reprogram Core Wounds For Better Living & Loving — An Interview With Thais Gibson
At the core of many relationship struggles lie deeply ingrained wounds from our past, shaping how we perceive ourselves and interact with others. These wounds, often formed in childhood, can manifest as insecurities, fears, and maladaptive coping mechanisms in adult relationships.
As an example, individuals with deep-seated abandonment wounds struggle to trust or embrace intimacy, resulting in clinginess or avoidance behaviors. Similarly, those with worthiness wounds may constantly seek validation or struggle to assert their needs confidently. These patterns sow seeds of conflict, communication breakdowns, and emotional distance, impeding intimacy and connection.
In this episode, we delve into how understanding and addressing these core wounds can transform relationship dynamics. By exploring the origins of these wounds and their manifestations in adult relationships, we uncover actionable strategies for healing and growth. Through this insightful conversation, listeners gain valuable tools to navigate their own core wounds and foster healthier, more fulfilling connections.
Thais Gibson is a counselor and co-founder of The Personal Development School, with a Ph.D., and over 13 certifications in modalities, such as CBT, NLP, somatic experiencing, internal family systems, and shadow work. She is an expert in attachment theory and her research is extending the frontier of psychology with her modern Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory™, and she is the author of Learning Love: Build the Best Relationships of Your Life Using Integrated Attachment.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 6:53 Tyese Gibson’s journey through adversity and addiction to transformation.
12:12 The importance of addressing deeper emotional layers and primary attachment needs to achieve lasting change.
22:32 Reprogramming the subconscious for better relationships.
27:03 Thais explains her integrative approach to attachment therapy, which combines multiple modalities.
41:36 The power of inner work in relationship dynamics.
Mentioned Learning Love: Learning Love: Build the Best Relationships of Your Life Using Integrated Attachment Theory (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love
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If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.
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ERP 428: The Dynamic That 80% Of Distressed Couples Face — An Interview With Jennifer Nurick
Ever wondered why your relationship feels like a never-ending cycle of conflict and distance? In this episode, we delve into the common dynamics experienced by 80% of distressed couples, with a particular focus on the anxious and avoidant attachment styles.
This episode provides actionable guidance to regulate emotions, establish safety, and overcome attachment injuries. Discover a five-stage process for fostering intimacy, promoting personal and relational development. Learn practical strategies to address core emotions, halt escalating conflicts, and pave the way for secure, fulfilling connections. Whether you're dealing with an anxious-avoidant dynamic or looking to deepen your understanding of attachment, this episode provides valuable tools and insights to transform your relationship.
Jennifer Nurick (Jen) specialises in healing anxious attachment, attachment injuries and childhood trauma. She is a licensed Clinical Psychotherapist, Couple Therapist, Energetic Healer, and author of “Heal Your Anxious Attachment”. She is the founder and voice of Psychotherapy Central. She has been working in the healing space for over 20 years, combining Eastern energetic practices and Western psychotherapy. She offers transformational courses to help individuals and couples heal trauma and build secure long-term relationships.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 09:32 Jennifer Nurick shares her journey of discovery and expertise in the realm of attachment dynamics.
18:10 The complexities of relational wounds and the quest for secure attachment.
25:01 Therapy as a haven for confronting and processing emotional injuries.
32:48 The unburdening process in internal family systems therapy.
38:09 Navigating attachment dynamics in distressed relationships.
51:33 Healing anxious and avoidant attachment styles in relationships.
Mentioned Psychotherapy Online Course Catalog
Heal Your Anxious Attachment: Release Past Trauma, Cultivate Secure Relationships, and Nurture a Deeper Sense of Self (*Amazon affiliate link) (book)
ERP 423: How to Transcend Trauma (And the Effects Experience in Relationship) — An Interview with Dr. Frank Anderson
Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love
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If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.
Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.
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ERP 427: How to Construct Questions That Cultivate Deeper Connection — An Interview with Topaz Adizes
Fostering genuine connections can feel daunting in a world filled with distractions and surface-level interactions. Many individuals struggle to find the right way to communicate, leading to misunderstandings and emotional distance in relationships.
In this episode, we explore the art of refining communication through strategic question construction. While you can’t control the answers you receive, you can shape them by framing your questions thoughtfully.
Discover practical insights and strategies to cultivate meaningful dialogue and forge authentic bonds with others. Join us on a journey to harness the potential of curiosity and intentionality in your conversations, paving the way for richer, more fulfilling relationships.
Topaz Adizes is an Emmy award-winning writer, director, and experienced design architect. He is an Edmund Hillary fellow and Sundance/Skoll Stories of Change fellow. His works have been selected to Cannes, Sundance, IDFA, and SXSW, featured in New Yorker magazine, Vanity Fair, and the NewYork Times; and have garnered an Emmy for new approaches to documentary and Two World Press photo awards for immersive storytelling and interactive documentary. He is the founder and executive director of the experience design studio The Skin Deep. Topaz studied philosophy at UC Berkeley and Oxford University.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 05:51 Topaz’s journey from filmmaking to experience design.
10:36 Harnessing the power of intimate questions for better relationships.
14:06 How the quality and nature of questions significantly influence our experiences and outcomes.
17:56 Five key traits of effective questions.
32:28 Cultivating authentic connections through curious inquiry.
38:20 The importance of creating space for meaningful connection.
Mentioned 12 Questions for Love (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
{The And} (videos)
The Skin Deep - Creating The Space To Explore (card decks & shop) Enter in “DRJESSICA” for 15% off (*Affiliate link)
Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love
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If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.
Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.
