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Tracy Malone, a narcissistic abuse and divorce coach, is here to discuss strategies when divorcing a narcissist. She defines narcissism and explains the difference between someone with narcissistic behaviors and someone diagnosed as a narcissist.
Tracy highlights the financial and legal abuse tactics commonly used by narcissists during divorce, such as hiding money, cutting off financial support, and obstructing the legal process. She emphasizes the importance of protecting oneself financially and legally by including conflict resolution policies and consequences for non-compliance in the divorce decree.
Get Tracy’s parenting plan course here:  https://parentingplans.org/
Tracy’s book Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can’t Make This Shit Up! https://amzn.to/3PVtTBo

Marissa Baker, a certified life coach and host of the Sun Happens podcast, shares her experiences and insights on finding joy after divorce. At 29 years old, Marissa was going through her SECOND divorce, so she speaks from experience.
We talk about the shaming culture surrounding divorce and the need to acknowledge and process emotions. Marissa also highlights the power of turning divorce into something wonderful and creating a sense of community for divorced women. She encourages trusting one's intuition and finding what truly makes YOU happy. There is power in connecting with others who have experienced divorce, which is why she has helped launch XXO Connect and is their Chief Growth Officer.
You can find Marissa on TikTok: @themarissabaker
Download Marissa's chapter in the book You Can Overcome Anything! With Love: https://www.divorcemoneyguide.com/courses/downloads/2157044654/you_can_overcome_anything_divorce_happens-pdf
 

Tracy Coenen is talking about the importance of planning for your divorce so your finances will be protected, you can keep your divorce costs down, and you can get the best settlement. It is important to approach divorce with a methodical and strategic mindset.
The steps you should take to plan for your divorce include: understand the divorce process, protect yourself, find the right attorney, get your documents, organize your documents, give the documents to your attorney, and be strategic.
Having a strategy for your divorce can save you money on attorney's fees and lead to better settlements. Knowing your numbers is essential to getting what you deserve in your divorce.
PREPARE For Divorce guide: https://www.divorcemoneyguide.com/prepare

Aaron Thomas, known as Prenup Guy, is here to talk with us about prenuptial agreements and second marriages. If you’re getting divorced, the last thing you’re probably thinking about is getting married again. But many divorced women WILL get married again, so it is important to protect their finances with a prenup.
There are many misconceptions about prenups, but Aaron explains that a prenup is simply a set of rules that determine how finances are managed during and after a marriage. It is not just a plan for divorce. Prenups can help establish transparency and facilitate discussions about financial matters during the marriage.
Learn what the “one paycheck rule” is, and hear how prenups protect both spouses… they don’t just benefit the wealthier spouse. Aaron also addresses the complexities of modern marriages and the importance of cohabitation agreements for long-term relationships without marriage.
Get Aaron’s free ebook,  7 Steps to a Marriage-Saving Prenup: https://prenups.com/free-ebook
Check out his book, The Prenup Prescription: Meet the Premarital Contract Designed to Save Your Marriage: https://amzn.to/3u8E2mr

Our guest this week is Leah Wietholter, an accomplished forensic accountant who shows us how easy it is to find hidden money in your divorce. We talk about the need for forensic accountants in some cases, but in many divorce cases people can uncover hidden income and assets on their own.
Leah walks us through using bank statements, credit card statements, and pay stubs to track financial transactions and identify hidden accounts. She emphasizes the importance of organizing and categorizing financial records and provides tips on presenting evidence to your attorney. Making lists of transactions will be important, but you don’t necessarily have to use fancy spreadsheets or know a lot about accounting.
Trust your own knowledge and instincts when investigating your finances!
Leah’s Data Sleuth Podcast
https://www.youtube.com/@WorkmanForensics/videos
Leah’s book Data Sleuth: Using Data in Forensic Accounting Engagements and Fraud Investigations
https://amzn.to/41ImbPB
 

Suzannne Lucas is a human resources expert and writer who is best known as the Evil HR Lady. She is here to talk about  navigating the job market after a divorce and career gap. There are both financial considerations and emotional hurdles  that a stay-at-home mom faces when re-entering the workforce.
We hear about Suzanne’s personal experience as a single mom and she offers advice on taking control of your life and career.  There is discrimination against stay-at-home moms, but Suzanne gives us strategies for addressing employment gaps during interviews. We talk about highlighting the skills developed as a SAHM, how to answer some of the most common interview questions, and whether you should negotiate a job offer.
Find Suzanne here:
Evil HR Lady website:  https://www.evilhrlady.org/
Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/suzannemlucas/