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ERP 426: How To Consider & Discuss End Of Life Care In Relationship — An Interview With Dr. Bob and Elizabeth Uslander
Navigating end-of-life conversations can be emotionally challenging and riddled with uncertainties. Many individuals and families struggle to broach topics surrounding preferences for care, leaving them ill-prepared for crucial decisions during times of crisis.
In this episode, we embark on a journey to explore practical strategies and insights aimed at facilitating these delicate discussions with compassion and clarity. By providing actionable guidance and fostering a deeper understanding of end-of-life care, this episode equips listeners with the tools needed to approach these conversations thoughtfully, empowering them to honor personal values and preferences with confidence.
Dr. Bob and Elizabeth Uslander co-founded Empowered Endings, a unique palliative and end-of-life care model addressing the physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual needs of patients and families. Bob Uslander, MD, received his Medical Degree from the UCLA Geffen School of Medicine and practiced medicine in Emergency, Palliative, and end-of-life care for over 30 years.
Elizabeth Uslander, MSW MTS, received her BA cum laude from Georgetown University and earned her Master's degrees at USC and Wesley Theological Seminary.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 03:49 Bob’s transition from emergency medicine to palliative care and the founding of Empowered Endings with Elizabeth.
09:12 Elizabeth’s journey in spiritual care and social work shaping palliative and end of life care focus.
11:47 Integrating end-of-life doulas in comprehensive care planning and support.
18:48 The importance of having proactive, intentional discussions about end-of-life preferences within couples.
32:54 The role of spiritual practices and emotional connection in navigating end-of-life conversations within relationships.
38:29 Cultivating readiness and practical tools for end-of-life conversations.
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Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love
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ERP 425: How To Find The Growth Opportunity In An Argument — An Interview With Linda Bloom
Ever wondered how happy couples navigate irreconcilable differences and still thrive? Arguments in relationships are both inevitable and impactful. While they often stir up feelings of frustration, anger, and sadness, they also hold the potential for profound growth and understanding between partners. When managed with care and intention, conflicts can uncover deep-seated issues, foster better communication, and ultimately strengthen the bond.
In this episode, we explore how conflicts can become opportunities for growth and deeper connection. By focusing on emotional regulation, curiosity, and taking responsibility, couples can navigate differences with more understanding and empathy. Learn practical strategies for creating a safe environment and fostering open communication, transforming challenges into stepping stones for a stronger, more empowered relationship. Gain valuable insights and actionable tips to help you and your partner grow together through the ups and downs.
Linda Bloom, L.C.S.W. is a psychotherapist and marriage counselor who teaches relationship workshops throughout the world. She and her husband, Charlie Bloom are co-authors of the widely acclaimed book, 101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married, Simple Lessons to Make Love Last, and Secrets of Great Marriages: Real Truths from Real Couples About Lasting Love, An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships and more.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 4:20 Cultivating a thirst for growth: Linda Bloom’s path to a harmonious relationship with her husband after a rocky beginning.
12:51 Balancing differences: How mutual respect and curiosity foster harmonious relationships.
19:02 Mastering the art of handling differences: A key to achieving optimal relational well-being for couples.
27:24 Strategies for managing heated conversations and building stronger connections in relationships.
37:46 Navigating conflicts through emotional regulation and sincere communication.
44:56 How emotional maturity and practical resources can strengthen your relationship.
Mentioned 101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married: Simple Lessons to Make Love Last (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
Secrets of Great Marriages: Real Truth from Real Couples about Lasting Love (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
The Gottman Institute
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ERP 424: How to Stand Firm in Your Boundaries — An Interview with Dr. Abby Medcalf
The absence of clear personal boundaries can lead to numerous challenges in relationships. Without defined boundaries, individuals may find themselves constantly overwhelmed by the demands and expectations of others, leading to feelings of resentment, frustration, and even powerlessness. Moreover, conflicts can escalate, communication can break down, and genuine connection becomes increasingly elusive without firm boundaries in place. Essentially, the problem of not having boundaries manifests as a pervasive struggle to maintain authenticity, self-respect, and healthy interpersonal dynamics.
In this episode, the discussion centers on the transformative power of consistently upholding boundaries despite potential pushback. Through insightful anecdotes and practical advice, listeners will gain valuable insights into identifying their core needs, overcoming fear, and building trust within relationships. Whether grappling with familial, professional, or personal boundaries, this episode offers actionable strategies for asserting oneself and cultivating fulfilling connections.
Abby Medcalf is a Relationship Maven, psychologist, author, podcast host, and TEDx speaker who helps people think differently so they can create connection, ease, and joy in their relationships. She brings a fresh perspective to life’s struggles using humor, research, and her direct, no-nonsense style. She's the author of “Boundaries Made Easy”, bestseller “Be Happily Married, Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing”, and hosts the top-rated Relationships Made Easy Podcast, reaching 170+ countries.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 4:59 From addiction to authority: Abby Medcalf’s journey to boundary mastery.
9:43 Understanding boundaries as not just a component, but a fundamental structure in relationships and business dynamics.
12:23 The impact of congruence between conscious and subconscious signals on how others perceive and respond to us.
20:07 Understanding the spectrum of boundaries and the impact of disregarding them.
27:06 Establishing clear standards and responses for personal empowerment.
39:22 Defining personal standards and boundaries for empowered relationships.
47:49 Making your way from complaints to core needs.
Mentioned Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Ease and Joy (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won't Do a Thing (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
Feelings Chart (*Hoffman Institute link) (pdf)
Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love
Shifting Criticism For Connected Communication
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